20. Causeemotionaldistress10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence11. Feelingtraped intherelationship4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices12. Takescontrol ofthefinances2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline22.Changingyourroutines.20. Causeemotionaldistress10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence11. Feelingtraped intherelationship4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices12. Takescontrol ofthefinances2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline22.Changingyourroutines.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 20. Cause emotional distress
  2. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  3. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  4. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  5. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  6. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  7. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, helpless
  8. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  9. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  10. 4. He installed spyware on your phone or laptop.
  11. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  12. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  13. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  14. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  15. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  16. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  17. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  18. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  19. 15.Enforces rules and activity that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  20. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  21. 12. Takes control of the finances
  22. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  23. 17. Posts private videos or pictures of yourself online
  24. 22. Changing your routines.