ShowunderstandingUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonlistenandreflectPayattention toyour non-verbalsVerifythefactsEncourageParticipationEyecontactAcknowledgetheir feelingsDoes notmeanagreementStayontopicShowEqualitydiscussemotionsTurntheMindaskquestionsPayattention, notdoing otherthingsImprovetherelationshipIdentifywithothersBeyourselfDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingNon-judgementalvalueothersShow thatyou careabout therelationshipAttendto Non-VerbalsShowunderstandingUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonlistenandreflectPayattention toyour non-verbalsVerifythefactsEncourageParticipationEyecontactAcknowledgetheir feelingsDoes notmeanagreementStayontopicShowEqualitydiscussemotionsTurntheMindaskquestionsPayattention, notdoing otherthingsImprovetherelationshipIdentifywithothersBeyourselfDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingNon-judgementalvalueothersShow thatyou careabout therelationshipAttendto Non-Verbals

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Show understanding
  2. Understand from the other person's perspective
  3. Don't speak over the other person
  4. listen and reflect
  5. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  6. Verify the facts
  7. Encourage Participation
  8. Eye contact
  9. Acknowledge their feelings
  10. Does not mean agreement
  11. Stay on topic
  12. Show Equality
  13. discuss emotions
  14. Turn the Mind
  15. ask questions
  16. Pay attention, not doing other things
  17. Improve the relationship
  18. Identify with others
  19. Be yourself
  20. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  21. Non-judgemental
  22. value others
  23. Show that you care about the relationship
  24. Attend to Non-Verbals