askquestionsShowEqualityEyecontactNon-judgementalAcknowledgetheir feelingsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingAttendto Non-VerbalsIdentifywithothersPayattention toyour non-verbalsUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveVerifythefactsBeyourselflistenandreflectPayattention, notdoing otherthingsdiscussemotionsTurntheMindEncourageParticipationShowunderstandingvalueothersStayontopicImprovetherelationshipDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonDoes notmeanagreementShow thatyou careabout therelationshipaskquestionsShowEqualityEyecontactNon-judgementalAcknowledgetheir feelingsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingAttendto Non-VerbalsIdentifywithothersPayattention toyour non-verbalsUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveVerifythefactsBeyourselflistenandreflectPayattention, notdoing otherthingsdiscussemotionsTurntheMindEncourageParticipationShowunderstandingvalueothersStayontopicImprovetherelationshipDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonDoes notmeanagreementShow thatyou careabout therelationship

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. ask questions
  2. Show Equality
  3. Eye contact
  4. Non-judgemental
  5. Acknowledge their feelings
  6. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  7. Attend to Non-Verbals
  8. Identify with others
  9. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  10. Understand from the other person's perspective
  11. Verify the facts
  12. Be yourself
  13. listen and reflect
  14. Pay attention, not doing other things
  15. discuss emotions
  16. Turn the Mind
  17. Encourage Participation
  18. Show understanding
  19. value others
  20. Stay on topic
  21. Improve the relationship
  22. Don't speak over the other person
  23. Does not mean agreement
  24. Show that you care about the relationship