22.Changingyourroutines.4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour12. Takescontrol ofthefinances7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices20. Causeemotionaldistress23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse11. Feelingtraped intherelationship25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.22.Changingyourroutines.4. Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour12. Takescontrol ofthefinances7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices20. Causeemotionaldistress23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse11. Feelingtraped intherelationship25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 22. Changing your routines.
  2. 4. Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  3. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  4. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  5. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  6. 12. Takes control of the finances
  7. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  8. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  9. 20. Cause emotional distress
  10. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  11. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  12. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  13. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  14. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  15. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  16. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  17. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  18. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  19. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  20. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  21. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  22. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  23. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  24. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.