GuilttrippingDamagingcarelesscommentsAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimTakesadvantageof youNever orrarelyapologise"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well""You'renot goodenough"Coercive orimposingorders/threatsLyingBadcommunicationLack ofcompromiseInsult youor putyou downAct “tooperfect”Lackof trustDeep,extremeinsecurityWithholdaffectionNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyRidiculeyouropinionsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsVerballyAbusiveAlwaysnegativeDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsExtremejealousyAngerissuesViolentoraggressiveWants togetserioustoo quickWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working""No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Monitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccounts"If you reallyloved me,you would..."GuilttrippingDamagingcarelesscommentsAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimTakesadvantageof youNever orrarelyapologise"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well""You'renot goodenough"Coercive orimposingorders/threatsLyingBadcommunicationLack ofcompromiseInsult youor putyou downAct “tooperfect”Lackof trustDeep,extremeinsecurityWithholdaffectionNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyRidiculeyouropinionsExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsVerballyAbusiveAlwaysnegativeDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsExtremejealousyAngerissuesViolentoraggressiveWants togetserioustoo quickWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working""No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"Monitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccounts"If you reallyloved me,you would..."

Relationship Red flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Guilt tripping
  2. Damaging careless comments
  3. Always blaming and playing victim
  4. Takes advantage of you
  5. Never or rarely apologise
  6. "I don't have a best friend, they all have issues, they don't come to me when all is well"
  7. "You're not good enough"
  8. Coercive or imposing orders/ threats
  9. Lying
  10. Bad communi cation
  11. Lack of compromise
  12. Insult you or put you down
  13. Act “too perfect”
  14. Lack of trust
  15. Deep, extreme insecurity
  16. Withhold affection
  17. No effort to know your friends and family
  18. Ridicule your opinions
  19. Excessively interrogate about details but hold on to their own details
  20. Verbally Abusive
  21. Always negative
  22. Disregard your complaints and concerns
  23. Extreme jealousy
  24. Anger issues
  25. Violent or aggressive
  26. Wants to get serious too quick
  27. Whenever there's a rift, "I think we should break up, this isn't working"
  28. "No one will love you as much as I do"
  29. Monitor your texts or social media accounts
  30. "If you really loved me, you would..."