Maintaincalm andconfidentbodylanguageMake eyecontact andkeep yourposture openSet aboundary inan assertivemannerStick to thepresentmoment—don’t bringup the pastAvoidblamingothers whenexpressingemotionsShare howthe situationmakes youfeelemotionallyIdentifyspecificemotionsyou’reexperiencingShowgratitude fortheirunderstandingor cooperationAsk forwhat youwant clearlyand directlyStay focusedon your goalduring theconversationAvoid blameoraccusationswhendescribingUse clearand directlanguage foryouremotionsExpressfeelings with“I feel…”statementsExpress howyour requestbenefits bothpeopleExplain thepositiveresults ofrespectingyour needsDescribethe factswithoutemotionsHighlighthow theother personwill gain fromcomplyingAvoiddistractionsthat derailtheconversationDescribethe situationusing "I"statementsReinforcethe positiveoutcomewithappreciationOffer acompromiseoralternativeBe confidentwhenassertingyour needsState yourneedsfirmly butpolitelyStatewhat’shappeningneutrallyAvoidapologizingwhen askingforsomethingMaintaincalm andconfidentbodylanguageMake eyecontact andkeep yourposture openSet aboundary inan assertivemannerStick to thepresentmoment—don’t bringup the pastAvoidblamingothers whenexpressingemotionsShare howthe situationmakes youfeelemotionallyIdentifyspecificemotionsyou’reexperiencingShowgratitude fortheirunderstandingor cooperationAsk forwhat youwant clearlyand directlyStay focusedon your goalduring theconversationAvoid blameoraccusationswhendescribingUse clearand directlanguage foryouremotionsExpressfeelings with“I feel…”statementsExpress howyour requestbenefits bothpeopleExplain thepositiveresults ofrespectingyour needsDescribethe factswithoutemotionsHighlighthow theother personwill gain fromcomplyingAvoiddistractionsthat derailtheconversationDescribethe situationusing "I"statementsReinforcethe positiveoutcomewithappreciationOffer acompromiseoralternativeBe confidentwhenassertingyour needsState yourneedsfirmly butpolitelyStatewhat’shappeningneutrallyAvoidapologizingwhen askingforsomething

DEARMAN Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Maintain calm and confident body language
  2. Make eye contact and keep your posture open
  3. Set a boundary in an assertive manner
  4. Stick to the present moment—don’t bring up the past
  5. Avoid blaming others when expressing emotions
  6. Share how the situation makes you feel emotionally
  7. Identify specific emotions you’re experiencing
  8. Show gratitude for their understanding or cooperation
  9. Ask for what you want clearly and directly
  10. Stay focused on your goal during the conversation
  11. Avoid blame or accusations when describing
  12. Use clear and direct language for your emotions
  13. Express feelings with “I feel…” statements
  14. Express how your request benefits both people
  15. Explain the positive results of respecting your needs
  16. Describe the facts without emotions
  17. Highlight how the other person will gain from complying
  18. Avoid distractions that derail the conversation
  19. Describe the situation using "I" statements
  20. Reinforce the positive outcome with appreciation
  21. Offer a compromise or alternative
  22. Be confident when asserting your needs
  23. State your needs firmly but politely
  24. State what’s happening neutrally
  25. Avoid apologizing when asking for something