Take ADeepBreathDon'tattack theotherpersonNoYellingAgree toDisagreeNo "hittingbelow thebelt"TakeTurnsTalkingDon'tGeneralizeAvoidDisrespectfulWordsUnderstandthe ConflictConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictNoDegradingLanguageUse aThirdPartyAvoidclammingupConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.Get thefactsStick tothefactsFocuson thePresentUse "I"StatementsBewilling toForgiveAvoid theBlameGameBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.Control youremotionsand behaviorCommunicatewith theOppositionKnow whatupset theotherpersonAvoidAccusationsAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.Explore theAlternativesUsePositiveStatementsExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.ListenDeal withone issueat a timeBrainstormPossibleSolutionsBeRespectfulRemainCalmTake ADeepBreathDon'tattack theotherpersonNoYellingAgree toDisagreeNo "hittingbelow thebelt"TakeTurnsTalkingDon'tGeneralizeAvoidDisrespectfulWordsUnderstandthe ConflictConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictNoDegradingLanguageUse aThirdPartyAvoidclammingupConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.Get thefactsStick tothefactsFocuson thePresentUse "I"StatementsBewilling toForgiveAvoid theBlameGameBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.Control youremotionsand behaviorCommunicatewith theOppositionKnow whatupset theotherpersonAvoidAccusationsAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.Explore theAlternativesUsePositiveStatementsExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.ListenDeal withone issueat a timeBrainstormPossibleSolutionsBeRespectfulRemainCalm

Conflict Resolution - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Take A Deep Breath
  2. Don't attack the other person
  3. No Yelling
  4. Agree to Disagree
  5. No "hitting below the belt"
  6. Take Turns Talking
  7. Don't Generalize
  8. Avoid Disrespectful Words
  9. Understand the Conflict
  10. Consider What Role You Played in the Conflict
  11. No Degrading Language
  12. Use a Third Party
  13. Avoid clamming up
  14. Consider other person's point of view.
  15. Get the facts
  16. Stick to the facts
  17. Focus on the Present
  18. Use "I" Statements
  19. Be willing to Forgive
  20. Avoid the Blame Game
  21. Be specific about what if bothering you.
  22. Control your emotions and behavior
  23. Communicate with the Opposition
  24. Know what upset the other person
  25. Avoid Accusations
  26. Ask Questions for Better Understanding.
  27. Explore the Alternatives
  28. Use Positive Statements
  29. Express feelings in words, not actions.
  30. Listen
  31. Deal with one issue at a time
  32. Brainstorm Possible Solutions
  33. Be Respectful
  34. Remain Calm