You are in charge of your choices RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your limits Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Address boundary violations early Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Know your values Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your limits Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Address boundary violations early Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Know your values Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Clearly identify your boundary Use a support system Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-RAFT
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-Know your limits
N-Have self-respect
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Know your values
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Use a support system
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs