Listens Not expressing feelings Balanced alone and together time Invades privacy Calls names/put downs Good sense of humor Expresses anger appropriately Balanced school and play Active listening Patience Share feelings Honest Defensiveness Conflicting values Attentive Make time for fun Destructive Has self- directed goals Spend time together Positive outlook Mind reading Has good family relationships Blaming Positive strokes Fight fair Abuses trust Disrespectful Breaks promises Jealous Maintains friendships Respectful Reliable Self- centered Be forgiving Balanced giving and receiving Being critical Takes self too seriously Jumps to conclusions Share decision making Takes care of self Supportive Unrealistic expectations Negotiates Always right Common interests Apologize when wrong Caring Demands all your time Talks about feelings Self- confident Be yourself Holding grudges All-or- nothing thinking Over- busy schedules Accepts responsibility Have fun together Doesn’t listen Respects limits Use “I” statements Controlling Share responsibility Accepting Similar values Keeps promises Thoughtful Sincere Guilt- tripping Abuses substances Rigid thinking Compassionate Excessive computer use Feels comfortable being self Woulda shoulda coulda Angers easily Focus on strengths Listens Not expressing feelings Balanced alone and together time Invades privacy Calls names/put downs Good sense of humor Expresses anger appropriately Balanced school and play Active listening Patience Share feelings Honest Defensiveness Conflicting values Attentive Make time for fun Destructive Has self- directed goals Spend time together Positive outlook Mind reading Has good family relationships Blaming Positive strokes Fight fair Abuses trust Disrespectful Breaks promises Jealous Maintains friendships Respectful Reliable Self- centered Be forgiving Balanced giving and receiving Being critical Takes self too seriously Jumps to conclusions Share decision making Takes care of self Supportive Unrealistic expectations Negotiates Always right Common interests Apologize when wrong Caring Demands all your time Talks about feelings Self- confident Be yourself Holding grudges All-or- nothing thinking Over- busy schedules Accepts responsibility Have fun together Doesn’t listen Respects limits Use “I” statements Controlling Share responsibility Accepting Similar values Keeps promises Thoughtful Sincere Guilt- tripping Abuses substances Rigid thinking Compassionate Excessive computer use Feels comfortable being self Woulda shoulda coulda Angers easily Focus on strengths
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
Listens
Not expressing feelings
Balanced alone and together time
Invades privacy
Calls names/put downs
Good sense of humor
Expresses anger appropriately
Balanced school and play
Active listening
Patience
Share feelings
Honest
Defensiveness
Conflicting values
Attentive
Make time for fun
Destructive
Has self-directed goals
Spend time together
Positive outlook
Mind reading
Has good family relationships
Blaming
Positive strokes
Fight fair
Abuses trust
Disrespectful
Breaks promises
Jealous
Maintains friendships
Respectful
Reliable
Self-centered
Be forgiving
Balanced giving and receiving
Being critical
Takes self too seriously
Jumps to conclusions
Share decision making
Takes care of self
Supportive
Unrealistic expectations
Negotiates
Always right
Common interests
Apologize when wrong
Caring
Demands all your time
Talks about feelings
Self-confident
Be yourself
Holding grudges
All-or-nothing thinking
Over-busy schedules
Accepts responsibility
Have fun together
Doesn’t listen
Respects limits
Use “I” statements
Controlling
Share responsibility
Accepting
Similar values
Keeps promises
Thoughtful
Sincere
Guilt-tripping
Abuses substances
Rigid thinking
Compassionate
Excessive computer use
Feels comfortable being self
Woulda shoulda coulda
Angers easily
Focus on strengths