StayontopicShow thatyou careabout therelationshipIdentifywithothersNon-judgementalDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingImprovetherelationshipvalueothersPayattention, notdoing otherthingsTurntheMindAcknowledgetheir feelingsVerifythefactsdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEncourageParticipationPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowEqualityAttendto Non-VerbalsBeyourselflistenandreflectShowunderstandingaskquestionsUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveEyecontactStayontopicShow thatyou careabout therelationshipIdentifywithothersNon-judgementalDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingImprovetherelationshipvalueothersPayattention, notdoing otherthingsTurntheMindAcknowledgetheir feelingsVerifythefactsdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEncourageParticipationPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowEqualityAttendto Non-VerbalsBeyourselflistenandreflectShowunderstandingaskquestionsUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveEyecontact

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Stay on topic
  2. Show that you care about the relationship
  3. Identify with others
  4. Non-judgemental
  5. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  6. Improve the relationship
  7. value others
  8. Pay attention, not doing other things
  9. Turn the Mind
  10. Acknowledge their feelings
  11. Verify the facts
  12. discuss emotions
  13. Does not mean agreement
  14. Don't speak over the other person
  15. Encourage Participation
  16. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  17. Show Equality
  18. Attend to Non-Verbals
  19. Be yourself
  20. listen and reflect
  21. Show understanding
  22. ask questions
  23. Understand from the other person's perspective
  24. Eye contact