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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-Respectful
  2. S-Patience
  3. T-Self-Confident
  4. R-Invades privacy
  5. R-Abuses trust
  6. S-Make Time for Fun
  7. G-Honest
  8. S-Fight Fair
  9. O-Not expressing feelings
  10. O-Conflicting values
  11. S-Positive Strokes
  12. G-Thoughtful
  13. O-Rigid Thinking
  14. T-Talks about Feelings
  15. G-Supportive
  16. R-Destructive
  17. S-Share Feelings
  18. R-Self-centered
  19. G-Keeps promises
  20. R-Abuses substances
  21. G-Respects limits
  22. T-Positive Outlook
  23. G-Negotiates
  24. R-Disrespectful
  25. G-Accepts responsibility
  26. R-Controlling
  27. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  28. S-Be forgiving
  29. G-Attentive
  30. O-Mind reading
  31. S-Focus on Strengths
  32. S-Balanced alone and together time
  33. O-Doesn't Listen
  34. G-Have fun together
  35. R-Calls names/put downs
  36. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  37. T-Good Sense of Humor
  38. O-Being Critical
  39. G-Caring
  40. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  41. T-Maintains friendships
  42. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  43. O-Always Right
  44. G-Accepting
  45. R-Demands all your time
  46. R-Excessive computer use
  47. S-Use "I" statements
  48. T-Balanced School and Play
  49. S-Share responsibility
  50. T-Has good family relationships
  51. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  52. S-Spend time together
  53. O-Defensiveness
  54. T-Takes care of self
  55. S-Apologize when wrong
  56. R-Guilt-tripping
  57. S-Active Listening
  58. R-Angers easily
  59. O-Over-busy schedules
  60. R-Breaks promises
  61. S-Be yourself
  62. T-Similar Values
  63. O-Jumps to conclusions
  64. T-Common Interests
  65. G-Reliable
  66. R-Jealous
  67. R-Blaming
  68. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  69. S-Share decision making
  70. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  71. O-Holding grudges
  72. G-Compassionate
  73. G-Sincere
  74. T-Listens