Destructive Maintains friendships Attentive Respects limits Breaks promises Balanced school and play Controlling Balanced giving and receiving Share responsibility Positive strokes Spend time together Patience Common interests Keeps promises Negotiates Use “I” statements Abuses substances Defensiveness Reliable Apologize when wrong Compassionate Jealous All-or- nothing thinking Rigid thinking Be forgiving Doesn’t listen Not expressing feelings Have fun together Abuses trust Active listening Supportive Has good family relationships Feels comfortable being self Share feelings Always right Jumps to conclusions Self- confident Make time for fun Focus on strengths Disrespectful Has self- directed goals Takes self too seriously Excessive computer use Blaming Conflicting values Takes care of self Caring Mind reading Expresses anger appropriately Share decision making Honest Demands all your time Self- centered Guilt- tripping Woulda shoulda coulda Good sense of humor Holding grudges Talks about feelings Fight fair Sincere Thoughtful Positive outlook Unrealistic expectations Similar values Being critical Respectful Calls names/put downs Listens Invades privacy Accepting Be yourself Balanced alone and together time Angers easily Accepts responsibility Over- busy schedules Destructive Maintains friendships Attentive Respects limits Breaks promises Balanced school and play Controlling Balanced giving and receiving Share responsibility Positive strokes Spend time together Patience Common interests Keeps promises Negotiates Use “I” statements Abuses substances Defensiveness Reliable Apologize when wrong Compassionate Jealous All-or- nothing thinking Rigid thinking Be forgiving Doesn’t listen Not expressing feelings Have fun together Abuses trust Active listening Supportive Has good family relationships Feels comfortable being self Share feelings Always right Jumps to conclusions Self- confident Make time for fun Focus on strengths Disrespectful Has self- directed goals Takes self too seriously Excessive computer use Blaming Conflicting values Takes care of self Caring Mind reading Expresses anger appropriately Share decision making Honest Demands all your time Self- centered Guilt- tripping Woulda shoulda coulda Good sense of humor Holding grudges Talks about feelings Fight fair Sincere Thoughtful Positive outlook Unrealistic expectations Similar values Being critical Respectful Calls names/put downs Listens Invades privacy Accepting Be yourself Balanced alone and together time Angers easily Accepts responsibility Over- busy schedules
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
Destructive
Maintains friendships
Attentive
Respects limits
Breaks promises
Balanced school and play
Controlling
Balanced giving and receiving
Share responsibility
Positive strokes
Spend time together
Patience
Common interests
Keeps promises
Negotiates
Use “I” statements
Abuses substances
Defensiveness
Reliable
Apologize when wrong
Compassionate
Jealous
All-or-nothing thinking
Rigid thinking
Be forgiving
Doesn’t listen
Not expressing feelings
Have fun together
Abuses trust
Active listening
Supportive
Has good family relationships
Feels comfortable being self
Share feelings
Always right
Jumps to conclusions
Self-confident
Make time for fun
Focus on strengths
Disrespectful
Has self-directed goals
Takes self too seriously
Excessive computer use
Blaming
Conflicting values
Takes care of self
Caring
Mind reading
Expresses anger appropriately
Share decision making
Honest
Demands all your time
Self-centered
Guilt-tripping
Woulda shoulda coulda
Good sense of humor
Holding grudges
Talks about feelings
Fight fair
Sincere
Thoughtful
Positive outlook
Unrealistic expectations
Similar values
Being critical
Respectful
Calls names/put downs
Listens
Invades privacy
Accepting
Be yourself
Balanced alone and together time
Angers easily
Accepts responsibility
Over-busy schedules