(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Selective Memory "That's not how I remember it"
"I don't want to ruin our friendship
"you're important to me" without clarifying how
Treating your feelings as a misunderstanding
"I don't want to label things"
Focus on minor detail to avoid the main issue
Tears/Emotional Shutdown that derails conversation
Bringing up shared memories to rekindle attachment
Acting overwhelmed
Leaving the door open "maybe some day"
"We both did things"
Gaslighting
Claiming she didn't notice the pattern
Suggests hanging out as "friends" soon
Sudden trauma dumping
Claiming she needs time to think(without timeline)
"You're overthinking this"
Answering questions with questions
Turning the talk into a meta discussion about the talk itself
"I need to work on myself first"
Framing problem as communications issue instead of behaviour
