5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 20. Causeemotionaldistress1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living22.Changingyourroutines.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 20. Causeemotionaldistress1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living22.Changingyourroutines.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  2. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  3. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  4. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  5. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  6. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  7. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  8. 20. Cause emotional distress
  9. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  10. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  11. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  12. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  13. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  14. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  15. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  16. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  17. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  18. 12. Takes control of the finances
  19. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  20. 22. Changing your routines.
  21. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  22. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  23. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  24. 8. He stops you from accessing support services