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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. T-Has good family relationships
  2. R-Self-centered
  3. T-Takes care of self
  4. G-Respects limits
  5. G-Accepts responsibility
  6. S-Positive Strokes
  7. O-Mind reading
  8. T-Similar Values
  9. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  10. R-Angers easily
  11. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  12. S-Patience
  13. G-Compassionate
  14. S-Fight Fair
  15. S-Apologize when wrong
  16. S-Be forgiving
  17. S-Share Feelings
  18. O-Conflicting values
  19. O-Rigid Thinking
  20. O-Holding grudges
  21. O-Defensiveness
  22. G-Thoughtful
  23. R-Demands all your time
  24. R-Calls names/put downs
  25. G-Attentive
  26. T-Good Sense of Humor
  27. O-Doesn't Listen
  28. G-Negotiates
  29. T-Listens
  30. O-Over-busy schedules
  31. S-Balanced alone and together time
  32. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  33. O-Not expressing feelings
  34. T-Balanced School and Play
  35. S-Use "I" statements
  36. G-Respectful
  37. R-Invades privacy
  38. R-Excessive computer use
  39. O-Jumps to conclusions
  40. G-Honest
  41. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  42. T-Maintains friendships
  43. R-Guilt-tripping
  44. T-Self-Confident
  45. G-Accepting
  46. S-Be yourself
  47. R-Abuses trust
  48. R-Breaks promises
  49. S-Share decision making
  50. T-Positive Outlook
  51. S-Make Time for Fun
  52. R-Jealous
  53. G-Sincere
  54. T-Talks about Feelings
  55. G-Caring
  56. S-Share responsibility
  57. R-Blaming
  58. R-Abuses substances
  59. T-Common Interests
  60. R-Destructive
  61. R-Disrespectful
  62. S-Focus on Strengths
  63. G-Have fun together
  64. G-Keeps promises
  65. G-Reliable
  66. G-Supportive
  67. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  68. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  69. S-Spend time together
  70. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  71. O-Being Critical
  72. O-Always Right
  73. S-Active Listening
  74. R-Controlling