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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. R-Abuses substances
  2. S-Focus on Strengths
  3. S-Apologize when wrong
  4. R-Breaks promises
  5. R-Destructive
  6. G-Reliable
  7. O-Being Critical
  8. O-Defensiveness
  9. S-Fight Fair
  10. S-Be forgiving
  11. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  12. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  13. S-Be yourself
  14. S-Share Feelings
  15. S-Balanced alone and together time
  16. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  17. T-Balanced School and Play
  18. T-Good Sense of Humor
  19. G-Have fun together
  20. S-Make Time for Fun
  21. S-Positive Strokes
  22. S-Use "I" statements
  23. O-Over-busy schedules
  24. T-Takes care of self
  25. S-Share decision making
  26. T-Talks about Feelings
  27. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  28. T-Has good family relationships
  29. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  30. O-Doesn't Listen
  31. R-Guilt-tripping
  32. T-Self-Confident
  33. G-Negotiates
  34. G-Compassionate
  35. R-Abuses trust
  36. O-Holding grudges
  37. G-Respects limits
  38. T-Similar Values
  39. G-Supportive
  40. O-Conflicting values
  41. G-Attentive
  42. R-Calls names/put downs
  43. G-Respectful
  44. O-Rigid Thinking
  45. R-Demands all your time
  46. G-Caring
  47. R-Excessive computer use
  48. O-Jumps to conclusions
  49. T-Common Interests
  50. R-Self-centered
  51. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  52. S-Spend time together
  53. G-Accepts responsibility
  54. S-Share responsibility
  55. R-Blaming
  56. T-Listens
  57. O-Always Right
  58. O-Mind reading
  59. G-Honest
  60. T-Maintains friendships
  61. T-Positive Outlook
  62. S-Patience
  63. G-Keeps promises
  64. G-Accepting
  65. R-Invades privacy
  66. S-Active Listening
  67. R-Jealous
  68. R-Controlling
  69. G-Thoughtful
  70. R-Disrespectful
  71. R-Angers easily
  72. G-Sincere
  73. O-Not expressing feelings
  74. T-Balanced giving and receiving