Vulnerability Respects Boundaries Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Stalks you on social media Being cynical or mean Makes you feel bad about yourself Threats Defensiveness Not Expressing Feelings Ability to resolve conflict & make up Self- reflective Valuing honesty Similar interests Balanced giving/receiving Expresses feelings in a healthy way Gets jealous easily Reads your text messages Takes self too seriously Embarrassing you Lack of communication Accepting Have fun together Empathy Thoughtful Practices self-care Non- Judgmental Communicate Effectively Demands all of your time Ability to spend time away from each other Honest Interested Smashes or destroys things Long- standing relationships Name- calling Compassionate Sincere Self- centered Healthy hobbies Active Listening Placing blame on one person Caring Breaks promises Apologizing when they are wrong Tells you how to dress Negotiates Supports your personal growth Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Listens Trust Talks fondly about you to others Ability to spend time apart Ignores you/blocks you Offers emotional support Share Feelings Hindering you from going to work or school Equal decision- making Safety Share decision- making Damaging your property Vulnerability Respects Boundaries Discouraging you from seeing friends or family Stalks you on social media Being cynical or mean Makes you feel bad about yourself Threats Defensiveness Not Expressing Feelings Ability to resolve conflict & make up Self- reflective Valuing honesty Similar interests Balanced giving/receiving Expresses feelings in a healthy way Gets jealous easily Reads your text messages Takes self too seriously Embarrassing you Lack of communication Accepting Have fun together Empathy Thoughtful Practices self-care Non- Judgmental Communicate Effectively Demands all of your time Ability to spend time away from each other Honest Interested Smashes or destroys things Long- standing relationships Name- calling Compassionate Sincere Self- centered Healthy hobbies Active Listening Placing blame on one person Caring Breaks promises Apologizing when they are wrong Tells you how to dress Negotiates Supports your personal growth Grabbing, pushing, or hitting Listens Trust Talks fondly about you to others Ability to spend time apart Ignores you/blocks you Offers emotional support Share Feelings Hindering you from going to work or school Equal decision- making Safety Share decision- making Damaging your property
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Vulnerability
B-Respects Boundaries
N-Discouraging you from seeing friends or family
I-Stalks you on social media
N-Being cynical or mean
I-Makes you feel bad about yourself
N-Threats
N-Defensiveness
N-Not Expressing Feelings
O-Ability to resolve conflict & make up
G-Self-reflective
O-Valuing honesty
B-Similar interests
B-Balanced giving/receiving
B-Expresses feelings in a healthy way
I-Gets jealous easily
I-Reads your text messages
N-Takes self too seriously
N-Embarrassing you
N-Lack of communication
G-Accepting
G-Have fun together
G-Empathy
G-Thoughtful
G-Practices self-care
B-Non-Judgmental
O-Communicate Effectively
I-Demands all of your time
B-Ability to spend time away from each other
B-Honest
G-Interested
I-Smashes or destroys things
O-Long-standing relationships
I-Name- calling
G-Compassionate
G-Sincere
I-Self-centered
O-Healthy hobbies
O-Active Listening
N-Placing blame on one person
G-Caring
I-Breaks promises
B-Apologizing when they are wrong
I-Tells you how to dress
G-Negotiates
O-Supports your personal growth
I-Grabbing, pushing, or hitting
B-Listens
B-Trust
O-Talks fondly about you to others
O-Ability to spend time apart
I-Ignores you/blocks you
O-Offers emotional support
O-Share Feelings
N-Hindering you from going to work or school
B-Equal decision-making
B-Safety
O-Share decision-making
N-Damaging your property