Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
2. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
3. Blamer softens or reports softening
4. Client identifies part of the process
5. Therapist maps out process
6. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
7. Clients hold hands
8. Client identifies or clarifies a need
9. Identify a withdrawer: ______
10. Client describes the process
11. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
12. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
13. Client says "Safe is: ______"
14. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
15. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
16. Client reports restructured interaction
17. Identify a pursuer: _______
18. Client accepts other's experience
19. Client identifies new cycle
20. Identify a diversity issue with this training
21. Client identifies attachment fear
22. Client 'owns' an emotional state
23. "Am I kind of getting it?"
24. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor