TakeTurnsTalkingRemainCalmExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.Deal withone issueat a timeAvoidDisrespectfulWordsNoYellingUsePositiveStatementsDon'tattack theotherpersonBeRespectfulNoDegradingLanguageAvoidclammingupCommunicatewith theOppositionConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.Take ADeepBreathConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictAvoid theBlameGameUse aThirdPartyDon'tGeneralizeKnow whatupset theotherpersonUse "I"StatementsGet thefactsExplore theAlternativesFocuson thePresentAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.BrainstormPossibleSolutionsAgree toDisagreeNo "hittingbelow thebelt"Stick tothefactsListenBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.AvoidAccusationsControl youremotionsand behaviorUnderstandthe ConflictBewilling toForgiveTakeTurnsTalkingRemainCalmExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.Deal withone issueat a timeAvoidDisrespectfulWordsNoYellingUsePositiveStatementsDon'tattack theotherpersonBeRespectfulNoDegradingLanguageAvoidclammingupCommunicatewith theOppositionConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.Take ADeepBreathConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictAvoid theBlameGameUse aThirdPartyDon'tGeneralizeKnow whatupset theotherpersonUse "I"StatementsGet thefactsExplore theAlternativesFocuson thePresentAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.BrainstormPossibleSolutionsAgree toDisagreeNo "hittingbelow thebelt"Stick tothefactsListenBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.AvoidAccusationsControl youremotionsand behaviorUnderstandthe ConflictBewilling toForgive

Conflict Resolution - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Take Turns Talking
  2. Remain Calm
  3. Express feelings in words, not actions.
  4. Deal with one issue at a time
  5. Avoid Disrespectful Words
  6. No Yelling
  7. Use Positive Statements
  8. Don't attack the other person
  9. Be Respectful
  10. No Degrading Language
  11. Avoid clamming up
  12. Communicate with the Opposition
  13. Consider other person's point of view.
  14. Take A Deep Breath
  15. Consider What Role You Played in the Conflict
  16. Avoid the Blame Game
  17. Use a Third Party
  18. Don't Generalize
  19. Know what upset the other person
  20. Use "I" Statements
  21. Get the facts
  22. Explore the Alternatives
  23. Focus on the Present
  24. Ask Questions for Better Understanding.
  25. Brainstorm Possible Solutions
  26. Agree to Disagree
  27. No "hitting below the belt"
  28. Stick to the facts
  29. Listen
  30. Be specific about what if bothering you.
  31. Avoid Accusations
  32. Control your emotions and behavior
  33. Understand the Conflict
  34. Be willing to Forgive