Often notices who is being left out Worries about being a burden Doesn’t want pity, only understanding More observant than people realise Wonders if people would stay if they stopped being helpful Patient with people who aren’t patient with them Struggles to express when they’re hurt Finds beauty in simple acts of care “I don’t mind” they do Carries loneliness quietly Lots of people underestimate them Worries about disappointing others Takes promises seriously Wants to belong without changing who they are Feels safest when they’re useful Finds it easier to give care rather than receive Learns people’s preferences and remembers them Values sincerity over charm Adapt themselves to make others comfortable Tries to understand before judging Sometimes mistakes self sacrifice for kindness Feels protective towards vulnerable people Has experienced feeling like an outsider Feels gratitude intensely Often notices who is being left out Worries about being a burden Doesn’t want pity, only understanding More observant than people realise Wonders if people would stay if they stopped being helpful Patient with people who aren’t patient with them Struggles to express when they’re hurt Finds beauty in simple acts of care “I don’t mind” they do Carries loneliness quietly Lots of people underestimate them Worries about disappointing others Takes promises seriously Wants to belong without changing who they are Feels safest when they’re useful Finds it easier to give care rather than receive Learns people’s preferences and remembers them Values sincerity over charm Adapt themselves to make others comfortable Tries to understand before judging Sometimes mistakes self sacrifice for kindness Feels protective towards vulnerable people Has experienced feeling like an outsider Feels gratitude intensely
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Often notices who is being left out
Worries about being a burden
Doesn’t want pity, only understanding
More observant than people realise
Wonders if people would stay if they stopped being helpful
Patient with people who aren’t patient with them
Struggles to express when they’re hurt
Finds beauty in simple acts of care
“I don’t mind” they do
Carries loneliness quietly
Lots of people underestimate them
Worries about disappointing others
Takes promises seriously
Wants to belong without changing who they are
Feels safest when they’re useful
Finds it easier to give care rather than receive
Learns people’s preferences and remembers them
Values sincerity over charm
Adapt themselves to make others comfortable
Tries to understand before judging
Sometimes mistakes self sacrifice for kindness
Feels protective towards vulnerable people
Has experienced feeling like an outsider
Feels gratitude intensely
