Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Seeothers aspeople.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Look foryour ownboxes.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Do nottry to beperfect.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Try tobebetter.Helpothers.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Seeothers aspeople.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Look foryour ownboxes.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Do nottry to beperfect.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.Try tobebetter.Helpothers.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Self deception is being in the box.
  2. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  3. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  4. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  5. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  6. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  7. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  8. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."
  9. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  10. See others as people.
  11. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  12. Look for your own boxes.
  13. Your influence depends on being out of the box.
  14. Do not try to be perfect.
  15. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  16. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  17. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  18. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  19. Try to be better.
  20. Help others.
  21. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.
  22. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  23. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.
  24. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  25. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  26. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.