22.Changingyourroutines.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.20. Causeemotionaldistress16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living12. Takescontrol ofthefinances4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless22.Changingyourroutines.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.20. Causeemotionaldistress16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living12. Takescontrol ofthefinances4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 22. Changing your routines.
  2. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  3. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  4. 20. Cause emotional distress
  5. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  6. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  7. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  8. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  9. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  10. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  11. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  12. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  13. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  14. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  15. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  16. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  17. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  18. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  19. 12. Takes control of the finances
  20. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  21. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  22. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  23. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  24. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless