Describethe situationusing "I"statementsIdentifyspecificemotionsyou’reexperiencingStay focusedon your goalduring theconversationExpressfeelings with“I feel…”statementsShowgratitude fortheirunderstandingor cooperationAvoidblamingothers whenexpressingemotionsState yourneedsfirmly butpolitelyStatewhat’shappeningneutrallyExpress howyour requestbenefits bothpeopleStick to thepresentmoment—don’t bringup the pastExplain thepositiveresults ofrespectingyour needsMaintaincalm andconfidentbodylanguageHighlighthow theother personwill gain fromcomplyingDescribethe factswithoutemotionsBe confidentwhenassertingyour needsAvoidapologizingwhen askingforsomethingShare howthe situationmakes youfeelemotionallySet aboundary inan assertivemannerAvoiddistractionsthat derailtheconversationOffer acompromiseoralternativeAsk forwhat youwant clearlyand directlyAvoid blameoraccusationswhendescribingMake eyecontact andkeep yourposture openUse clearand directlanguage foryouremotionsReinforcethe positiveoutcomewithappreciationDescribethe situationusing "I"statementsIdentifyspecificemotionsyou’reexperiencingStay focusedon your goalduring theconversationExpressfeelings with“I feel…”statementsShowgratitude fortheirunderstandingor cooperationAvoidblamingothers whenexpressingemotionsState yourneedsfirmly butpolitelyStatewhat’shappeningneutrallyExpress howyour requestbenefits bothpeopleStick to thepresentmoment—don’t bringup the pastExplain thepositiveresults ofrespectingyour needsMaintaincalm andconfidentbodylanguageHighlighthow theother personwill gain fromcomplyingDescribethe factswithoutemotionsBe confidentwhenassertingyour needsAvoidapologizingwhen askingforsomethingShare howthe situationmakes youfeelemotionallySet aboundary inan assertivemannerAvoiddistractionsthat derailtheconversationOffer acompromiseoralternativeAsk forwhat youwant clearlyand directlyAvoid blameoraccusationswhendescribingMake eyecontact andkeep yourposture openUse clearand directlanguage foryouremotionsReinforcethe positiveoutcomewithappreciation

DEARMAN Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Describe the situation using "I" statements
  2. Identify specific emotions you’re experiencing
  3. Stay focused on your goal during the conversation
  4. Express feelings with “I feel…” statements
  5. Show gratitude for their understanding or cooperation
  6. Avoid blaming others when expressing emotions
  7. State your needs firmly but politely
  8. State what’s happening neutrally
  9. Express how your request benefits both people
  10. Stick to the present moment—don’t bring up the past
  11. Explain the positive results of respecting your needs
  12. Maintain calm and confident body language
  13. Highlight how the other person will gain from complying
  14. Describe the facts without emotions
  15. Be confident when asserting your needs
  16. Avoid apologizing when asking for something
  17. Share how the situation makes you feel emotionally
  18. Set a boundary in an assertive manner
  19. Avoid distractions that derail the conversation
  20. Offer a compromise or alternative
  21. Ask for what you want clearly and directly
  22. Avoid blame or accusations when describing
  23. Make eye contact and keep your posture open
  24. Use clear and direct language for your emotions
  25. Reinforce the positive outcome with appreciation