Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
2. Client says "Safe is: ______"
3. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
4. Client identifies part of the process
5. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
6. Client describes the process
7. Clients hold hands
8. Identify a withdrawer: ______
9. Client identifies attachment fear
10. Identify a pursuer: _______
11. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
12. Identify a diversity issue with this training
13. Client identifies or clarifies a need
14. Blamer softens or reports softening
15. Therapist maps out process
16. Client reports restructured interaction
17. Client accepts other's experience
18. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
19. "Am I kind of getting it?"
20. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
21. Client identifies new cycle
22. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
23. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
24. Client 'owns' an emotional state