(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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B-Avoid attacking the other person’s character.
N-Use “I” Messages
O-Tone/rate/volume of voice.
I-Put arguments in writing.
N-Stay away from situations/people that you know bring conflict.
B-Diffuse the situation by not taking it too seriously.
B-Take a deep breath and count to ten.
O-Stand up for your point of view.
N-Think about the consequences of conflict/actions.
O-Stick to the facts.
G-Give opportunities to express needs
I-Agree to disagree
G-Teach
flexibility.
G-Create good friendships/relationships with others.
O-Silence.
I-Negotiate or compromise.
B-Talk About How I Feel.
I-Involve people experienced in conflict resolution.
O-Peace is Not the Absence of Conflict. It is the Ability to Handle it Peacefully.
B-Practice self control.
N-Walk away.
G-Increase decision-making skills.
B-Try to understand what the other person is feeling.
G-Open Our Eyes to New Ideas
G-Increase cooperation.
I-Distinguish between what we hear and what is meant.
N-Talk to a trusted/respected friend or adult when feeling intensely angry
