TakeTurnsTalkingBrainstormPossibleSolutionsListenStick tothefactsExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.Don'tGeneralizeUsePositiveStatementsUse "I"StatementsDon'tattack theotherpersonAvoidDisrespectfulWordsBeRespectfulBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.Know whatupset theotherpersonNoYellingNoDegradingLanguageDeal withone issueat a timeTake ADeepBreathCommunicatewith theOppositionAvoidclammingupUse aThirdPartyAgree toDisagreeUnderstandthe ConflictConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.ConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictBewilling toForgiveNo "hittingbelow thebelt"Focuson thePresentRemainCalmExplore theAlternativesAvoidAccusationsAvoid theBlameGameControl youremotionsand behaviorAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.Get thefactsTakeTurnsTalkingBrainstormPossibleSolutionsListenStick tothefactsExpressfeelings inwords, notactions.Don'tGeneralizeUsePositiveStatementsUse "I"StatementsDon'tattack theotherpersonAvoidDisrespectfulWordsBeRespectfulBe specificabout whatif botheringyou.Know whatupset theotherpersonNoYellingNoDegradingLanguageDeal withone issueat a timeTake ADeepBreathCommunicatewith theOppositionAvoidclammingupUse aThirdPartyAgree toDisagreeUnderstandthe ConflictConsiderotherperson'spoint of view.ConsiderWhat RoleYou Playedin theConflictBewilling toForgiveNo "hittingbelow thebelt"Focuson thePresentRemainCalmExplore theAlternativesAvoidAccusationsAvoid theBlameGameControl youremotionsand behaviorAsk Questionsfor BetterUnderstanding.Get thefacts

Conflict Resolution - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Take Turns Talking
  2. Brainstorm Possible Solutions
  3. Listen
  4. Stick to the facts
  5. Express feelings in words, not actions.
  6. Don't Generalize
  7. Use Positive Statements
  8. Use "I" Statements
  9. Don't attack the other person
  10. Avoid Disrespectful Words
  11. Be Respectful
  12. Be specific about what if bothering you.
  13. Know what upset the other person
  14. No Yelling
  15. No Degrading Language
  16. Deal with one issue at a time
  17. Take A Deep Breath
  18. Communicate with the Opposition
  19. Avoid clamming up
  20. Use a Third Party
  21. Agree to Disagree
  22. Understand the Conflict
  23. Consider other person's point of view.
  24. Consider What Role You Played in the Conflict
  25. Be willing to Forgive
  26. No "hitting below the belt"
  27. Focus on the Present
  28. Remain Calm
  29. Explore the Alternatives
  30. Avoid Accusations
  31. Avoid the Blame Game
  32. Control your emotions and behavior
  33. Ask Questions for Better Understanding.
  34. Get the facts