Adult Tell someone how you feel “Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.” "No thank you, I don't want a hug" “Please move back, I need more space” Ask for help Respect Trust “Not today, I am tired and need to rest” Yes Everyone Yes Boundary Help Ask first Okay Yes No Treating people kindly “I need a break. I’ll come back later.” “Stop, that hurts my feelings” No Yes Healthy Adult Tell someone how you feel “Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.” "No thank you, I don't want a hug" “Please move back, I need more space” Ask for help Respect Trust “Not today, I am tired and need to rest” Yes Everyone Yes Boundary Help Ask first Okay Yes No Treating people kindly “I need a break. I’ll come back later.” “Stop, that hurts my feelings” No Yes Healthy
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Adult
N-Tell someone how you feel
B-“Please talk quieter. It’s too loud for me.”
O-"No thank you, I don't want a hug"
I-“Please move back, I need more space”
B-Ask for help
G-Respect
O-Trust
O-“Not today, I am tired and need to rest”
O-Yes
G-Everyone
I-Yes
B-Boundary
B-Help
G-Ask first
I-Okay
O-Yes
N-No
G-Treating people kindly
I-“I need a break. I’ll come back later.”
B-“Stop, that hurts my feelings”
N-No
G-Yes
I-Healthy