Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Clients hold hands
2. Client accepts other's experience
3. Blamer softens or reports softening
4. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
5. Identify a pursuer: _______
6. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
7. Identify a withdrawer: ______
8. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
9. Identify a diversity issue with this training
10. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
11. Client identifies new cycle
12. Therapist maps out process
13. Client says "Safe is: ______"
14. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
15. "Am I kind of getting it?"
16. Client identifies part of the process
17. Client 'owns' an emotional state
18. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
19. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
20. Client reports restructured interaction
21. Client identifies attachment fear
22. Client describes the process
23. Client identifies or clarifies a need
24. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging