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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. R-Disrespectful
  2. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  3. R-Destructive
  4. T-Talks about Feelings
  5. G-Attentive
  6. O-Always Right
  7. S-Share responsibility
  8. T-Balanced School and Play
  9. O-Not expressing feelings
  10. G-Accepting
  11. R-Breaks promises
  12. T-Maintains friendships
  13. R-Abuses substances
  14. S-Spend time together
  15. S-Focus on Strengths
  16. G-Supportive
  17. R-Calls names/put downs
  18. T-Common Interests
  19. G-Have fun together
  20. O-Rigid Thinking
  21. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  22. G-Honest
  23. O-Defensiveness
  24. O-Jumps to conclusions
  25. G-Sincere
  26. S-Fight Fair
  27. S-Share decision making
  28. G-Respects limits
  29. O-Holding grudges
  30. O-Conflicting values
  31. S-Positive Strokes
  32. R-Jealous
  33. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  34. O-Being Critical
  35. G-Caring
  36. R-Angers easily
  37. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  38. S-Make Time for Fun
  39. R-Demands all your time
  40. S-Apologize when wrong
  41. T-Similar Values
  42. R-Abuses trust
  43. G-Respectful
  44. S-Patience
  45. G-Compassionate
  46. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  47. R-Invades privacy
  48. R-Self-centered
  49. G-Thoughtful
  50. S-Be forgiving
  51. T-Self-Confident
  52. S-Be yourself
  53. R-Blaming
  54. S-Balanced alone and together time
  55. G-Keeps promises
  56. S-Share Feelings
  57. T-Good Sense of Humor
  58. O-Over-busy schedules
  59. G-Accepts responsibility
  60. R-Guilt-tripping
  61. T-Listens
  62. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  63. O-Doesn't Listen
  64. S-Active Listening
  65. T-Positive Outlook
  66. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  67. R-Controlling
  68. T-Takes care of self
  69. G-Reliable
  70. G-Negotiates
  71. T-Has good family relationships
  72. S-Use "I" statements
  73. O-Mind reading
  74. R-Excessive computer use