Come up with aplan today tomake everyone inyour family happy.What will you dofor each familymember?Parents:Praise yourchild for onething eachday.As a family, modelsaying you are sorrywhen you yell,overreact oraccidentally blamesomeone forsomething theydidn't do.Lose-WinParents: You may bepopular in the short runbecause you take thecourse of leastresistance How willyour find a vision orlearn respect?What is important toanother person mustbe important to youas the other personis to you. (Covey)Give an example.Fill yourmom's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?Fill yourbrother orsister's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?The key to yourfamily culture is howyou treat the childthat tests you themost. Who is thatchild? How do youtreat them?Parents: Set clearexpectations aboutchores, bed times,and watching tv. Thiswill make win-winsituations easier toattain.Strong people don'tput others down...they lift them up.MPWList how you lift upyour familymembers.Play a game withyour child that has adefinite winner.Explain howcompetition is okwhen you play agame, but it is not okin relationships.“You don’t have toblow out the otherperson’s light to letyour own shine.”~Bernard M.BaruchThink of an on-goingproblem you havewith your child.Discuss a win-winsolution and remindeach other when theproblem arises.Try saying:Parents: Practicesaying...You see itdifferently. Good!Help meunderstand!"A compromise is theart of dividing a cakein such a way thateveryone believeshe has the biggestpiece."~Ludwig ErhardLose-WinParents: You're biggerand stronger so you winin the short run but youare emptying yourchild's emotional bankaccount. How are theylearning to make goodchoices?Do somethingnice for abrother or sistertoday. How didit make yourfeel?Write inyourdialoguejournal.Cooperate withone of yoursiblings insteadof fighting.What did youdo?Encourage yourchildren to workthrough siblingdisputes. Don'talways be themediator. Praisethem when they do.Try this...“If we are to live andwork together, wehave to talk to eachother."~Eleanor RooseveltAre youfocusing onWHAT is rightand not WHOis right?Help yourfamily solve aproblem. Whatdid you do tohelp?Fill yourdad's buckettoday. Whatdid you do?Come up with aplan today tomake everyone inyour family happy.What will you dofor each familymember?Parents:Praise yourchild for onething eachday.As a family, modelsaying you are sorrywhen you yell,overreact oraccidentally blamesomeone forsomething theydidn't do.Lose-WinParents: You may bepopular in the short runbecause you take thecourse of leastresistance How willyour find a vision orlearn respect?What is important toanother person mustbe important to youas the other personis to you. (Covey)Give an example.Fill yourmom's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?Fill yourbrother orsister's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?The key to yourfamily culture is howyou treat the childthat tests you themost. Who is thatchild? How do youtreat them?Parents: Set clearexpectations aboutchores, bed times,and watching tv. Thiswill make win-winsituations easier toattain.Strong people don'tput others down...they lift them up.MPWList how you lift upyour familymembers.Play a game withyour child that has adefinite winner.Explain howcompetition is okwhen you play agame, but it is not okin relationships.“You don’t have toblow out the otherperson’s light to letyour own shine.”~Bernard M.BaruchThink of an on-goingproblem you havewith your child.Discuss a win-winsolution and remindeach other when theproblem arises.Try saying:Parents: Practicesaying...You see itdifferently. Good!Help meunderstand!"A compromise is theart of dividing a cakein such a way thateveryone believeshe has the biggestpiece."~Ludwig ErhardLose-WinParents: You're biggerand stronger so you winin the short run but youare emptying yourchild's emotional bankaccount. How are theylearning to make goodchoices?Do somethingnice for abrother or sistertoday. How didit make yourfeel?Write inyourdialoguejournal.Cooperate withone of yoursiblings insteadof fighting.What did youdo?Encourage yourchildren to workthrough siblingdisputes. Don'talways be themediator. Praisethem when they do.Try this...“If we are to live andwork together, wehave to talk to eachother."~Eleanor RooseveltAre youfocusing onWHAT is rightand not WHOis right?Help yourfamily solve aproblem. Whatdid you do tohelp?Fill yourdad's buckettoday. Whatdid you do?

#4 Think Win-Win - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Come up with a plan today to make everyone in your family happy. What will you do for each family member?
  2. Parents: Praise your child for one thing each day.
  3. As a family, model saying you are sorry when you yell, overreact or accidentally blame someone for something they didn't do.
  4. Lose-Win Parents: You may be popular in the short run because you take the course of least resistance How will your find a vision or learn respect?
  5. What is important to another person must be important to you as the other person is to you. (Covey) Give an example.
  6. Fill your mom's bucket today. What did you say?
  7. Fill your brother or sister's bucket today. What did you say?
  8. The key to your family culture is how you treat the child that tests you the most. Who is that child? How do you treat them?
  9. Parents: Set clear expectations about chores, bed times, and watching tv. This will make win-win situations easier to attain.
  10. Strong people don't put others down... they lift them up. MPW List how you lift up your family members.
  11. Play a game with your child that has a definite winner. Explain how competition is ok when you play a game, but it is not ok in relationships.
  12. “You don’t have to blow out the other person’s light to let your own shine.” ~Bernard M. Baruch
  13. Think of an on-going problem you have with your child. Discuss a win-win solution and remind each other when the problem arises.
  14. Try saying: Parents: Practice saying... You see it differently. Good! Help me understand!
  15. "A compromise is the art of dividing a cake in such a way that everyone believes he has the biggest piece." ~Ludwig Erhard
  16. Lose-Win Parents: You're bigger and stronger so you win in the short run but you are emptying your child's emotional bank account. How are they learning to make good choices?
  17. Do something nice for a brother or sister today. How did it make your feel?
  18. Write in your dialogue journal.
  19. Cooperate with one of your siblings instead of fighting. What did you do?
  20. Encourage your children to work through sibling disputes. Don't always be the mediator. Praise them when they do.
  21. Try this... “If we are to live and work together, we have to talk to each other." ~Eleanor Roosevelt
  22. Are you focusing on WHAT is right and not WHO is right?
  23. Help your family solve a problem. What did you do to help?
  24. Fill your dad's bucket today. What did you do?