When is it right to use Dearman? Relationship Objective Effectiveness What are your priorities? Ask for what you want respect Appear Confident Being heard Stick to facts Give to get share your thoughts and feelings Assert Getting your needs met Is the person able to give you what you want? Be confident Describe Reinforce Express Dearman bill of rights Stay Mindful Stay focused DEARMAN Negotiate Eye contact When is it right to use Dearman? Relationship Objective Effectiveness What are your priorities? Ask for what you want respect Appear Confident Being heard Stick to facts Give to get share your thoughts and feelings Assert Getting your needs met Is the person able to give you what you want? Be confident Describe Reinforce Express Dearman bill of rights Stay Mindful Stay focused DEARMAN Negotiate Eye contact
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-When is it right to use Dearman?
I-Relationship
I-Objective Effectiveness
N-What are your priorities?
B-Ask for what you want
O-respect
N-Appear Confident
O-Being heard
O-Stick to facts
G-Give to get
B-share your thoughts and feelings
O-Assert
G-Getting your needs met
G-Is the person able to give you what you want?
I-Be confident
N-Describe
B-Reinforce
G-Express
O-Dearman bill of rights
I-Stay Mindful
I-Stay focused
B-DEARMAN
G-Negotiate
N-Eye contact