LyingDeep,extremeinsecurity"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Lack ofcompromiseVerballyAbusiveAngerissues"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido""You'renot goodenough"Lackof trustViolentoraggressiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimWithholdaffectionNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsBadcommunicationRidiculeyouropinionsGuilttrippingNever orrarelyapologiseWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"Takesadvantageof youAct “tooperfect”Coercive orimposingorders/threatsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsAlwaysnegative"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"DamagingcarelesscommentsExtremejealousyInsult youor putyou downWants togetserioustoo quickMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsLyingDeep,extremeinsecurity"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Lack ofcompromiseVerballyAbusiveAngerissues"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido""You'renot goodenough"Lackof trustViolentoraggressiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimWithholdaffectionNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsBadcommunicationRidiculeyouropinionsGuilttrippingNever orrarelyapologiseWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"Takesadvantageof youAct “tooperfect”Coercive orimposingorders/threatsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsAlwaysnegative"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"DamagingcarelesscommentsExtremejealousyInsult youor putyou downWants togetserioustoo quickMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccounts

Relationship Red flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Lying
  2. Deep, extreme insecurity
  3. "If you really loved me, you would..."
  4. Lack of compromise
  5. Verbally Abusive
  6. Anger issues
  7. "No one will love you as much as I do"
  8. "You're not good enough"
  9. Lack of trust
  10. Violent or aggressive
  11. Always blaming and playing victim
  12. Withhold affection
  13. No effort to know your friends and family
  14. Disregard your complaints and concerns
  15. Bad communi cation
  16. Ridicule your opinions
  17. Guilt tripping
  18. Never or rarely apologise
  19. Whenever there's a rift, "I think we should break up, this isn't working"
  20. Takes advantage of you
  21. Act “too perfect”
  22. Coercive or imposing orders/ threats
  23. Excessively interrogate about details but hold on to their own details
  24. Always negative
  25. "I don't have a best friend, they all have issues, they don't come to me when all is well"
  26. Damaging careless comments
  27. Extreme jealousy
  28. Insult you or put you down
  29. Wants to get serious too quick
  30. Monitor your texts or social media accounts