Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Trust your intuition Don't absorb other's feelings Understand why you need the boundary How do you establish boundaries Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your values Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time Prevent isolation from others who can help RAFT Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Say a strong "NO!" Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Trust your intuition Don't absorb other's feelings Understand why you need the boundary How do you establish boundaries Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your values Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time Prevent isolation from others who can help RAFT Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Say a strong "NO!"
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Trust your intuition
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-How do you establish boundaries
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Use a support system
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Know your values
O-Know your limits
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-RAFT
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Have self-respect
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Say a strong "NO!"