Try tobebetter.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Seeothers aspeople.Do nottry to beperfect.Look foryour ownboxes.Helpothers.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Try tobebetter.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Seeothers aspeople.Do nottry to beperfect.Look foryour ownboxes.Helpothers.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Try to be better.
  2. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  3. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  4. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  5. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  6. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  7. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.
  8. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  9. Self deception is being in the box.
  10. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  11. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  12. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.
  13. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."
  14. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  15. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  16. See others as people.
  17. Do not try to be perfect.
  18. Look for your own boxes.
  19. Help others.
  20. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  21. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  22. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  23. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.
  24. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  25. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  26. Your influence depends on being out of the box.