How do you establish boundaries Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Know your values Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Address boundary violations early You are in charge of your choices Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Ask what you need at this time Use a support system Trust your intuition Have self- respect Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Say a strong "NO!" Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Know your limits Don't absorb other's feelings Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Know your values Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Address boundary violations early You are in charge of your choices Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Ask what you need at this time Use a support system Trust your intuition Have self- respect Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Say a strong "NO!" Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings?
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Know your limits
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-RAFT
G-Know your values
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-Address boundary violations early
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-Use a support system
G-Trust your intuition
N-Have self-respect
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?