Seeothers aspeople.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Helpothers.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Do nottry to beperfect.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Look foryour ownboxes.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.Try tobebetter.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Seeothers aspeople.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Helpothers.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Do nottry to beperfect.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Look foryour ownboxes.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.Try tobebetter.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. See others as people.
  2. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  3. Self deception is being in the box.
  4. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  5. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  6. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  7. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.
  8. Help others.
  9. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  10. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  11. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  12. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  13. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  14. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  15. Do not try to be perfect.
  16. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."
  17. Your influence depends on being out of the box.
  18. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  19. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.
  20. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  21. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  22. Look for your own boxes.
  23. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  24. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  25. Try to be better.
  26. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.