Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Client describes the process
2. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
3. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
4. Client 'owns' an emotional state
5. Client identifies or clarifies a need
6. "Am I kind of getting it?"
7. Therapist maps out process
8. Blamer softens or reports softening
9. Client identifies new cycle
10. Identify a pursuer: _______
11. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
12. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
13. Identify a withdrawer: ______
14. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
15. Clients hold hands
16. Client says "Safe is: ______"
17. Client identifies attachment fear
18. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
19. Client reports restructured interaction
20. Client identifies part of the process
21. Client accepts other's experience
22. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
23. Identify a diversity issue with this training
24. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern