Don'tspeak overthe otherpersonBeyourselfVerifythefactsdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementTurntheMindUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivelistenandreflectaskquestionsvalueothersAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersAttendto Non-VerbalsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipStayontopicPayattention, notdoing otherthingsPayattention toyour non-verbalsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingImprovetherelationshipNon-judgementalEyecontactEncourageParticipationShowunderstandingShowEqualityDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonBeyourselfVerifythefactsdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementTurntheMindUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectivelistenandreflectaskquestionsvalueothersAcknowledgetheir feelingsIdentifywithothersAttendto Non-VerbalsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipStayontopicPayattention, notdoing otherthingsPayattention toyour non-verbalsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingImprovetherelationshipNon-judgementalEyecontactEncourageParticipationShowunderstandingShowEquality

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Don't speak over the other person
  2. Be yourself
  3. Verify the facts
  4. discuss emotions
  5. Does not mean agreement
  6. Turn the Mind
  7. Understand from the other person's perspective
  8. listen and reflect
  9. ask questions
  10. value others
  11. Acknowledge their feelings
  12. Identify with others
  13. Attend to Non-Verbals
  14. Show that you care about the relationship
  15. Stay on topic
  16. Pay attention, not doing other things
  17. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  18. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  19. Improve the relationship
  20. Non-judgemental
  21. Eye contact
  22. Encourage Participation
  23. Show understanding
  24. Show Equality