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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  2. G-Have fun together
  3. S-Focus on Strengths
  4. R-Excessive computer use
  5. S-Balanced alone and together time
  6. S-Positive Strokes
  7. S-Make Time for Fun
  8. T-Positive Outlook
  9. R-Self-centered
  10. S-Be yourself
  11. G-Accepts responsibility
  12. G-Thoughtful
  13. R-Destructive
  14. S-Share Feelings
  15. G-Respects limits
  16. S-Apologize when wrong
  17. O-Rigid Thinking
  18. T-Maintains friendships
  19. S-Patience
  20. O-Conflicting values
  21. R-Disrespectful
  22. G-Caring
  23. R-Abuses substances
  24. R-Blaming
  25. R-Invades privacy
  26. O-Defensiveness
  27. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  28. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  29. G-Compassionate
  30. S-Use "I" statements
  31. O-Always Right
  32. O-Being Critical
  33. T-Common Interests
  34. O-Jumps to conclusions
  35. S-Share decision making
  36. T-Good Sense of Humor
  37. T-Balanced School and Play
  38. S-Share responsibility
  39. G-Negotiates
  40. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  41. O-Doesn't Listen
  42. T-Listens
  43. T-Self-Confident
  44. O-Not expressing feelings
  45. G-Reliable
  46. G-Attentive
  47. S-Spend time together
  48. G-Honest
  49. O-Mind reading
  50. G-Supportive
  51. R-Guilt-tripping
  52. T-Takes care of self
  53. T-Has good family relationships
  54. G-Accepting
  55. O-Holding grudges
  56. G-Sincere
  57. R-Calls names/put downs
  58. T-Talks about Feelings
  59. R-Demands all your time
  60. G-Keeps promises
  61. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  62. R-Breaks promises
  63. G-Respectful
  64. R-Angers easily
  65. S-Active Listening
  66. S-Be forgiving
  67. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  68. R-Jealous
  69. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  70. O-Over-busy schedules
  71. T-Similar Values
  72. R-Controlling
  73. S-Fight Fair
  74. R-Abuses trust