Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't apologize for setting a boundary Clearly identify your boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't apologize for setting a boundary Clearly identify your boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Don't say what is not true
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Know your limits
O-RAFT
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Clearly identify your boundary
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Have self-respect
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Know your values
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Use a support system
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree