VerifythefactsDoes notmeanagreementBeyourselfImprovetherelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEyecontactvalueotherslistenandreflectNon-judgementalEncourageParticipationUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivediscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingShowEqualityShow thatyou careabout therelationshipStayontopicPayattention toyour non-verbalsAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersAttendto Non-VerbalsShowunderstandingaskquestionsTurntheMindVerifythefactsDoes notmeanagreementBeyourselfImprovetherelationshipPayattention, notdoing otherthingsDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonEyecontactvalueotherslistenandreflectNon-judgementalEncourageParticipationUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivediscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingShowEqualityShow thatyou careabout therelationshipStayontopicPayattention toyour non-verbalsAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersAttendto Non-VerbalsShowunderstandingaskquestionsTurntheMind

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Verify the facts
  2. Does not mean agreement
  3. Be yourself
  4. Improve the relationship
  5. Pay attention, not doing other things
  6. Don't speak over the other person
  7. Eye contact
  8. value others
  9. listen and reflect
  10. Non-judgemental
  11. Encourage Participation
  12. Understand from the other person's perspective
  13. discuss emotions
  14. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  15. Show Equality
  16. Show that you care about the relationship
  17. Stay on topic
  18. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  19. Acknowledge their feelings
  20. Identify with others
  21. Attend to Non-Verbals
  22. Show understanding
  23. ask questions
  24. Turn the Mind