IdentifywithothersDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingBeyourselfImprovetherelationshipShowunderstandingdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsEncourageParticipationlistenandreflectAcknowledgetheir feelingsStayontopicNon-judgementalvalueothersDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonShow thatyou careabout therelationshipUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveTurntheMindaskquestionsShowEqualityPayattention, notdoing otherthingsVerifythefactsEyecontactIdentifywithothersDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingBeyourselfImprovetherelationshipShowunderstandingdiscussemotionsDoes notmeanagreementAttendto Non-VerbalsPayattention toyour non-verbalsEncourageParticipationlistenandreflectAcknowledgetheir feelingsStayontopicNon-judgementalvalueothersDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonShow thatyou careabout therelationshipUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveTurntheMindaskquestionsShowEqualityPayattention, notdoing otherthingsVerifythefactsEyecontact

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Identify with others
  2. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  3. Be yourself
  4. Improve the relationship
  5. Show understanding
  6. discuss emotions
  7. Does not mean agreement
  8. Attend to Non-Verbals
  9. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  10. Encourage Participation
  11. listen and reflect
  12. Acknowledge their feelings
  13. Stay on topic
  14. Non-judgemental
  15. value others
  16. Don't speak over the other person
  17. Show that you care about the relationship
  18. Understand from the other person's perspective
  19. Turn the Mind
  20. ask questions
  21. Show Equality
  22. Pay attention, not doing other things
  23. Verify the facts
  24. Eye contact