askquestionslistenandreflectShowunderstandingShowEqualityUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveShow thatyou careabout therelationshipdiscussemotionsAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersvalueothersDoes notmeanagreementBeyourselfEncourageParticipationDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingPayattention, notdoing otherthingsNon-judgementalAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsEyecontactTurntheMindDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonStayontopicVerifythefactsImprovetherelationshipaskquestionslistenandreflectShowunderstandingShowEqualityUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveShow thatyou careabout therelationshipdiscussemotionsAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersvalueothersDoes notmeanagreementBeyourselfEncourageParticipationDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingPayattention, notdoing otherthingsNon-judgementalAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsEyecontactTurntheMindDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonStayontopicVerifythefactsImprovetherelationship

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. ask questions
  2. listen and reflect
  3. Show understanding
  4. Show Equality
  5. Understand from the other person's perspective
  6. Show that you care about the relationship
  7. discuss emotions
  8. Acknowledge their feelings
  9. Identify with others
  10. value others
  11. Does not mean agreement
  12. Be yourself
  13. Encourage Participation
  14. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  15. Pay attention, not doing other things
  16. Non-judgemental
  17. Attend to Non-Verbals
  18. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  19. Eye contact
  20. Turn the Mind
  21. Don't speak over the other person
  22. Stay on topic
  23. Verify the facts
  24. Improve the relationship