6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless12. Takescontrol ofthefinances17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline20. Causeemotionaldistress23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices22.Changingyourroutines.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless12. Takescontrol ofthefinances17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline20. Causeemotionaldistress23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices22.Changingyourroutines.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  2. 15.Enforces rules and activity that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  3. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  4. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  5. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  6. 4. He installed spyware on your phone or laptop.
  7. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, helpless
  8. 12. Takes control of the finances
  9. 17. Posts private videos or pictures of yourself online
  10. 20. Cause emotional distress
  11. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  12. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  13. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  14. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  15. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  16. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  17. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  18. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  19. 22. Changing your routines.
  20. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  21. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  22. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  23. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  24. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.