Tell someone how you feel Trust Healthy Yes “Not today, I am tired and need to rest” Respect Everyone "No thank you, I don't want a hug" No Yes No “Stop, that hurts my feelings” Yes Ask first “I need a break. I’ll come back later.” “Please move back, I need more space” Adult Yes Boundary Treating people kindly “Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.” Help Okay Ask for help Tell someone how you feel Trust Healthy Yes “Not today, I am tired and need to rest” Respect Everyone "No thank you, I don't want a hug" No Yes No “Stop, that hurts my feelings” Yes Ask first “I need a break. I’ll come back later.” “Please move back, I need more space” Adult Yes Boundary Treating people kindly “Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.” Help Okay Ask for help
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Tell someone how you feel
O-Trust
I-Healthy
G-Yes
O-“Not today, I am tired and need to rest”
G-Respect
G-Everyone
O-"No thank you, I don't want a hug"
N-No
O-Yes
N-No
B-“Stop, that hurts my feelings”
I-Yes
G-Ask first
I-“I need a break. I’ll come back later.”
I-“Please move back, I need more space”
N-Adult
O-Yes
B-Boundary
G-Treating people kindly
B-“Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.”
B-Help
I-Okay
B-Ask for help