4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship22.Changingyourroutines.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money. 21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.20. Causeemotionaldistress10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship22.Changingyourroutines.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.20. Causeemotionaldistress10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  2. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  3. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  4. 22. Changing your routines.
  5. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  6. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  7. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  8. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  9. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  10. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  11. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  12. 12. Takes control of the finances
  13. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  14. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  15. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  16. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  17. 20. Cause emotional distress
  18. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  19. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  20. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  21. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  22. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  23. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  24. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.