(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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To push feelings/thoughts down
Repress
A possible outcome of aggressive communication
Violence
Our body's natural reaction to (perceived) danger
Fight-or-Flight
The part of the brain most commonly associated with fear & anger
Amygdala
A common, healthy way to cope with anger
Breathing Exercises
Maladaptive sets of beliefs or ways of thinking
Cognitive Distortions
A type of therapeutic intervention aimed to help people be present in the moment and communicate effectively
DBT
The knowledge of your emotions/ behaviors/actions and their origins
Self-Awareness
Some may call this being a "doormat" or getting walked all over
Passive
Developed from past experiences, this is the lens through which you see the world
Core Beliefs
It's a bad idea to confront someone when you are...
Intoxicated
Holding others responsible for outcomes/actions that were yours and not theirs
Blaming
The type of emotion we learn from our environment
Secondary Emotion
Respectful but firm communication style
Assertive
A critical way of viewing someone
Judgment
Covering up true feelings/emotions
Masking
Fight-or-flight hormone
Cortisol
Falsely believing something is directly aimed at you/intending to hurt you
Personalization
A way of identifying the activating event, the beliefs you have, and the consequences such as feelings
ABC Model
Both people give to get
Compromise
A defense mechanism that places your feelings on someone else
Projection
An appropriate way to tell someone how you feel
I Statements
A common, unhealthy communication style; "explosive"
Aggressive
The kind of emotion we are biologically equipped to experience; it tells us something important
Primary Emotion
We are neurobiologically designed to feel other people's feelings
Empathy
Indirect/sarcastic expression of anger
Passive-Aggressive
Repressed/hidden parts of ourselves
Shadow Material