(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Double standards
Charming
Provokes and then blames
They use the silent treatment as control
Fragmented relationships
Circular conversations – word salad
Managed down expectations
Do they accuse you of things you didn’t do? Gaslighting
Demands trust
Remembers things you did years ago and brings them up in arguments
Triangulation
Intrusive & controlling
Uses guilt and pity ploys
Always the victim
Doesn’t have long term friends
Poor financial management
Never apologizes
Alienation of children to the other parent
Degrade you
Lives in a fantasy world
Broken promises
Friends love them or hate them
No responsibility – blame others
Lots of crazy people in their past
No regard for rules or laws
Twists your words in arguments
Forces sexual desires
Makes up excuses
Cheating
Rushing Intimacy – soul mate scam
Focuses on your imperfections but ignore their own.
They must be right
Hoovering
Entitlement
Uses social media to provoke jealously with their ex’s
Lovebombing
If someone goes against them – they fight to kill
Uses your friends and family as flying monkeys
Your words are used against you
They talk badly of past relationships yet visit with them to make you jealous
Facebombing – they attach themselves to your friends on facebook
Feel like you are walking on eggshells
Control of your spending
You feel you might be in danger
Often, they cannot laugh at themselves
They get bored easily
Drama follows them but they blame you
You have a feeling something is wrong
They do not like parties for others because they are not the center of attention
Smear campaigns
They know how to push your buttons
Hostile reaction to attention and credit given to others
Gaslighting
Great actors taking on roles we call masks
Points out your imperfections
They have a fake personality in public
Often are compulsive about having the latest greatest technology
Alcohol and drug use
Two faced, critical of others behind back
Your feelings and emotions are not validated or allowed
Craves power and control
Big ego - superior
Isolation
Self-centered
Grooming victims
Uses jokes to insult you and wear you down
Chronic lying
You fear any fight could end the relationship
They can have different personas around different people
They slander you – smear campaigns
Fraud is often something victims will see
Anger when confronted
Cognitive dissonance
Mirroring back at you what you are looking for
Often hyper emotional is a role they play to manipulate
Projecting
Confusion – story changes
Few personal possessions
Concern for public image
Insults – smirks – teases - tortures you
Wants you to make their life better
Belittle your accomplishments
Ghosting
They might constantly correct you – nothing is right
Reckless and impulsive
Lacks integrity with others
You always fall short of their expectations
No accountability
They withhold attention as manipulation
Inconsistent details of their past
Behavior never changes
Condescending
Uses children as a pawn
They rewrite history to suit them
They thrive on drama and have an ample supply
Shaming
They isolate you
Ruled by money and they want yours
Compares you to everyone in their life (good and then bad)
Status oriented
They provoke guilt in you
Moves on quickly
Acts differently in public and private
You were targeted as good supply
Boasts about themselves (untrue claims)
Paints victims as unstable
Might not have a relationship with their family
Distorts facts to suit their needs
You find yourself looking up what a narcissist is – detective