Name- calling Being cynical or mean Reads your text messages Stalks you on social media Self- reflective Breaks promises Communicate Effectively Caring Trust Empathy Have fun together Tells you how to dress Takes self too seriously Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Gets jealous easily Healthy hobbies Similar interests Sincere Valuing honesty Ignores you/blocks you Hindering you from going to work or school Threats Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Share decision- making Thoughtful Smashes or destroys things Not Expressing Feelings Active Listening Supports your personal growth Embarrassing you Listens Compassionate Offers emotional support Non- Judgmental Vulnerability Lack of communication Ability to spend time away from each other Self- centered Safety Practices self-care Makes you feel bad about yourself Honest Ability to spend time apart Defensiveness Damaging your property Respects Boundaries Share Feelings Negotiates Equal decision- making Accepting Placing blame on one person Long- standing relationships Balanced giving/receiving Apologizing when they are wrong Talks fondly about you to others Expresses feelings in a healthy way Interested Demands all of your time Ability to resolve conflict & make up Name- calling Being cynical or mean Reads your text messages Stalks you on social media Self- reflective Breaks promises Communicate Effectively Caring Trust Empathy Have fun together Tells you how to dress Takes self too seriously Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Gets jealous easily Healthy hobbies Similar interests Sincere Valuing honesty Ignores you/blocks you Hindering you from going to work or school Threats Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Share decision- making Thoughtful Smashes or destroys things Not Expressing Feelings Active Listening Supports your personal growth Embarrassing you Listens Compassionate Offers emotional support Non- Judgmental Vulnerability Lack of communication Ability to spend time away from each other Self- centered Safety Practices self-care Makes you feel bad about yourself Honest Ability to spend time apart Defensiveness Damaging your property Respects Boundaries Share Feelings Negotiates Equal decision- making Accepting Placing blame on one person Long- standing relationships Balanced giving/receiving Apologizing when they are wrong Talks fondly about you to others Expresses feelings in a healthy way Interested Demands all of your time Ability to resolve conflict & make up
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Name- calling
N-Being cynical or mean
I-Reads your text messages
I-Stalks you on social media
G-Self-reflective
I-Breaks promises
O-Communicate Effectively
G-Caring
B-Trust
G-Empathy
G-Have fun together
I-Tells you how to dress
N-Takes self too seriously
N-Discouraging you from seeing friends or family
I-Gets jealous easily
O-Healthy hobbies
B-Similar interests
G-Sincere
O-Valuing honesty
I-Ignores you/blocks you
N-Hindering you from going to work or school
N-Threats
I-Grabbing, pushing, or hitting
O-Share decision-making
G-Thoughtful
I-Smashes or destroys things
N-Not Expressing Feelings
O-Active Listening
O-Supports your personal growth
N-Embarrassing you
B-Listens
G-Compassionate
O-Offers emotional support
B-Non-Judgmental
G-Vulnerability
N-Lack of communication
B-Ability to spend time away from each other
I-Self-centered
B-Safety
G-Practices self-care
I-Makes you feel bad about yourself
B-Honest
O-Ability to spend time apart
N-Defensiveness
N-Damaging your property
B-Respects Boundaries
O-Share Feelings
G-Negotiates
B-Equal decision-making
G-Accepting
N-Placing blame on one person
O-Long-standing relationships
B-Balanced giving/receiving
B-Apologizing when they are wrong
O-Talks fondly about you to others
B-Expresses feelings in a healthy way
G-Interested
I-Demands all of your time
O-Ability to resolve conflict & make up