Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Use a support system Don't apologize for setting a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Address boundary violations early Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help Understand why you need the boundary RAFT Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!" Describe your personal bubble How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Use a support system Don't apologize for setting a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Address boundary violations early Know your values Prevent isolation from others who can help
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-RAFT
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Clearly identify your boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Don't say what is not true
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Trust your intuition
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Know your limits
O-Use a support system
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Have self-respect
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Know your values
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help