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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. S-Share responsibility
  2. G-Respects limits
  3. R-Excessive computer use
  4. T-Has good family relationships
  5. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  6. S-Positive Strokes
  7. G-Negotiates
  8. R-Jealous
  9. R-Abuses substances
  10. O-Conflicting values
  11. O-Not expressing feelings
  12. R-Invades privacy
  13. R-Abuses trust
  14. G-Respectful
  15. G-Have fun together
  16. O-Always Right
  17. G-Supportive
  18. O-Doesn't Listen
  19. T-Takes care of self
  20. G-Accepts responsibility
  21. T-Listens
  22. O-Jumps to conclusions
  23. S-Share decision making
  24. T-Positive Outlook
  25. O-Rigid Thinking
  26. R-Controlling
  27. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  28. T-Self-Confident
  29. S-Apologize when wrong
  30. G-Accepting
  31. S-Make Time for Fun
  32. S-Patience
  33. T-Maintains friendships
  34. R-Destructive
  35. R-Demands all your time
  36. T-Talks about Feelings
  37. G-Compassionate
  38. G-Reliable
  39. R-Disrespectful
  40. T-Similar Values
  41. S-Balanced alone and together time
  42. S-Share Feelings
  43. G-Caring
  44. T-Balanced School and Play
  45. R-Angers easily
  46. G-Attentive
  47. O-Over-busy schedules
  48. R-Self-centered
  49. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  50. R-Calls names/put downs
  51. T-Good Sense of Humor
  52. O-Being Critical
  53. G-Honest
  54. O-Defensiveness
  55. S-Focus on Strengths
  56. S-Spend time together
  57. G-Thoughtful
  58. R-Guilt-tripping
  59. G-Keeps promises
  60. G-Sincere
  61. T-Common Interests
  62. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  63. S-Be yourself
  64. S-Use "I" statements
  65. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  66. O-Holding grudges
  67. O-Mind reading
  68. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  69. S-Fight Fair
  70. R-Blaming
  71. S-Active Listening
  72. S-Be forgiving
  73. R-Breaks promises
  74. T-Has Self-Directed Goals