Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Say a strong "NO!" Have self- respect Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Don't absorb other's feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't say what is not true Address boundary violations early Use a support system Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits How do you establish boundaries Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Say a strong "NO!" Have self- respect Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Don't absorb other's feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Don't say what is not true Address boundary violations early Use a support system
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Know your limits
I-How do you establish boundaries
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-RAFT
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Know your values
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Have self-respect
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Trust your intuition
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Address boundary violations early
O-Use a support system