Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
2. Client says "Safe is: ______"
3. Client accepts other's experience
4. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
5. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
6. Blamer softens or reports softening
7. Client describes the process
8. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
9. Identify a withdrawer: ______
10. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
11. Identify a diversity issue with this training
12. Therapist maps out process
13. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
14. Client 'owns' an emotional state
15. Client identifies or clarifies a need
16. Clients hold hands
17. Client reports restructured interaction
18. Client identifies part of the process
19. Identify a pursuer: _______
20. Client identifies attachment fear
21. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
22. Client identifies new cycle
23. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
24. "Am I kind of getting it?"