DamagingcarelesscommentsNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyLackof trustNever orrarelyapologiseDeep,extremeinsecurityRidiculeyouropinionsMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsWithholdaffectionExtremejealousyTakesadvantageof youAlwaysnegative"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Coercive orimposingorders/threatsAct “tooperfect”Badcommunication"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well""You'renot goodenough"GuilttrippingInsult youor putyou downViolentoraggressiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimVerballyAbusiveAngerissues"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Lack ofcompromiseWants togetserioustoo quickDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"LyingDamagingcarelesscommentsNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyLackof trustNever orrarelyapologiseDeep,extremeinsecurityRidiculeyouropinionsMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsWithholdaffectionExtremejealousyTakesadvantageof youAlwaysnegative"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Coercive orimposingorders/threatsAct “tooperfect”Badcommunication"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well""You'renot goodenough"GuilttrippingInsult youor putyou downViolentoraggressiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimVerballyAbusiveAngerissues"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Lack ofcompromiseWants togetserioustoo quickDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"Lying

Relationship Red flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Damaging careless comments
  2. No effort to know your friends and family
  3. Lack of trust
  4. Never or rarely apologise
  5. Deep, extreme insecurity
  6. Ridicule your opinions
  7. Monitor your texts or social media accounts
  8. Excessively interrogate about details but hold on to their own details
  9. Withhold affection
  10. Extreme jealousy
  11. Takes advantage of you
  12. Always negative
  13. "If you really loved me, you would..."
  14. Coercive or imposing orders/ threats
  15. Act “too perfect”
  16. Bad communi cation
  17. "I don't have a best friend, they all have issues, they don't come to me when all is well"
  18. "You're not good enough"
  19. Guilt tripping
  20. Insult you or put you down
  21. Violent or aggressive
  22. Always blaming and playing victim
  23. Verbally Abusive
  24. Anger issues
  25. "No one will love you as much as I do"
  26. Lack of compromise
  27. Wants to get serious too quick
  28. Disregard your complaints and concerns
  29. Whenever there's a rift, "I think we should break up, this isn't working"
  30. Lying