Apologize when wrong Sincere Listens Always Right Share Feelings Use "I" statements Negotiates Maintains friendships Good Sense of Humor Self- Confident Woulda shoulda coulda Mind reading Make Time for Fun Be yourself Active Listening All-or- nothing thinking Demands all your time Jumps to conclusions Honest Be forgiving Abuses substances Not expressing feelings Blaming Supportive Has Self- Directed Goals Fight Fair Being Critical Balanced School and Play Patience Holding grudges Rigid Thinking Guilt- tripping Breaks promises Controlling Reliable Positive Strokes Doesn't Listen Share decision making Takes care of self Has good family relationships Jealous Invades privacy Angers easily Abuses trust Respectful Caring Share responsibility Defensiveness Attentive Spend time together Unrealistic Expectations Accepting Respects limits Feels Comfortable Being Self Focus on Strengths Self- centered Similar Values Compassionate Excessive computer use Keeps promises Thoughtful Accepts responsibility Positive Outlook Have fun together Talks about Feelings Conflicting values Disrespectful Expresses Anger Appropriately Common Interests Destructive Calls names/put downs Balanced alone and together time Balanced giving and receiving Over- busy schedules Apologize when wrong Sincere Listens Always Right Share Feelings Use "I" statements Negotiates Maintains friendships Good Sense of Humor Self- Confident Woulda shoulda coulda Mind reading Make Time for Fun Be yourself Active Listening All-or- nothing thinking Demands all your time Jumps to conclusions Honest Be forgiving Abuses substances Not expressing feelings Blaming Supportive Has Self- Directed Goals Fight Fair Being Critical Balanced School and Play Patience Holding grudges Rigid Thinking Guilt- tripping Breaks promises Controlling Reliable Positive Strokes Doesn't Listen Share decision making Takes care of self Has good family relationships Jealous Invades privacy Angers easily Abuses trust Respectful Caring Share responsibility Defensiveness Attentive Spend time together Unrealistic Expectations Accepting Respects limits Feels Comfortable Being Self Focus on Strengths Self- centered Similar Values Compassionate Excessive computer use Keeps promises Thoughtful Accepts responsibility Positive Outlook Have fun together Talks about Feelings Conflicting values Disrespectful Expresses Anger Appropriately Common Interests Destructive Calls names/put downs Balanced alone and together time Balanced giving and receiving Over- busy schedules
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S-Apologize when wrong
G-Sincere
T-Listens
O-Always Right
S-Share Feelings
S-Use "I" statements
G-Negotiates
T-Maintains friendships
T-Good Sense of Humor
T-Self-Confident
O-Woulda shoulda coulda
O-Mind reading
S-Make Time for Fun
S-Be yourself
S-Active Listening
O-All-or-nothing thinking
R-Demands all your time
O-Jumps to conclusions
G-Honest
S-Be forgiving
R-Abuses substances
O-Not expressing feelings
R-Blaming
G-Supportive
T-Has Self-Directed Goals
S-Fight Fair
O-Being Critical
T-Balanced School and Play
S-Patience
O-Holding grudges
O-Rigid Thinking
R-Guilt-tripping
R-Breaks promises
R-Controlling
G-Reliable
S-Positive Strokes
O-Doesn't Listen
S-Share decision making
T-Takes care of self
T-Has good family relationships
R-Jealous
R-Invades privacy
R-Angers easily
R-Abuses trust
G-Respectful
G-Caring
S-Share responsibility
O-Defensiveness
G-Attentive
S-Spend time together
O-Unrealistic Expectations
G-Accepting
G-Respects limits
T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
S-Focus on Strengths
R-Self-centered
T-Similar Values
G-Compassionate
R-Excessive computer use
G-Keeps promises
G-Thoughtful
G-Accepts responsibility
T-Positive Outlook
G-Have fun together
T-Talks about Feelings
O-Conflicting values
R-Disrespectful
T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
T-Common Interests
R-Destructive
R-Calls names/put downs
S-Balanced alone and together time
T-Balanced giving and receiving
O-Over-busy schedules
