Actingoverwhelmed"You'reoverthinkingthis"SuddentraumadumpingTreating yourfeelings as amisunderstandingTurning the talkinto a metadiscussionabout the talkitselfTears/EmotionalShutdown thatderailsconversationSuggestshanging outas "friends"soon"I'mconfusedtoo"GaslightingChangingsubject thenaccountabilityhappens"I need towork onmyselffirst"Claiming sheneeds timetothink(withouttimeline)"I careabout youtoo much"Focus onminor detailto avoid themain issue"you'reimportant tome" withoutclarifyinghowClaimingshe didn'tnotice thepattern"I don'twant toruin ourfriendshipLeaving thedoor open"maybesome day"SelectiveMemory"That's nothow Iremember it"Framingproblem ascommunicationsissue instead ofbehaviour"I don'twant tolabelthings"Bringing upsharedmemories torekindleattachment"Weboth didthings"AnsweringquestionswithquestionsActingoverwhelmed"You'reoverthinkingthis"SuddentraumadumpingTreating yourfeelings as amisunderstandingTurning the talkinto a metadiscussionabout the talkitselfTears/EmotionalShutdown thatderailsconversationSuggestshanging outas "friends"soon"I'mconfusedtoo"GaslightingChangingsubject thenaccountabilityhappens"I need towork onmyselffirst"Claiming sheneeds timetothink(withouttimeline)"I careabout youtoo much"Focus onminor detailto avoid themain issue"you'reimportant tome" withoutclarifyinghowClaimingshe didn'tnotice thepattern"I don'twant toruin ourfriendshipLeaving thedoor open"maybesome day"SelectiveMemory"That's nothow Iremember it"Framingproblem ascommunicationsissue instead ofbehaviour"I don'twant tolabelthings"Bringing upsharedmemories torekindleattachment"Weboth didthings"Answeringquestionswithquestions

The talk - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Acting overwhelmed
  2. "You're overthinking this"
  3. Sudden trauma dumping
  4. Treating your feelings as a misunderstanding
  5. Turning the talk into a meta discussion about the talk itself
  6. Tears/Emotional Shutdown that derails conversation
  7. Suggests hanging out as "friends" soon
  8. "I'm confused too"
  9. Gaslighting
  10. Changing subject then accountability happens
  11. "I need to work on myself first"
  12. Claiming she needs time to think(without timeline)
  13. "I care about you too much"
  14. Focus on minor detail to avoid the main issue
  15. "you're important to me" without clarifying how
  16. Claiming she didn't notice the pattern
  17. "I don't want to ruin our friendship
  18. Leaving the door open "maybe some day"
  19. Selective Memory "That's not how I remember it"
  20. Framing problem as communications issue instead of behaviour
  21. "I don't want to label things"
  22. Bringing up shared memories to rekindle attachment
  23. "We both did things"
  24. Answering questions with questions