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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. S-Apologize when wrong
  2. R-Angers easily
  3. S-Patience
  4. T-Has good family relationships
  5. S-Share Feelings
  6. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  7. R-Invades privacy
  8. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  9. G-Accepting
  10. G-Keeps promises
  11. T-Positive Outlook
  12. S-Balanced alone and together time
  13. R-Jealous
  14. R-Abuses substances
  15. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  16. G-Reliable
  17. T-Self-Confident
  18. O-Mind reading
  19. T-Listens
  20. G-Compassionate
  21. S-Share decision making
  22. R-Calls names/put downs
  23. S-Make Time for Fun
  24. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  25. R-Destructive
  26. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  27. R-Controlling
  28. T-Balanced School and Play
  29. O-Jumps to conclusions
  30. O-Over-busy schedules
  31. T-Good Sense of Humor
  32. T-Takes care of self
  33. S-Be forgiving
  34. G-Thoughtful
  35. G-Negotiates
  36. O-Conflicting values
  37. R-Blaming
  38. G-Caring
  39. T-Talks about Feelings
  40. O-Always Right
  41. T-Common Interests
  42. R-Demands all your time
  43. O-Rigid Thinking
  44. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  45. S-Share responsibility
  46. S-Focus on Strengths
  47. G-Have fun together
  48. G-Sincere
  49. R-Abuses trust
  50. R-Self-centered
  51. S-Use "I" statements
  52. S-Active Listening
  53. S-Spend time together
  54. T-Maintains friendships
  55. S-Fight Fair
  56. G-Respects limits
  57. R-Disrespectful
  58. S-Positive Strokes
  59. O-Doesn't Listen
  60. G-Supportive
  61. O-Being Critical
  62. R-Guilt-tripping
  63. G-Accepts responsibility
  64. R-Excessive computer use
  65. S-Be yourself
  66. R-Breaks promises
  67. O-Defensiveness
  68. T-Similar Values
  69. G-Attentive
  70. O-Holding grudges
  71. O-Not expressing feelings
  72. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  73. G-Honest
  74. G-Respectful