I am likedby someand I lovemyselfCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassKeep Calmand use "I"statementsI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itProgressiveMuscleRelaxationI find himdisrespectfulto meIpracticegratitudeInsteadof "It isterrible"Let unhelpfulthoughtspass likecloudsDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I accept Ican'tchangeothersIappreciatethecomplimentI can standeven whenI do notlikeStopandChooseGuidedMeditationInstead of"have to" Ichoose toTakeseveraldeepbreathsAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryCount to100 beforerespondingI do notlike theway he isactingExerciseTreat selfand otherswithrespectI will not diefrom a panicattack. I willbreathethrough itCall afriend wholistensIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!Laugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyTake atime-out"It isunfortunate"Write inmyjournalInstead of"I should""I could"Positiveself talkLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemBeattentiveto themomentNoteveryonehas to likemeI can learnand growfrom thisI controlmy angerand I havemore funAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?I feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayI do notlikehis/herbehaviorBeKindI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkA.C.T.Let itGoInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"I practiceself-compassionand kindnessI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XInstead of"can't stand"I don't careforThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careMusic/DanceI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyEngage ina favoriteactivityTheseanxiousfeelingswill passMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-I'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyUrgeSurfingI amgrateful tobe aliveThere aresome waysI would liketo improveAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceI will focuson what IcancontrolForgiveHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifePainting/Drawing/ColoringI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyI accept Ican'tchangethe PastYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you chooseI am likedby someand I lovemyselfCompassionatekindness is mymoral compassKeep Calmand use "I"statementsI wish shewere not thatway but I canhandle itProgressiveMuscleRelaxationI find himdisrespectfulto meIpracticegratitudeInsteadof "It isterrible"Let unhelpfulthoughtspass likecloudsDo I holdontounrealistic"shoulds"?I accept Ican'tchangeothersIappreciatethecomplimentI can standeven whenI do notlikeStopandChooseGuidedMeditationInstead of"have to" Ichoose toTakeseveraldeepbreathsAct on myvalueseven whenI feel angryCount to100 beforerespondingI do notlike theway he isactingExerciseTreat selfand otherswithrespectI will not diefrom a panicattack. I willbreathethrough itCall afriend wholistensIt wold beunfortunateif I'm wrong -and human!Laugh - notat others butat life - it canbe funnyTake atime-out"It isunfortunate"Write inmyjournalInstead of"I should""I could"Positiveself talkLife may notalways befair - but Imake themost of itI change mythoughts tochange myfeelingsWrite downmy thoughtsand changeto helpfulKnow yourvalues andconnect tothemBeattentiveto themomentNoteveryonehas to likemeI can learnand growfrom thisI controlmy angerand I havemore funAm I moreinterested inbeing right orbeing kind?I feelannoyedwhen he actsthat wayI do notlikehis/herbehaviorBeKindI won't lethim push mybuttons-Icontrol theway I thinkA.C.T.Let itGoInstead of"Never" I say"Infrequently"I practiceself-compassionand kindnessI feel Xwhen youX. I needyou to XInstead of"can't stand"I don't careforThings willget better,if I think inbetter waysI made amistake.Today, I willchoosebetter.Life ischallengingso I practiceself-careMusic/DanceI would likeit if heacted morerespectfullyEngage ina favoriteactivityTheseanxiousfeelingswill passMindfulness-focus onhere andnow-I'm goingthrough ahard time butI'm worthyUrgeSurfingI amgrateful tobe aliveThere aresome waysI would liketo improveAccept yourangryfeelingswithoutviolenceI will focuson what IcancontrolForgiveHelpingotherscreatesmeaning inmy lifePainting/Drawing/ColoringI think I I needto end ourrelationship -itis unhealthyI accept Ican'tchangethe PastYou canalwayscontrol yourbehavior -you choose

Managing My Stress - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. I am liked by some and I love myself
  2. Compassionate kindness is my moral compass
  3. Keep Calm and use "I" statements
  4. I wish she were not that way but I can handle it
  5. Progressive Muscle Relaxation
  6. I find him disrespectful to me
  7. I practice gratitude
  8. Instead of "It is terrible"
  9. Let unhelpful thoughts pass like clouds
  10. Do I hold onto unrealistic "shoulds"?
  11. I accept I can't change others
  12. I appreciate the compliment
  13. I can stand even when I do not like
  14. Stop and Choose
  15. Guided Meditation
  16. Instead of "have to" I choose to
  17. Take several deep breaths
  18. Act on my values even when I feel angry
  19. Count to 100 before responding
  20. I do not like the way he is acting
  21. Exercise
  22. Treat self and others with respect
  23. I will not die from a panic attack. I will breathe through it
  24. Call a friend who listens
  25. It wold be unfortunate if I'm wrong - and human!
  26. Laugh - not at others but at life - it can be funny
  27. Take a time-out
  28. "It is unfortunate"
  29. Write in my journal
  30. Instead of "I should" "I could"
  31. Positive self talk
  32. Life may not always be fair - but I make the most of it
  33. I change my thoughts to change my feelings
  34. Write down my thoughts and change to helpful
  35. Know your values and connect to them
  36. Be attentive to the moment
  37. Not everyone has to like me
  38. I can learn and grow from this
  39. I control my anger and I have more fun
  40. Am I more interested in being right or being kind?
  41. I feel annoyed when he acts that way
  42. I do not like his/her behavior
  43. Be Kind
  44. I won't let him push my buttons-I control the way I think
  45. A.C.T.
  46. Let it Go
  47. Instead of "Never" I say "Infrequently"
  48. I practice self-compassion and kindness
  49. I feel X when you X. I need you to X
  50. Instead of "can't stand" I don't care for
  51. Things will get better, if I think in better ways
  52. I made a mistake. Today, I will choose better.
  53. Life is challenging so I practice self-care
  54. Music/Dance
  55. I would like it if he acted more respectfully
  56. Engage in a favorite activity
  57. These anxious feelings will pass
  58. Mindfulness-focus on here and now-
  59. I'm going through a hard time but I'm worthy
  60. Urge Surfing
  61. I am grateful to be alive
  62. There are some ways I would like to improve
  63. Accept your angry feelings without violence
  64. I will focus on what I can control
  65. Forgive
  66. Helping others creates meaning in my life
  67. Painting/Drawing/Coloring
  68. I think I I need to end our relationship -it is unhealthy
  69. I accept I can't change the Past
  70. You can always control your behavior - you choose