9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 11. Feelingtraped intherelationship19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.22.Changingyourroutines.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds12. Takescontrol ofthefinances18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise20. Causeemotionaldistress9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 11. Feelingtraped intherelationship19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.22.Changingyourroutines.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds12. Takescontrol ofthefinances18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise20. Causeemotionaldistress

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  2. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  3. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  4. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  5. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  6. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  7. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  8. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  9. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  10. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  11. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  12. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  13. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  14. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  15. 22. Changing your routines.
  16. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  17. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  18. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  19. 12. Takes control of the finances
  20. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  21. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  22. 4. Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  23. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  24. 20. Cause emotional distress