Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Clients hold hands
2. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
3. "Am I kind of getting it?"
4. Client describes the process
5. Client identifies new cycle
6. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
7. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
8. Therapist maps out process
9. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
10. Blamer softens or reports softening
11. Client reports restructured interaction
12. Client identifies part of the process
13. Client accepts other's experience
14. Client 'owns' an emotional state
15. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
16. Client says "Safe is: ______"
17. Identify a diversity issue with this training
18. Client identifies or clarifies a need
19. Identify a pursuer: _______
20. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
21. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
22. Client identifies attachment fear
23. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
24. Identify a withdrawer: ______