Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Helpothers.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Seeothers aspeople.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Do nottry to beperfect.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Look foryour ownboxes.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Try tobebetter.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Helpothers.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.Seeothers aspeople.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.Do nottry to beperfect.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Look foryour ownboxes.Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Try tobebetter.

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Self deception is being in the box.
  2. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."
  3. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  4. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  5. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.
  6. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.
  7. Help others.
  8. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  9. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  10. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  11. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  12. See others as people.
  13. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  14. Your influence depends on being out of the box.
  15. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  16. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  17. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  18. Do not try to be perfect.
  19. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  20. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  21. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  22. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  23. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  24. Look for your own boxes.
  25. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.
  26. Try to be better.