Use a support system Prevent isolation from others who can help Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your values RAFT You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!" Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly identify your boundary Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Use a support system Prevent isolation from others who can help Have self- respect Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your values RAFT You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!" Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly identify your boundary Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Use a support system
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
N-Have self-respect
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Trust your intuition
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Know your values
O-RAFT
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-How do you establish boundaries
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Know your limits
N-Don't say what is not true
N-Understand why you need the boundary