Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Identify a withdrawer: ______
2. Client reports restructured interaction
3. Identify a pursuer: _______
4. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
5. Client 'owns' an emotional state
6. Client identifies new cycle
7. Client identifies or clarifies a need
8. Client identifies attachment fear
9. Client says "Safe is: ______"
10. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
11. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
12. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
13. Therapist maps out process
14. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
15. Client accepts other's experience
16. Client describes the process
17. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
18. Identify a diversity issue with this training
19. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
20. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
21. Clients hold hands
22. Blamer softens or reports softening
23. "Am I kind of getting it?"
24. Client identifies part of the process