Do somethingnice for abrother or sistertoday. How didit make yourfeel?Write inyourdialoguejournal.The key to yourfamily culture is howyou treat the childthat tests you themost. Who is thatchild? How do youtreat them?Try saying:Parents: Practicesaying...You see itdifferently. Good!Help meunderstand!Fill yourmom's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?As a family, modelsaying you are sorrywhen you yell,overreact oraccidentally blamesomeone forsomething theydidn't do.Fill yourdad's buckettoday. Whatdid you do?Come up with aplan today tomake everyone inyour family happy.What will you dofor each familymember?Parents: Set clearexpectations aboutchores, bed times,and watching tv. Thiswill make win-winsituations easier toattain.Try this...“If we are to live andwork together, wehave to talk to eachother."~Eleanor RooseveltThink of an on-goingproblem you havewith your child.Discuss a win-winsolution and remindeach other when theproblem arises.Play a game withyour child that has adefinite winner.Explain howcompetition is okwhen you play agame, but it is not okin relationships.Lose-WinParents: You're biggerand stronger so you winin the short run but youare emptying yourchild's emotional bankaccount. How are theylearning to make goodchoices?Parents:Praise yourchild for onething eachday.“You don’t have toblow out the otherperson’s light to letyour own shine.”~Bernard M.BaruchHelp yourfamily solve aproblem. Whatdid you do tohelp?Lose-WinParents: You may bepopular in the short runbecause you take thecourse of leastresistance How willyour find a vision orlearn respect?"A compromise is theart of dividing a cakein such a way thateveryone believeshe has the biggestpiece."~Ludwig ErhardWhat is important toanother person mustbe important to youas the other personis to you. (Covey)Give an example.Cooperate withone of yoursiblings insteadof fighting.What did youdo?Fill yourbrother orsister's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?Encourage yourchildren to workthrough siblingdisputes. Don'talways be themediator. Praisethem when they do.Are youfocusing onWHAT is rightand not WHOis right?Strong people don'tput others down...they lift them up.MPWList how you lift upyour familymembers.Do somethingnice for abrother or sistertoday. How didit make yourfeel?Write inyourdialoguejournal.The key to yourfamily culture is howyou treat the childthat tests you themost. Who is thatchild? How do youtreat them?Try saying:Parents: Practicesaying...You see itdifferently. Good!Help meunderstand!Fill yourmom's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?As a family, modelsaying you are sorrywhen you yell,overreact oraccidentally blamesomeone forsomething theydidn't do.Fill yourdad's buckettoday. Whatdid you do?Come up with aplan today tomake everyone inyour family happy.What will you dofor each familymember?Parents: Set clearexpectations aboutchores, bed times,and watching tv. Thiswill make win-winsituations easier toattain.Try this...“If we are to live andwork together, wehave to talk to eachother."~Eleanor RooseveltThink of an on-goingproblem you havewith your child.Discuss a win-winsolution and remindeach other when theproblem arises.Play a game withyour child that has adefinite winner.Explain howcompetition is okwhen you play agame, but it is not okin relationships.Lose-WinParents: You're biggerand stronger so you winin the short run but youare emptying yourchild's emotional bankaccount. How are theylearning to make goodchoices?Parents:Praise yourchild for onething eachday.“You don’t have toblow out the otherperson’s light to letyour own shine.”~Bernard M.BaruchHelp yourfamily solve aproblem. Whatdid you do tohelp?Lose-WinParents: You may bepopular in the short runbecause you take thecourse of leastresistance How willyour find a vision orlearn respect?"A compromise is theart of dividing a cakein such a way thateveryone believeshe has the biggestpiece."~Ludwig ErhardWhat is important toanother person mustbe important to youas the other personis to you. (Covey)Give an example.Cooperate withone of yoursiblings insteadof fighting.What did youdo?Fill yourbrother orsister's buckettoday. Whatdid you say?Encourage yourchildren to workthrough siblingdisputes. Don'talways be themediator. Praisethem when they do.Are youfocusing onWHAT is rightand not WHOis right?Strong people don'tput others down...they lift them up.MPWList how you lift upyour familymembers.

#4 Think Win-Win - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Do something nice for a brother or sister today. How did it make your feel?
  2. Write in your dialogue journal.
  3. The key to your family culture is how you treat the child that tests you the most. Who is that child? How do you treat them?
  4. Try saying: Parents: Practice saying... You see it differently. Good! Help me understand!
  5. Fill your mom's bucket today. What did you say?
  6. As a family, model saying you are sorry when you yell, overreact or accidentally blame someone for something they didn't do.
  7. Fill your dad's bucket today. What did you do?
  8. Come up with a plan today to make everyone in your family happy. What will you do for each family member?
  9. Parents: Set clear expectations about chores, bed times, and watching tv. This will make win-win situations easier to attain.
  10. Try this... “If we are to live and work together, we have to talk to each other." ~Eleanor Roosevelt
  11. Think of an on-going problem you have with your child. Discuss a win-win solution and remind each other when the problem arises.
  12. Play a game with your child that has a definite winner. Explain how competition is ok when you play a game, but it is not ok in relationships.
  13. Lose-Win Parents: You're bigger and stronger so you win in the short run but you are emptying your child's emotional bank account. How are they learning to make good choices?
  14. Parents: Praise your child for one thing each day.
  15. “You don’t have to blow out the other person’s light to let your own shine.” ~Bernard M. Baruch
  16. Help your family solve a problem. What did you do to help?
  17. Lose-Win Parents: You may be popular in the short run because you take the course of least resistance How will your find a vision or learn respect?
  18. "A compromise is the art of dividing a cake in such a way that everyone believes he has the biggest piece." ~Ludwig Erhard
  19. What is important to another person must be important to you as the other person is to you. (Covey) Give an example.
  20. Cooperate with one of your siblings instead of fighting. What did you do?
  21. Fill your brother or sister's bucket today. What did you say?
  22. Encourage your children to work through sibling disputes. Don't always be the mediator. Praise them when they do.
  23. Are you focusing on WHAT is right and not WHO is right?
  24. Strong people don't put others down... they lift them up. MPW List how you lift up your family members.