Offers emotional support Communicate Effectively Ability to spend time apart Equal decision- making Being cynical or mean Non- Judgmental Compassionate Defensiveness Accepting Negotiates Similar interests Hindering you from going to work or school Ignores you/blocks you Reads your text messages Vulnerability Have fun together Healthy hobbies Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Listens Threats Safety Self- centered Practices self-care Share decision- making Name- calling Balanced giving/receiving Takes self too seriously Trust Self- reflective Share Feelings Long- standing relationships Active Listening Valuing honesty Breaks promises Interested Thoughtful Apologizing when they are wrong Stalks you on social media Lack of communication Gets jealous easily Tells you how to dress Placing blame on one person Caring Talks fondly about you to others Ability to spend time away from each other Smashes or destroys things Not Expressing Feelings Empathy Embarrassing you Expresses feelings in a healthy way Sincere Makes you feel bad about yourself Supports your personal growth Honest Damaging your property Respects Boundaries Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Demands all of your time Ability to resolve conflict & make up Offers emotional support Communicate Effectively Ability to spend time apart Equal decision- making Being cynical or mean Non- Judgmental Compassionate Defensiveness Accepting Negotiates Similar interests Hindering you from going to work or school Ignores you/blocks you Reads your text messages Vulnerability Have fun together Healthy hobbies Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Listens Threats Safety Self- centered Practices self-care Share decision- making Name- calling Balanced giving/receiving Takes self too seriously Trust Self- reflective Share Feelings Long- standing relationships Active Listening Valuing honesty Breaks promises Interested Thoughtful Apologizing when they are wrong Stalks you on social media Lack of communication Gets jealous easily Tells you how to dress Placing blame on one person Caring Talks fondly about you to others Ability to spend time away from each other Smashes or destroys things Not Expressing Feelings Empathy Embarrassing you Expresses feelings in a healthy way Sincere Makes you feel bad about yourself Supports your personal growth Honest Damaging your property Respects Boundaries Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Demands all of your time Ability to resolve conflict & make up
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Offers emotional support
O-Communicate Effectively
O-Ability to spend time apart
B-Equal decision-making
N-Being cynical or mean
B-Non-Judgmental
G-Compassionate
N-Defensiveness
G-Accepting
G-Negotiates
B-Similar interests
N-Hindering you from going to work or school
I-Ignores you/blocks you
I-Reads your text messages
G-Vulnerability
G-Have fun together
O-Healthy hobbies
I-Grabbing, pushing, or hitting
B-Listens
N-Threats
B-Safety
I-Self-centered
G-Practices self-care
O-Share decision-making
I-Name- calling
B-Balanced giving/receiving
N-Takes self too seriously
B-Trust
G-Self-reflective
O-Share Feelings
O-Long-standing relationships
O-Active Listening
O-Valuing honesty
I-Breaks promises
G-Interested
G-Thoughtful
B-Apologizing when they are wrong
I-Stalks you on social media
N-Lack of communication
I-Gets jealous easily
I-Tells you how to dress
N-Placing blame on one person
G-Caring
O-Talks fondly about you to others
B-Ability to spend time away from each other
I-Smashes or destroys things
N-Not Expressing Feelings
G-Empathy
N-Embarrassing you
B-Expresses feelings in a healthy way
G-Sincere
I-Makes you feel bad about yourself
O-Supports your personal growth
B-Honest
N-Damaging your property
B-Respects Boundaries
N-Discouraging you from seeing friends or family
I-Demands all of your time
O-Ability to resolve conflict & make up