Use a support system Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Say a strong "NO!" Know your limits You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Use a support system Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Say a strong "NO!" Know your limits You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Use a support system
I-Ask what you need at this time
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-RAFT
G-Know your values
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Address boundary violations early
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Have self-respect
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Know your limits
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Describe your personal bubble