"When you don'tlook at me whenI'm talking, I feellike I don'tmatter to you.""Younever payattentionto me.""I get annoyedwhen people tryto sing alongwith songs theydon't know." “You’re aterriblesinger!” “I was reallyembarrassedthe other dayin front ofour friends.”“Youembarrassedme the otherday, like youalways do.”“I feel frustratedwhen myfeelings aren’theard oracknowledged.”“You don’tcare aboutme or myfeelings.”"It's frustratingto beinterruptedwhen I'mtalking.""Youalwaysinterruptme!""I feel rejectedwhen you guysmake plans anddon't invite me.""You didn'tinvite me.You'remean!"“I get worriedwhen I don’t hearfrom you, and Ijust want to knowthat you’re ok andsafe.”“You didn’ttext me likeyou said youwould!”"I don'tunderstand whyyou make jokesat my expense.Please stop it.""Quitmakingfun ofme!""I feel likeyou don'ttrust me.""Younevertrust me!""It makes meso madwhen peopletease melike this.""Youalwaystease me!Stop!""It makes memad to seepeople getbullied. Canyou please benice to her?""Youalwaysbully her!"“I feel frustratedwhen I comehome and thehouse ismessy.”“You alwaysleave yourmess lyingeverywhere.”“It makes it hard tohave fun whenpeople cheat. Canwe please agreeon some rules?” "You're acheater!"“It’s so sadto watch himget pickedon. Leavehim alone.” "You're abully.Nobodylikes you!""It hurtsto be leftout.""Youleave meout all thetime.""It'sembarrassingto be the lastone picked upfrom practice.""Younever pickme up ontime!""I feel betrayedwhen peopleshare mysecrets withothers." "You can'tkeep yourmouth shutcan you?""Can youplease stopgoofing offand just playnormal?” "You alwaysruin gamesby goofingoff!"“When peopledisrespect myprivacy, I feelunimportant."You neverrespect myprivacy!"“I would loveto know howyou’refeeling aboutthis.”“You nevertell mehow you’refeeling.”"It’s annoyingwhen peoplehog the ball. Iwant you topass the ballmore." "You neverpass theball to me.""I don't like itwhen peoplemake fun ofwhat I eat.""Youalways saythat aboutwhat I eat!""It makes mefeel like you’relaughing at mewhen you lookat me like that.” "You'relaughing atme aren'tyou?""I getfrustratedwhen you tryto read mymind.""You don'talways knowwhat I'mthinking!"“It felt like youguys were gangingup on me.I'mallowed to have adifferent opinionthan you.""You're all somean to me,just becauseI don't agreewith you.""I don'tlike itwhen yousay that.""Youalwayssay that!""Pleaselisten tome.""Youneverlisten tome!""I get frustratedwhen you walkaway when I'mtalking to you.""You alwayswalk awayfrom me whenI'm talking toyou!""I don't like itwhen peopletell me I’mbad atthings.""You alwaystell me I'mbad ateverything.""When you don'tlook at me whenI'm talking, I feellike I don'tmatter to you.""Younever payattentionto me.""I get annoyedwhen people tryto sing alongwith songs theydon't know." “You’re aterriblesinger!” “I was reallyembarrassedthe other dayin front ofour friends.”“Youembarrassedme the otherday, like youalways do.”“I feel frustratedwhen myfeelings aren’theard oracknowledged.”“You don’tcare aboutme or myfeelings.”"It's frustratingto beinterruptedwhen I'mtalking.""Youalwaysinterruptme!""I feel rejectedwhen you guysmake plans anddon't invite me.""You didn'tinvite me.You'remean!"“I get worriedwhen I don’t hearfrom you, and Ijust want to knowthat you’re ok andsafe.”“You didn’ttext me likeyou said youwould!”"I don'tunderstand whyyou make jokesat my expense.Please stop it.""Quitmakingfun ofme!""I feel likeyou don'ttrust me.""Younevertrust me!""It makes meso madwhen peopletease melike this.""Youalwaystease me!Stop!""It makes memad to seepeople getbullied. Canyou please benice to her?""Youalwaysbully her!"“I feel frustratedwhen I comehome and thehouse ismessy.”“You alwaysleave yourmess lyingeverywhere.”“It makes it hard tohave fun whenpeople cheat. Canwe please agreeon some rules?” "You're acheater!"“It’s so sadto watch himget pickedon. Leavehim alone.” "You're abully.Nobodylikes you!""It hurtsto be leftout.""Youleave meout all thetime.""It'sembarrassingto be the lastone picked upfrom practice.""Younever pickme up ontime!""I feel betrayedwhen peopleshare mysecrets withothers." "You can'tkeep yourmouth shutcan you?""Can youplease stopgoofing offand just playnormal?” "You alwaysruin gamesby goofingoff!"“When peopledisrespect myprivacy, I feelunimportant."You neverrespect myprivacy!"“I would loveto know howyou’refeeling aboutthis.”“You nevertell mehow you’refeeling.”"It’s annoyingwhen peoplehog the ball. Iwant you topass the ballmore." "You neverpass theball to me.""I don't like itwhen peoplemake fun ofwhat I eat.""Youalways saythat aboutwhat I eat!""It makes mefeel like you’relaughing at mewhen you lookat me like that.” "You'relaughing atme aren'tyou?""I getfrustratedwhen you tryto read mymind.""You don'talways knowwhat I'mthinking!"“It felt like youguys were gangingup on me.I'mallowed to have adifferent opinionthan you.""You're all somean to me,just becauseI don't agreewith you.""I don'tlike itwhen yousay that.""Youalwayssay that!""Pleaselisten tome.""Youneverlisten tome!""I get frustratedwhen you walkaway when I'mtalking to you.""You alwayswalk awayfrom me whenI'm talking toyou!""I don't like itwhen peopletell me I’mbad atthings.""You alwaystell me I'mbad ateverything."

I Statements vs. You Statements - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "You never pay attention to me."
    "When you don't look at me when I'm talking, I feel like I don't matter to you."
  2. “You’re a terrible singer!”
    "I get annoyed when people try to sing along with songs they don't know."
  3. “You embarrassed me the other day, like you always do.”
    “I was really embarrassed the other day in front of our friends.”
  4. “You don’t care about me or my feelings.”
    “I feel frustrated when my feelings aren’t heard or acknowledged.”
  5. "You always interrupt me!"
    "It's frustrating to be interrupted when I'm talking."
  6. "You didn't invite me. You're mean!"
    "I feel rejected when you guys make plans and don't invite me."
  7. “You didn’t text me like you said you would!”
    “I get worried when I don’t hear from you, and I just want to know that you’re ok and safe.”
  8. "Quit making fun of me!"
    "I don't understand why you make jokes at my expense. Please stop it."
  9. "You never trust me!"
    "I feel like you don't trust me."
  10. "You always tease me! Stop!"
    "It makes me so mad when people tease me like this."
  11. "You always bully her!"
    "It makes me mad to see people get bullied. Can you please be nice to her?"
  12. “You always leave your mess lying everywhere.”
    “I feel frustrated when I come home and the house is messy.”
  13. "You're a cheater!"
    “It makes it hard to have fun when people cheat. Can we please agree on some rules?”
  14. "You're a bully. Nobody likes you!"
    “It’s so sad to watch him get picked on. Leave him alone.”
  15. "You leave me out all the time."
    "It hurts to be left out."
  16. "You never pick me up on time!"
    "It's embarrassing to be the last one picked up from practice."
  17. "You can't keep your mouth shut can you?"
    "I feel betrayed when people share my secrets with others."
  18. "You always ruin games by goofing off!"
    "Can you please stop goofing off and just play normal?”
  19. "You never respect my privacy!"
    “When people disrespect my privacy, I feel unimportant.
  20. “You never tell me how you’re feeling.”
    “I would love to know how you’re feeling about this.”
  21. "You never pass the ball to me."
    "It’s annoying when people hog the ball. I want you to pass the ball more."
  22. "You always say that about what I eat!"
    "I don't like it when people make fun of what I eat."
  23. "You're laughing at me aren't you?"
    "It makes me feel like you’re laughing at me when you look at me like that.”
  24. "You don't always know what I'm thinking!"
    "I get frustrated when you try to read my mind."
  25. "You're all so mean to me, just because I don't agree with you."
    “It felt like you guys were ganging up on me.I'm allowed to have a different opinion than you."
  26. "You always say that!"
    "I don't like it when you say that."
  27. "You never listen to me!"
    "Please listen to me."
  28. "You always walk away from me when I'm talking to you!"
    "I get frustrated when you walk away when I'm talking to you."
  29. "You always tell me I'm bad at everything."
    "I don't like it when people tell me I’m bad at things."