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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. R-Abuses trust
  2. S-Fight Fair
  3. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  4. G-Accepting
  5. S-Use "I" statements
  6. G-Negotiates
  7. G-Thoughtful
  8. S-Be forgiving
  9. T-Self-Confident
  10. O-Jumps to conclusions
  11. R-Excessive computer use
  12. R-Breaks promises
  13. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  14. G-Honest
  15. S-Active Listening
  16. O-Mind reading
  17. R-Abuses substances
  18. R-Blaming
  19. G-Have fun together
  20. T-Common Interests
  21. G-Reliable
  22. G-Sincere
  23. O-Defensiveness
  24. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  25. T-Takes care of self
  26. O-Rigid Thinking
  27. S-Positive Strokes
  28. G-Compassionate
  29. T-Talks about Feelings
  30. O-Holding grudges
  31. G-Supportive
  32. G-Keeps promises
  33. O-Not expressing feelings
  34. T-Positive Outlook
  35. O-Being Critical
  36. S-Patience
  37. T-Good Sense of Humor
  38. R-Invades privacy
  39. R-Disrespectful
  40. R-Demands all your time
  41. R-Controlling
  42. G-Caring
  43. S-Share Feelings
  44. S-Spend time together
  45. O-Doesn't Listen
  46. S-Share responsibility
  47. S-Share decision making
  48. T-Listens
  49. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  50. G-Respectful
  51. G-Attentive
  52. R-Calls names/put downs
  53. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  54. S-Be yourself
  55. R-Guilt-tripping
  56. T-Has good family relationships
  57. T-Balanced School and Play
  58. O-Conflicting values
  59. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  60. S-Focus on Strengths
  61. T-Similar Values
  62. S-Apologize when wrong
  63. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  64. T-Maintains friendships
  65. O-Over-busy schedules
  66. G-Respects limits
  67. R-Jealous
  68. G-Accepts responsibility
  69. S-Balanced alone and together time
  70. O-Always Right
  71. R-Self-centered
  72. R-Angers easily
  73. S-Make Time for Fun
  74. R-Destructive