TurntheMindShowEqualityVerifythefactsAttendto Non-VerbalsDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonShow thatyou careabout therelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsEncourageParticipationAcknowledgetheir feelingsDoes notmeanagreementIdentifywithothersNon-judgementalvalueothersUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivePayattention toyour non-verbalsdiscussemotionsBeyourselfaskquestionslistenandreflectImprovetherelationshipStayontopicShowunderstandingDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingEyecontactTurntheMindShowEqualityVerifythefactsAttendto Non-VerbalsDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonShow thatyou careabout therelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsEncourageParticipationAcknowledgetheir feelingsDoes notmeanagreementIdentifywithothersNon-judgementalvalueothersUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivePayattention toyour non-verbalsdiscussemotionsBeyourselfaskquestionslistenandreflectImprovetherelationshipStayontopicShowunderstandingDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingEyecontact

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Turn the Mind
  2. Show Equality
  3. Verify the facts
  4. Attend to Non-Verbals
  5. Don't speak over the other person
  6. Show that you care about the relationship
  7. Pay attention, not doing other things
  8. Encourage Participation
  9. Acknowledge their feelings
  10. Does not mean agreement
  11. Identify with others
  12. Non-judgemental
  13. value others
  14. Understand from the other person's perspective
  15. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  16. discuss emotions
  17. Be yourself
  18. ask questions
  19. listen and reflect
  20. Improve the relationship
  21. Stay on topic
  22. Show understanding
  23. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  24. Eye contact