16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship22.Changingyourroutines.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him20. Causeemotionaldistress19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship22.Changingyourroutines.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him20. Causeemotionaldistress19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  2. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  3. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  4. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  5. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  6. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  7. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  8. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  9. 12. Takes control of the finances
  10. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  11. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  12. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  13. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  14. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  15. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  16. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  17. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  18. 22. Changing your routines.
  19. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  20. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  21. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  22. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  23. 20. Cause emotional distress
  24. 19. Instills fear of physical violence