9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse12. Takescontrol ofthefinances1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices11. Feelingtraped intherelationship14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse12. Takescontrol ofthefinances1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices11. Feelingtraped intherelationship14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  2. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  3. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  4. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  5. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  6. 20. Cause emotional distress
  7. 22. Changing your routines.
  8. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  9. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  10. 12. Takes control of the finances
  11. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  12. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  13. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  14. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  15. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  16. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  17. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  18. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  19. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  20. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  21. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  22. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  23. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  24. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs