VerballyAbusiveBadcommunicationWants togetserioustoo quickAct “tooperfect”No effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyGuilttrippingAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimLack ofcompromiseNever orrarelyapologiseAlwaysnegative"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"Lackof trust"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Lying"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Takesadvantageof youRidiculeyouropinionsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsViolentoraggressiveAngerissuesWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"ExtremejealousyDamagingcarelesscomments"You'renot goodenough"Deep,extremeinsecurityWithholdaffectionMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsCoercive orimposingorders/threatsInsult youor putyou downDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsVerballyAbusiveBadcommunicationWants togetserioustoo quickAct “tooperfect”No effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyGuilttrippingAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimLack ofcompromiseNever orrarelyapologiseAlwaysnegative"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"Lackof trust"If you reallyloved me,you would..."Lying"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Takesadvantageof youRidiculeyouropinionsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsViolentoraggressiveAngerissuesWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"ExtremejealousyDamagingcarelesscomments"You'renot goodenough"Deep,extremeinsecurityWithholdaffectionMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsCoercive orimposingorders/threatsInsult youor putyou downDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcerns

Relationship Red flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Verbally Abusive
  2. Bad communi cation
  3. Wants to get serious too quick
  4. Act “too perfect”
  5. No effort to know your friends and family
  6. Guilt tripping
  7. Always blaming and playing victim
  8. Lack of compromise
  9. Never or rarely apologise
  10. Always negative
  11. "I don't have a best friend, they all have issues, they don't come to me when all is well"
  12. Lack of trust
  13. "If you really loved me, you would..."
  14. Lying
  15. "No one will love you as much as I do"
  16. Takes advantage of you
  17. Ridicule your opinions
  18. Excessively interrogate about details but hold on to their own details
  19. Violent or aggressive
  20. Anger issues
  21. Whenever there's a rift, "I think we should break up, this isn't working"
  22. Extreme jealousy
  23. Damaging careless comments
  24. "You're not good enough"
  25. Deep, extreme insecurity
  26. Withhold affection
  27. Monitor your texts or social media accounts
  28. Coercive or imposing orders/ threats
  29. Insult you or put you down
  30. Disregard your complaints and concerns