12. Takescontrol ofthefinances6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds11. Feelingtraped intherelationship19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise22.Changingyourroutines.20. Causeemotionaldistress17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless12. Takescontrol ofthefinances6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds11. Feelingtraped intherelationship19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise22.Changingyourroutines.20. Causeemotionaldistress17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 12. Takes control of the finances
  2. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  3. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  4. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  5. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  6. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  7. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  8. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, helpless
  9. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  10. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  11. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  12. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  13. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  14. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  15. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  16. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  17. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  18. 15.Enforces rules and activity that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  19. 22. Changing your routines.
  20. 20. Cause emotional distress
  21. 17. Posts private videos or pictures of yourself online
  22. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  23. 4. He installed spyware on your phone or laptop.
  24. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless