Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Use a support system Have self- respect Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Say a strong "NO!" Don't absorb other's feelings Don't say what is not true RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Address boundary violations early Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Use a support system Have self- respect Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Say a strong "NO!" Don't absorb other's feelings Don't say what is not true RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Address boundary violations early Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Use a support system
N-Have self-respect
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-How do you establish boundaries
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Don't say what is not true
O-RAFT
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Know your values
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Understand why you need the boundary
G-Trust your intuition
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-Know your limits