GaslightsExpectscaretakingPrefers toremainbehind thescenesFeelsspecialthroughassociationIs cynicalandsarcasticFakes orexaggeratesillness/injuryfor attentionAvoidsintrospectionand lacksself-awarenessDeniesownangerIs enviousandvengefulWithholdsandstonewallsFocusesonunfairnessIs passive-aggressiveFixates onothers’problemsandmisfortunesHoldsagrudgeCrossesnormativeboundariesand codes ofconductFocuses onappearanceoversubstanceNeedsreassuranceConductssmearcampaignsGossipsRushesto (false)intimacyLacksemotionalempathyCriticizesand judgesfrom thesidelinesDoes notsincerelyapologizeFlattersand fawnsto winfavorHas anexaggeratedsense ofentitlementCultivates apublic imagesharply differentfrom his/herprivatebehaviorIs anxiousandhypervigilantIdentifiesas avictimDisplaysfalse humilityandhumblebragsHatesto loseIs impressedby the overtnarcissist’sappearanceof confidenceIscondescendingand superiorPlays onsympathiesSwingsbetweenidealizing anddevaluinghim-/herselfand othersUses guiltand shameto controland punishTurns yourproblemsinto his/herdramasHasdoublestandardsResistsdecision-makingDisplaysrage andcontemptin privateFeelsabovethe rulesDenies anddismissesothers’feelingsAvoids directresponsibilityMakesunreasonabledemandsIs inattentiveor annoyedwhen otherstalkIs threatenedby honestyanddirectnessBelittlesandblamesIs reactivetoquestioningor criticismExploitsand/orattacksothers’vulnerabilityIs prone toparanoia andconspiracytheoriesUsesplatitudes inplace ofgenuineinsightGaslightsExpectscaretakingPrefers toremainbehind thescenesFeelsspecialthroughassociationIs cynicalandsarcasticFakes orexaggeratesillness/injuryfor attentionAvoidsintrospectionand lacksself-awarenessDeniesownangerIs enviousandvengefulWithholdsandstonewallsFocusesonunfairnessIs passive-aggressiveFixates onothers’problemsandmisfortunesHoldsagrudgeCrossesnormativeboundariesand codes ofconductFocuses onappearanceoversubstanceNeedsreassuranceConductssmearcampaignsGossipsRushesto (false)intimacyLacksemotionalempathyCriticizesand judgesfrom thesidelinesDoes notsincerelyapologizeFlattersand fawnsto winfavorHas anexaggeratedsense ofentitlementCultivates apublic imagesharply differentfrom his/herprivatebehaviorIs anxiousandhypervigilantIdentifiesas avictimDisplaysfalse humilityandhumblebragsHatesto loseIs impressedby the overtnarcissist’sappearanceof confidenceIscondescendingand superiorPlays onsympathiesSwingsbetweenidealizing anddevaluinghim-/herselfand othersUses guiltand shameto controland punishTurns yourproblemsinto his/herdramasHasdoublestandardsResistsdecision-makingDisplaysrage andcontemptin privateFeelsabovethe rulesDenies anddismissesothers’feelingsAvoids directresponsibilityMakesunreasonabledemandsIs inattentiveor annoyedwhen otherstalkIs threatenedby honestyanddirectnessBelittlesandblamesIs reactivetoquestioningor criticismExploitsand/orattacksothers’vulnerabilityIs prone toparanoia andconspiracytheoriesUsesplatitudes inplace ofgenuineinsight

Babs Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Gaslights
  2. Expects caretaking
  3. Prefers to remain behind the scenes
  4. Feels special through association
  5. Is cynical and sarcastic
  6. Fakes or exaggerates illness/injury for attention
  7. Avoids introspection and lacks self-awareness
  8. Denies own anger
  9. Is envious and vengeful
  10. Withholds and stonewalls
  11. Focuses on unfairness
  12. Is passive-aggressive
  13. Fixates on others’ problems and misfortunes
  14. Holds a grudge
  15. Crosses normative boundaries and codes of conduct
  16. Focuses on appearance over substance
  17. Needs reassurance
  18. Conducts smear campaigns
  19. Gossips
  20. Rushes to (false) intimacy
  21. Lacks emotional empathy
  22. Criticizes and judges from the sidelines
  23. Does not sincerely apologize
  24. Flatters and fawns to win favor
  25. Has an exaggerated sense of entitlement
  26. Cultivates a public image sharply different from his/her private behavior
  27. Is anxious and hypervigilant
  28. Identifies as a victim
  29. Displays false humility and humblebrags
  30. Hates to lose
  31. Is impressed by the overt narcissist’s appearance of confidence
  32. Is condescending and superior
  33. Plays on sympathies
  34. Swings between idealizing and devaluing him-/herself and others
  35. Uses guilt and shame to control and punish
  36. Turns your problems into his/her dramas
  37. Has double standards
  38. Resists decision-making
  39. Displays rage and contempt in private
  40. Feels above the rules
  41. Denies and dismisses others’ feelings
  42. Avoids direct responsibility
  43. Makes unreasonable demands
  44. Is inattentive or annoyed when others talk
  45. Is threatened by honesty and directness
  46. Belittles and blames
  47. Is reactive to questioning or criticism
  48. Exploits and/or attacks others’ vulnerability
  49. Is prone to paranoia and conspiracy theories
  50. Uses platitudes in place of genuine insight