Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
2. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
3. Client describes the process
4. Client identifies or clarifies a need
5. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
6. Client reports restructured interaction
7. "Am I kind of getting it?"
8. Client identifies part of the process
9. Client identifies attachment fear
10. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
11. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
12. Identify a diversity issue with this training
13. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
14. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
15. Client says "Safe is: ______"
16. Blamer softens or reports softening
17. Therapist maps out process
18. Identify a withdrawer: ______
19. Identify a pursuer: _______
20. Clients hold hands
21. Client identifies new cycle
22. Client accepts other's experience
23. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
24. Client 'owns' an emotional state