Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Trust your intuition Don't apologize for setting a boundary Have self- respect Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Know your limits Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary RAFT Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Trust your intuition Don't apologize for setting a boundary Have self- respect Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree You are in charge of your choices Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't absorb other's feelings Know your limits Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary RAFT
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Trust your intuition
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
N-Have self-respect
G-Know your values
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Use a support system
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Know your limits
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-RAFT