We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Helpothers.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Look foryour ownboxes.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Try tobebetter.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Seeothers aspeople.Do nottry to beperfect.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Helpothers.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Look foryour ownboxes.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Try tobebetter.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Seeothers aspeople.Do nottry to beperfect.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.
  2. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.
  3. Help others.
  4. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  5. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  6. Look for your own boxes.
  7. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  8. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  9. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  10. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  11. Try to be better.
  12. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  13. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  14. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  15. Self deception is being in the box.
  16. Your influence depends on being out of the box.
  17. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  18. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  19. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  20. See others as people.
  21. Do not try to be perfect.
  22. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  23. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  24. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  25. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."
  26. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.