Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Use a support system Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? RAFT Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Trust your intuition Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Know your limits Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Use a support system Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? RAFT Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Trust your intuition Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Know your limits Clearly identify your boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Use a support system
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-You are in charge of your choices
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-RAFT
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Know your values
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Trust your intuition
N-Have self-respect
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Know your limits
I-Clearly identify your boundary