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Healthy Relationships - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. O-Unrealistic Expectations
  2. T-Maintains friendships
  3. R-Destructive
  4. R-Excessive computer use
  5. T-Similar Values
  6. G-Attentive
  7. T-Expresses Anger Appropriately
  8. T-Positive Outlook
  9. T-Balanced giving and receiving
  10. G-Accepts responsibility
  11. R-Jealous
  12. G-Compassionate
  13. S-Be forgiving
  14. O-Mind reading
  15. S-Be yourself
  16. R-Controlling
  17. R-Breaks promises
  18. G-Respectful
  19. G-Thoughtful
  20. R-Self-centered
  21. S-Fight Fair
  22. T-Has good family relationships
  23. O-Doesn't Listen
  24. T-Common Interests
  25. O-Rigid Thinking
  26. O-Not expressing feelings
  27. G-Accepting
  28. S-Share Feelings
  29. O-Over-busy schedules
  30. G-Honest
  31. T-Takes care of self
  32. T-Good Sense of Humor
  33. O-All-or-nothing thinking
  34. S-Focus on Strengths
  35. G-Reliable
  36. G-Have fun together
  37. T-Talks about Feelings
  38. T-Has Self-Directed Goals
  39. G-Negotiates
  40. R-Blaming
  41. G-Respects limits
  42. S-Apologize when wrong
  43. S-Share decision making
  44. R-Demands all your time
  45. O-Being Critical
  46. R-Disrespectful
  47. G-Keeps promises
  48. T-Feels Comfortable Being Self
  49. G-Supportive
  50. S-Use "I" statements
  51. T-Balanced School and Play
  52. R-Abuses substances
  53. T-Listens
  54. R-Invades privacy
  55. S-Share responsibility
  56. S-Make Time for Fun
  57. S-Balanced alone and together time
  58. O-Jumps to conclusions
  59. S-Spend time together
  60. R-Calls names/put downs
  61. G-Caring
  62. O-Always Right
  63. O-Conflicting values
  64. R-Guilt-tripping
  65. S-Positive Strokes
  66. O-Defensiveness
  67. S-Active Listening
  68. R-Abuses trust
  69. S-Patience
  70. G-Sincere
  71. T-Self-Confident
  72. O-Woulda shoulda coulda
  73. O-Holding grudges
  74. R-Angers easily