AlwaysnegativeVerballyAbusiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimDamagingcarelesscommentsLyingWants togetserioustoo quickViolentoraggressiveInsult youor putyou down"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"Never orrarelyapologiseWithholdaffection"If you reallyloved me,you would..."GuilttrippingExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"Takesadvantageof youDeep,extremeinsecurityMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsBadcommunication"You'renot goodenough"Coercive orimposingorders/threatsDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsAct “tooperfect”AngerissuesLackof trustNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyLack ofcompromise"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"ExtremejealousyRidiculeyouropinionsAlwaysnegativeVerballyAbusiveAlwaysblaming andplayingvictimDamagingcarelesscommentsLyingWants togetserioustoo quickViolentoraggressiveInsult youor putyou down"I don't have abest friend, they allhave issues, theydon't come to mewhen all is well"Never orrarelyapologiseWithholdaffection"If you reallyloved me,you would..."GuilttrippingExcessivelyinterrogateabout detailsbut hold on totheir owndetailsWheneverthere's a rift, "Ithink we shouldbreak up, thisisn't working"Takesadvantageof youDeep,extremeinsecurityMonitor yourtexts orsocial mediaaccountsBadcommunication"You'renot goodenough"Coercive orimposingorders/threatsDisregardyourcomplaintsandconcernsAct “tooperfect”AngerissuesLackof trustNo effort toknow yourfriends andfamilyLack ofcompromise"No one willlove you asmuch as Ido"ExtremejealousyRidiculeyouropinions

Relationship Red flags - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Always negative
  2. Verbally Abusive
  3. Always blaming and playing victim
  4. Damaging careless comments
  5. Lying
  6. Wants to get serious too quick
  7. Violent or aggressive
  8. Insult you or put you down
  9. "I don't have a best friend, they all have issues, they don't come to me when all is well"
  10. Never or rarely apologise
  11. Withhold affection
  12. "If you really loved me, you would..."
  13. Guilt tripping
  14. Excessively interrogate about details but hold on to their own details
  15. Whenever there's a rift, "I think we should break up, this isn't working"
  16. Takes advantage of you
  17. Deep, extreme insecurity
  18. Monitor your texts or social media accounts
  19. Bad communi cation
  20. "You're not good enough"
  21. Coercive or imposing orders/ threats
  22. Disregard your complaints and concerns
  23. Act “too perfect”
  24. Anger issues
  25. Lack of trust
  26. No effort to know your friends and family
  27. Lack of compromise
  28. "No one will love you as much as I do"
  29. Extreme jealousy
  30. Ridicule your opinions