Describe your personal bubble Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your limits Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree You are in charge of your choices Use a support system Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time RAFT Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your limits Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree You are in charge of your choices Use a support system Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time RAFT Clearly identify your boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Have self-respect
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Know your limits
G-Know your values
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Use a support system
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Trust your intuition
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-RAFT
I-Clearly identify your boundary