Trust your intuition Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary Use a support system Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree RAFT Know your limits Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Have self- respect Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Understand why you need the boundary You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Clearly identify your boundary Know your values Trust your intuition Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary Use a support system Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree RAFT Know your limits Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Have self- respect Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Understand why you need the boundary You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Clearly identify your boundary Know your values
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Trust your intuition
B-Describe your personal bubble
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Use a support system
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-RAFT
O-Know your limits
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Ask what you need at this time
N-Have self-respect
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Clearly identify your boundary
G-Know your values