20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 12. Takescontrol ofthefinances3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 12. Takescontrol ofthefinances3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 20. Cause emotional distress
  2. 22. Changing your routines.
  3. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  4. 12. Takes control of the finances
  5. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  6. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  7. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  8. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  9. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  10. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  11. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  12. 4. He installed spyware on your phone or laptop.
  13. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  14. 15.Enforces rules and activity that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  15. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  16. 17. Posts private videos or pictures of yourself online
  17. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  18. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  19. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  20. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  21. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  22. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  23. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, helpless
  24. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless