Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary Beware oversharing to everyone RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Know your values How do you establish boundaries Is your family open with their feelings? Prevent isolation from others who can help Trust your intuition Ask what you need at this time Don't apologize for setting a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly identify your boundary Beware oversharing to everyone RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Know your values How do you establish boundaries Is your family open with their feelings? Prevent isolation from others who can help Trust your intuition Ask what you need at this time Don't apologize for setting a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Address boundary violations early
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Have self-respect
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Know your limits
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-RAFT
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Use a support system
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Know your values
I-How do you establish boundaries
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
G-Trust your intuition
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary