Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Identify a pursuer: _______
2. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
3. Identify a withdrawer: ______
4. Client reports restructured interaction
5. Client identifies or clarifies a need
6. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
7. Client identifies part of the process
8. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
9. Client accepts other's experience
10. Client identifies new cycle
11. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
12. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
13. Client says "Safe is: ______"
14. "Am I kind of getting it?"
15. Client identifies attachment fear
16. Clients hold hands
17. Identify a diversity issue with this training
18. Client 'owns' an emotional state
19. Identify a pursue behavior: ______
20. Client describes the process
21. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
22. Therapist maps out process
23. Blamer softens or reports softening
24. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____