It's notHis/her fault.He/She'sstrugglingtoo.He feelsawful, hasn'the sufferedenough?Ask fordetails sothey anjudge yourstoryYou aremakingtoo muchof itYou werejust toxicfor eachother."misunderstanding"He/She's notthat kind ofpersonanymoreYou justrememberthingsdifferentlyHe/Shenot likethatanymoreConsiderhis/herside ofthingsI don'tknowwhat tobelievefalseclaimsYoushouldhave...Take thehighroadI'm nottakingsidesThere's 2sides toeverystory.You'relying.Forgivebecause itwill helpyou heal.You arebeingoverdramaticWhy didn'tyou bringthis upsooner?You areruininghis/her lifeHow areyoudefiningabuseBe thebiggerpersonHolding ontoanger is likeholding ontohot coalIt's notHis/her fault.He/She'sstrugglingtoo.He feelsawful, hasn'the sufferedenough?Ask fordetails sothey anjudge yourstoryYou aremakingtoo muchof itYou werejust toxicfor eachother."misunderstanding"He/She's notthat kind ofpersonanymoreYou justrememberthingsdifferentlyHe/Shenot likethatanymoreConsiderhis/herside ofthingsI don'tknowwhat tobelievefalseclaimsYoushouldhave...Take thehighroadI'm nottakingsidesThere's 2sides toeverystory.You'relying.Forgivebecause itwill helpyou heal.You arebeingoverdramaticWhy didn'tyou bringthis upsooner?You areruininghis/her lifeHow areyoudefiningabuseBe thebiggerpersonHolding ontoanger is likeholding ontohot coal

Apologist Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. It's not His/her fault. He/She's struggling too.
  2. He feels awful, hasn't he suffered enough?
  3. Ask for details so they an judge your story
  4. You are making too much of it
  5. You were just toxic for each other.
  6. "misunderstanding"
  7. He/She's not that kind of person anymore
  8. You just remember things differently
  9. He/She not like that anymore
  10. Consider his/her side of things
  11. I don't know what to believe
  12. false claims
  13. You should have...
  14. Take the high road
  15. I'm not taking sides
  16. There's 2 sides to every story.
  17. You're lying.
  18. Forgive because it will help you heal.
  19. You are being over dramatic
  20. Why didn't you bring this up sooner?
  21. You are ruining his/her life
  22. How are you defining abuse
  23. Be the bigger person
  24. Holding onto anger is like holding onto hot coal