19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life 21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.22.Changingyourroutines.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices20. Causeemotionaldistress9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.12. Takescontrol ofthefinances5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise11. Feelingtraped intherelationship18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.22.Changingyourroutines.25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices20. Causeemotionaldistress9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  2. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  3. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  4. 12. Takes control of the finances
  5. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  6. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.
  7. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  8. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  9. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  10. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  11. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  12. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  13. 22. Changing your routines.
  14. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  15. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  16. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  17. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  18. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  19. 20. Cause emotional distress
  20. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  21. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  22. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  23. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  24. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse