STOP Tell yourself "It's okay." Ask Someone else Breathe Decide what the problem is Think about the consequences Decide on your best choice Tell yourself to relax Use Self- talk Identify how you feel Think about your choices Have compassion Belly breathing Take a break from the problem Take turns Speak Calmly Count 1,2,3, 4, 5 Ask an adult Use "I" statements State how you feel Compromise Understand their perspective Use empathy STOP Tell yourself "It's okay." Ask Someone else Breathe Decide what the problem is Think about the consequences Decide on your best choice Tell yourself to relax Use Self- talk Identify how you feel Think about your choices Have compassion Belly breathing Take a break from the problem Take turns Speak Calmly Count 1,2,3, 4, 5 Ask an adult Use "I" statements State how you feel Compromise Understand their perspective Use empathy
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-STOP
O-Tell yourself "It's okay."
O-
N-Ask Someone else
I-Breathe
I-Decide what the problem is
B-Think about the consequences
G-Decide on your best choice
B-Tell yourself to relax
O-Use Self-talk
N-Identify how you feel
O-Think about your choices
N-Have compassion
O-
Belly breathing
I-Take a break from the problem
G-Take turns
B-Speak Calmly
G-Count 1,2,3, 4, 5
B-Ask an adult
G-Use "I" statements
I-State how you feel
N-Compromise
G-Understand their perspective
I-Use empathy