We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Do nottry to beperfect.Helpothers.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Try tobebetter.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Seeothers aspeople.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Look foryour ownboxes.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."We are in thebox when wefeel we haveto "put up"with people.Do nottry to beperfect.Helpothers.Yourinfluencedepends onbeing out ofthe box.Do not focuson whatothers aredoing wrong.People respondprimarily to howwe are feelingabout them onthe inside.Some leadersfail becausethey provokepeople toresist them.When in thebox, youcannot focuson results.Try tobebetter.Almost anybehavior can bedone either in orout of the box, sono merebehaviour can getyou out.Seeothers aspeople.Over time,certain boxesbecomecharacteristic ofme, and I carrythem with me.In the box weinvite mutualmistreatmentand obtainmutualjustification.An act contraryto what I feel Ishould do foranother iscalled an act of"self betrayal."Others respondnot primarily towhat you do butto how you arebeing.Look foryour ownboxes.Knowing thematerial doesnot get youout of the box.Living it does.Changing mybehavior doesnot work toget me out ofthe box.Do notaccuseothers ofbeing in thebox.Selfdeceptionis being inthe box.We change inthe moment wecease resistingwhat is outsideour box --others.When Ibetraymyself, Ienter thebox.As you ceaseresistingothers, youget out of thebox.Your successdepends onbeing out ofthe box.Apologize andthen keepmarching forward,being more helpfulto others in thefuture.Self betrayalleads to self-deception and"the box."

Out of the Box BINGO! - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. We are in the box when we feel we have to "put up" with people.
  2. Do not try to be perfect.
  3. Help others.
  4. Your influence depends on being out of the box.
  5. Do not focus on what others are doing wrong.
  6. People respond primarily to how we are feeling about them on the inside.
  7. Some leaders fail because they provoke people to resist them.
  8. When in the box, you cannot focus on results.
  9. Try to be better.
  10. Almost any behavior can be done either in or out of the box, so no mere behaviour can get you out.
  11. See others as people.
  12. Over time, certain boxes become characteristic of me, and I carry them with me.
  13. In the box we invite mutual mistreatment and obtain mutual justification.
  14. An act contrary to what I feel I should do for another is called an act of "self betrayal."
  15. Others respond not primarily to what you do but to how you are being.
  16. Look for your own boxes.
  17. Knowing the material does not get you out of the box. Living it does.
  18. Changing my behavior does not work to get me out of the box.
  19. Do not accuse others of being in the box.
  20. Self deception is being in the box.
  21. We change in the moment we cease resisting what is outside our box -- others.
  22. When I betray myself, I enter the box.
  23. As you cease resisting others, you get out of the box.
  24. Your success depends on being out of the box.
  25. Apologize and then keep marching forward, being more helpful to others in the future.
  26. Self betrayal leads to self-deception and "the box."