(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Focus on minor detail to avoid the main issue
"I'm confused too"
Changing subject then accountability happens
"you're important to me" without clarifying how
Gaslighting
"I don't want to ruin our friendship
"I care about you too much"
Sudden trauma dumping
Treating your feelings as a misunderstanding
Bringing up shared memories to rekindle attachment
Suggests hanging out as "friends" soon
Leaving the door open "maybe some day"
Selective Memory "That's not how I remember it"
"I need to work on myself first"
Answering questions with questions
Turning the talk into a meta discussion about the talk itself
"We both did things"
Acting overwhelmed
Tears/Emotional Shutdown that derails conversation
Framing problem as communications issue instead of behaviour
Claiming she needs time to think(without timeline)
