BeyourselfDoes notmeanagreementAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowEqualitydiscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobragginglistenandreflectShowunderstandingDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEncourageParticipationShow thatyou careabout therelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsEyecontactaskquestionsStayontopicIdentifywithothersvalueothersImprovetherelationshipVerifythefactsTurntheMindAcknowledgetheir feelingsNon-judgementalUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveBeyourselfDoes notmeanagreementAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowEqualitydiscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobragginglistenandreflectShowunderstandingDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEncourageParticipationShow thatyou careabout therelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsEyecontactaskquestionsStayontopicIdentifywithothersvalueothersImprovetherelationshipVerifythefactsTurntheMindAcknowledgetheir feelingsNon-judgementalUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspective

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Be yourself
  2. Does not mean agreement
  3. Attend to Non-Verbals
  4. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  5. Show Equality
  6. discuss emotions
  7. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  8. listen and reflect
  9. Show understanding
  10. Don't speak over the other person
  11. Encourage Participation
  12. Show that you care about the relationship
  13. Pay attention, not doing other things
  14. Eye contact
  15. ask questions
  16. Stay on topic
  17. Identify with others
  18. value others
  19. Improve the relationship
  20. Verify the facts
  21. Turn the Mind
  22. Acknowledge their feelings
  23. Non-judgemental
  24. Understand from the other person's perspective