8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices22.Changingyourroutines.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.20. Causeemotionaldistress7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence12. Takescontrol ofthefinances4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living 21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 11. Feelingtraped intherelationship25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.8. He stopsyou fromaccessingsupportservices22.Changingyourroutines.9. Herepeatedlyputs youdown.20. Causeemotionaldistress7. Tells youwhere you can go,who youcan see,what to wear, orwhen to be home 6. He tookcontrol overaspects ofyoureveryday life3. Havingyour onlineactivitymonitored2. Deprivedof basiceverydayneeds23. Physical,emotional,verbal, sexualpsychologicalabuse19. Instillsfear ofphysicalviolence12. Takescontrol ofthefinances4.Threatenstotake yourchildren if youleave him17.Uses youremigrationstatus toprevent youfrom living21. Makes itimpossibleordangerous toleave.16. Threatensto revealor publishprivateinformationabout you. 11. Feelingtraped intherelationship25.Feelingvoiceless,lonely,hopeless15.Enforcesrules andactivites thathumiliate,degrade ordehumanise10.Tellsyou thatyou’reworthless18.Damages awoman’sphysical andemotional well-being.1.Persistentpattern ofcontrolling,coercive andthreateningbehaviour14.Preventsyou fromworking andhaving yourown money.5.Isolatesyou fromyour friendsand family.24.Changing& adaptingyourbehaviour toapease him.

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. 8. He stops you from accessing support services
  2. 22. Changing your routines.
  3. 9. He repeatedly puts you down.
  4. 20. Cause emotional distress
  5. 7. Tells you where you can go, who you can see, what to wear, or when to be home
  6. 6. He took control over aspects of your everyday life
  7. 3. Having your online activity monitored
  8. 2. Deprived of basic everyday needs
  9. 23. Physical, emotional, verbal, sexual psychological abuse
  10. 19. Instills fear of physical violence
  11. 12. Takes control of the finances
  12. 4.Threatens to take your children if you leave him
  13. 17.Uses your emigration status to prevent you from living
  14. 21. Makes it impossible or dangerous to leave.
  15. 16. Threatens to reveal or publish private information about you.
  16. 11. Feeling traped in the relationship
  17. 25.Feeling voiceless, lonely, hopeless
  18. 15.Enforces rules and activites that humiliate, degrade or dehumanise
  19. 10.Tells you that you’re worthless
  20. 18.Damages a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.
  21. 1.Persistent pattern of controlling, coercive and threatening behaviour
  22. 14.Prevents you from working and having your own money.
  23. 5.Isolates you from your friends and family.
  24. 24.Changing & adapting your behaviour to apease him.