7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 12. Takescontrol ofthefinances8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 12. Takescontrol ofthefinances8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.20. Causeemotionaldistress22.Changingyourroutines.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.11. Feelingtraped intherelationship4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  2. 12. Takes control of the finances
  3. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  4. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  5. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  6. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  7. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  8. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  9. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  10. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  11. 20. Cause emotional distress
  12. 22. Changing your routines.
  13. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  14. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  15. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  16. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  17. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  18. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  19. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  20. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  21. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  22. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  23. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  24. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless