Don't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingEyecontactBeyourselfUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveStayontopicTurntheMindAttendto Non-VerbalsEncourageParticipationvalueothersDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowunderstandingdiscussemotionsaskquestionsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipAcknowledgetheir feelingsImprovetherelationshipDoes notmeanagreementShowEqualitylistenandreflectNon-judgementalVerifythefactsIdentifywithothersPayattention, notdoing otherthingsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingEyecontactBeyourselfUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveStayontopicTurntheMindAttendto Non-VerbalsEncourageParticipationvalueothersDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonPayattention toyour non-verbalsShowunderstandingdiscussemotionsaskquestionsShow thatyou careabout therelationshipAcknowledgetheir feelingsImprovetherelationshipDoes notmeanagreementShowEqualitylistenandreflectNon-judgementalVerifythefactsIdentifywithothersPayattention, notdoing otherthings

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  2. Eye contact
  3. Be yourself
  4. Understand from the other person's perspective
  5. Stay on topic
  6. Turn the Mind
  7. Attend to Non-Verbals
  8. Encourage Participation
  9. value others
  10. Don't speak over the other person
  11. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  12. Show understanding
  13. discuss emotions
  14. ask questions
  15. Show that you care about the relationship
  16. Acknowledge their feelings
  17. Improve the relationship
  18. Does not mean agreement
  19. Show Equality
  20. listen and reflect
  21. Non-judgemental
  22. Verify the facts
  23. Identify with others
  24. Pay attention, not doing other things