IdentifywithothersNon-judgementalShowunderstandingUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveaskquestionsvalueothersShowEqualityEyecontactTurntheMindEncourageParticipationPayattention, notdoing otherthingsDoes notmeanagreementShow thatyou careabout therelationshipDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonAttendto Non-VerbalsImprovetherelationshipStayontopicdiscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingVerifythefactsBeyourselfPayattention toyour non-verbalsAcknowledgetheir feelingslistenandreflectIdentifywithothersNon-judgementalShowunderstandingUnderstandfrom theotherperson'sperspectiveaskquestionsvalueothersShowEqualityEyecontactTurntheMindEncourageParticipationPayattention, notdoing otherthingsDoes notmeanagreementShow thatyou careabout therelationshipDon'tspeak overthe otherpersonAttendto Non-VerbalsImprovetherelationshipStayontopicdiscussemotionsDon't try toone up theotherperson/nobraggingVerifythefactsBeyourselfPayattention toyour non-verbalsAcknowledgetheir feelingslistenandreflect

Validation - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Identify with others
  2. Non-judgemental
  3. Show understanding
  4. Understand from the other person's perspective
  5. ask questions
  6. value others
  7. Show Equality
  8. Eye contact
  9. Turn the Mind
  10. Encourage Participation
  11. Pay attention, not doing other things
  12. Does not mean agreement
  13. Show that you care about the relationship
  14. Don't speak over the other person
  15. Attend to Non-Verbals
  16. Improve the relationship
  17. Stay on topic
  18. discuss emotions
  19. Don't try to one up the other person/no bragging
  20. Verify the facts
  21. Be yourself
  22. Pay attention to your non-verbals
  23. Acknowledge their feelings
  24. listen and reflect