Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Therapist maps out process
2. Client identifies new cycle
3. Identify a diversity issue with this training
4. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
5. Client reports restructured interaction
6. Client describes the process
7. Clients hold hands
8. Client identifies or clarifies a need
9. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
10. Blamer softens or reports softening
11. Identify a pursuer: _______
12. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
13. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
14. Client 'owns' an emotional state
15. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
16. Client says "Safe is: ______"
17. Client identifies attachment fear
18. Client identifies part of the process
19. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
20. "Am I kind of getting it?"
21. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
22. Identify a withdrawer: ______
23. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
24. Client accepts other's experience