Have self- respect Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Know your limits Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Beware oversharing to everyone RAFT Don't say what is not true Describe your personal bubble Is your family open with their feelings? Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Understand why you need the boundary You are in charge of your choices Say a strong "NO!" Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your values Have self- respect Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Know your limits Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Beware oversharing to everyone RAFT Don't say what is not true Describe your personal bubble Is your family open with their feelings? Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Understand why you need the boundary You are in charge of your choices Say a strong "NO!" Don't absorb other's feelings Use a support system Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your values
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Have self-respect
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
O-Know your limits
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Address boundary violations early
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-RAFT
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-You are in charge of your choices
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Use a support system
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
G-Know your values