Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Therapist maps out process
2. Client says "Safe is: ______"
3. Identify a diversity issue with this training
4. Identify a withdrawer: ______
5. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
6. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
7. Client identifies new cycle
8. Clients hold hands
9. "Am I kind of getting it?"
10. Client describes the process
11. Client identifies or clarifies a need
12. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
13. Client identifies part of the process
14. Blamer softens or reports softening
15. Client accepts other's experience
16. Client 'owns' an emotional state
17. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
18. Client identifies attachment fear
19. Identify a pursuer: _______
20. Client reports restructured interaction
21. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
22. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
23. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
24. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy