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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. S-Make Time for Fun
  2. S-Positive Strokes
  3. S-Apologize when wrong
  4. S-Be yourself
  5. T-Takes care of self
  6. R-Breaks promises
  7. T-Positive Outlook
  8. R-Controlling
  9. G-Negotiates
  10. T-Similar Values
  11. O-Rigid Thinking
  12. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  13. S-Use "I" statements
  14. R-Self-centered
  15. O-Always Right
  16. G-Sincere
  17. G-Respectful
  18. S-Be forgiving
  19. O-Over-busy schedules
  20. R-Destructive
  21. S-Patience
  22. O-Holding grudges
  23. R-Blaming
  24. R-Guilt-tripping
  25. G-Thoughtful
  26. R-Abuses trust
  27. T-Self-Confident
  28. G-Caring
  29. R-Disrespectful
  30. S-Share responsibility
  31. O-Being Critical
  32. S-Spend time together
  33. R-Angers easily
  34. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  35. G-Respects limits
  36. G-Attentive
  37. T-Common Interests
  38. S-Share decision making
  39. O-Defensiveness
  40. R-Calls names/put downs
  41. O-Conflicting values
  42. G-Keeps promises
  43. T-Good Sense of Humor
  44. S-Balanced alone and together time
  45. R-Abuses substances
  46. S-Fight Fair
  47. O-Mind reading
  48. G-Have fun together
  49. R-Excessive computer use
  50. G-Supportive
  51. R-Demands all your time
  52. G-Reliable
  53. S-Focus on Strengths
  54. T-Talks about Feelings
  55. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  56. O-Jumps to conclusions
  57. T-Has good family relationships
  58. S-Active Listening
  59. G-Accepts responsibility
  60. T-Maintains friendships
  61. R-Jealous
  62. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  63. S-Share Feelings
  64. O-Doesn't Listen
  65. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  66. R-Invades privacy
  67. G-Accepting
  68. G-Compassionate
  69. O-Not expressing feelings
  70. T-Balanced School and Play
  71. G-Honest
  72. T-Listens
  73. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  74. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self