Payattention, notdoing otherthingsEyecontactPayattention toyour non-verbalsTurntheMindlistenandreflectUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonVerifythefactsIdentifywithothersDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingDoes notmeanagreementImprovetherelationshipdiscussemotionsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipEncourageParticipationAttendto Non-VerbalsaskquestionsAcknowledgetheir feelingsvalueothersStayontopicShowEqualityNon-judgementalBeyourselfShowunderstandingPayattention, notdoing otherthingsEyecontactPayattention toyour non-verbalsTurntheMindlistenandreflectUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonVerifythefactsIdentifywithothersDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingDoes notmeanagreementImprovetherelationshipdiscussemotionsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipEncourageParticipationAttendto Non-VerbalsaskquestionsAcknowledgetheir feelingsvalueothersStayontopicShowEqualityNon-judgementalBeyourselfShowunderstanding

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Pay attention, not doing other things
  2. Eye contact
  3. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  4. Turn the Mind
  5. listen and reflect
  6. Understand from the other person's perspective
  7. Don't speak over the other person
  8. Verify the facts
  9. Identify with others
  10. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  11. Does not mean agreement
  12. Improve the relationship
  13. discuss emotions
  14. Show that you care about the relationship
  15. Encourage Participation
  16. Attend to Non-Verbals
  17. ask questions
  18. Acknowledge their feelings
  19. value others
  20. Stay on topic
  21. Show Equality
  22. Non-judgemental
  23. Be yourself
  24. Show understanding