1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 20. Causeemotionaldistress24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise22.Changingyourroutines.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 20. Causeemotionaldistress24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise22.Changingyourroutines.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  2. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  3. 12. Takes control of the finances
  4. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  5. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  6. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  7. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  8. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  9. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  10. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  11. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  12. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  13. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  14. 20. Cause emotional distress
  15. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  16. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  17. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  18. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  19. 22. Changing your routines.
  20. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  21. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  22. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  23. 4. Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  24. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs