"Stopcrying""You can'tgo back tocollege"PhysicalthreatsMom yells atme for beingtoo scared toanswer herSay they arejust trying tosupport mewhen theyyell"You couldbe fightingwars rightnow"I tell mom tostop yellingat me, shecontinues toyell at me"What iswrongwith you?"Dad tellsme I can'tdoanythingMomyells atmeTells me I'm notbroken, thenproceeds to go ona 5+ minute ranttelling me howbroken I amMom tries tomake mefeel bad fordropping out"You hadX amountof time todo this..."Mom yells atme for 5+minutes foraccidentallyinterrupting herMom and Dadget intoscreaming fightover me, thensay it is myfaultMom expectsme to do thingsshe knows I can'tdo, and thenblames me when Ican't do themMom yells atmeright after I tellher she needsto stop yellingat meComparingme to mysiblingsGeneralcompletedisregardfor mydisabilitiesYelling atme forbeingslow"I don'tknow whyyou don'tcare..."Yelling/Criticzingme for doingthings they doall the time"You haveno senseof reality""I don'tknowwhat to dowith you""Stopcrying""You can'tgo back tocollege"PhysicalthreatsMom yells atme for beingtoo scared toanswer herSay they arejust trying tosupport mewhen theyyell"You couldbe fightingwars rightnow"I tell mom tostop yellingat me, shecontinues toyell at me"What iswrongwith you?"Dad tellsme I can'tdoanythingMomyells atmeTells me I'm notbroken, thenproceeds to go ona 5+ minute ranttelling me howbroken I amMom tries tomake mefeel bad fordropping out"You hadX amountof time todo this..."Mom yells atme for 5+minutes foraccidentallyinterrupting herMom and Dadget intoscreaming fightover me, thensay it is myfaultMom expectsme to do thingsshe knows I can'tdo, and thenblames me when Ican't do themMom yells atmeright after I tellher she needsto stop yellingat meComparingme to mysiblingsGeneralcompletedisregardfor mydisabilitiesYelling atme forbeingslow"I don'tknow whyyou don'tcare..."Yelling/Criticzingme for doingthings they doall the time"You haveno senseof reality""I don'tknowwhat to dowith you"

Parental Abuse + Gaslighting - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Stop crying"
  2. "You can't go back to college"
  3. Physical threats
  4. Mom yells at me for being too scared to answer her
  5. Say they are just trying to support me when they yell
  6. "You could be fighting wars right now"
  7. I tell mom to stop yelling at me, she continues to yell at me
  8. "What is wrong with you?"
  9. Dad tells me I can't do anything
  10. Mom yells at me
  11. Tells me I'm not broken, then proceeds to go on a 5+ minute rant telling me how broken I am
  12. Mom tries to make me feel bad for dropping out
  13. "You had X amount of time to do this..."
  14. Mom yells at me for 5+ minutes for accidentally interrupting her
  15. Mom and Dad get into screaming fight over me, then say it is my fault
  16. Mom expects me to do things she knows I can't do, and then blames me when I can't do them
  17. Mom yells at me right after I tell her she needs to stop yelling at me
  18. Comparing me to my siblings
  19. General complete disregard for my disabilities
  20. Yelling at me for being slow
  21. "I don't know why you don't care..."
  22. Yelling/Criticzing me for doing things they do all the time
  23. "You have no sense of reality"
  24. "I don't know what to do with you"