Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Don't apologize for setting a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Know your limits Clearly identify your boundary Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Don't absorb other's feelings You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Don't apologize for setting a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Know your limits Clearly identify your boundary Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Don't absorb other's feelings You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Have self-respect
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Use a support system
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Trust your intuition
O-Know your limits
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Know your values
O-RAFT
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Address boundary violations early