Hold Me Tight Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.

1. Identify a pursuer: _______
2. Client identifies part of the process
3. Client(s) identifies cycle as enemy
4. Therapist reframes withdrawer pattern
5. Withdrawer engages or reports engaging
6. Client 'owns' an emotional state
7. Client reports restructured interaction
8. "I feel alone." (or equivalent phrase)
9. "Am I kind of getting it?"
10. Client identifies or clarifies a need
11. Clients hold hands
12. Therapist reframes pursuer pattern
13. Client describes the process
14. Therapist maps out process
15. Identify a diversity issue with this training
16. Identify a 'withdraw' behavior: _____
17. Client utilizes "dance" metaphor
18. Identify a withdrawer: ______
19. Client says "Safe is: ______"
20. Client identifies attachment fear
21. Client identifies new cycle
22. Blamer softens or reports softening
23. Client accepts other's experience
24. Identify a pursue behavior: ______