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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. R-Self-centered
  2. R-Disrespectful
  3. O-Not expressing feelings
  4. G-Keeps promises
  5. S-Patience
  6. G-Negotiates
  7. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  8. S-Make Time for Fun
  9. T-Good Sense of Humor
  10. S-Apologize when wrong
  11. T-Takes care of self
  12. O-Conflicting values
  13. R-Guilt-tripping
  14. S-Share decision making
  15. G-Caring
  16. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  17. R-Blaming
  18. T-Listens
  19. G-Respectful
  20. S-Active Listening
  21. O-Rigid Thinking
  22. G-Honest
  23. T-Has good family relationships
  24. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  25. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  26. S-Positive Strokes
  27. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  28. O-Being Critical
  29. T-Common Interests
  30. R-Jealous
  31. G-Have fun together
  32. S-Fight Fair
  33. T-Maintains friendships
  34. G-Attentive
  35. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  36. R-Excessive computer use
  37. G-Respects limits
  38. G-Accepting
  39. R-Demands all your time
  40. G-Sincere
  41. T-Balanced School and Play
  42. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  43. T-Positive Outlook
  44. R-Abuses substances
  45. O-Always Right
  46. T-Similar Values
  47. T-Talks about Feelings
  48. R-Breaks promises
  49. G-Accepts responsibility
  50. O-Holding grudges
  51. S-Balanced alone and together time
  52. R-Controlling
  53. S-Be forgiving
  54. G-Thoughtful
  55. T-Self-Confident
  56. R-Destructive
  57. S-Spend time together
  58. R-Invades privacy
  59. G-Compassionate
  60. O-Over-busy schedules
  61. O-Doesn't Listen
  62. S-Share responsibility
  63. R-Angers easily
  64. R-Abuses trust
  65. O-Defensiveness
  66. S-Be yourself
  67. R-Calls names/put downs
  68. G-Reliable
  69. S-Share Feelings
  70. S-Use "I" statements
  71. S-Focus on Strengths
  72. G-Supportive
  73. O-Jumps to conclusions
  74. O-Mind reading