12. Takescontrol ofthefinances22.Changingyourroutines.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.20. Causeemotionaldistress2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour11. Feelingtraped intherelationship23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances22.Changingyourroutines.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.4. Heinstalledspyware onyour phoneor laptop.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.15.Enforcesrules andactivity thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.17. Postsprivate videosor pictures ofyourselfonline8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,helpless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.20. Causeemotionaldistress2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour11. Feelingtraped intherelationship23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 12. Takes control of the finances
  2. 22. Changing your routines.
  3. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  4. 4. He installed spyware on your phone or laptop.
  5. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  6. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  7. 15.Enforces rules and activity that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  8. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  9. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  10. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  11. 17. Posts private videos or pictures of yourself online
  12. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  13. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  14. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, helpless
  15. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  16. 20. Cause emotional distress
  17. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  18. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  19. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  20. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  21. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  22. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  23. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  24. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.