Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.Are youserious?I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!You needbetterboundaries.Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?If you thinkthis is soimportant, quitand become atherapist.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.Quit themartyract.Millennialsjust needto growup.We should teachsudents thatsolving personalproblems on theirown serves thembetter in the realworld.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.You musthave morefree timethan I do.I'm notpaid todo that.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I don't dosensitive.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.Are youserious?I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!You needbetterboundaries.Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?If you thinkthis is soimportant, quitand become atherapist.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.Quit themartyract.Millennialsjust needto growup.We should teachsudents thatsolving personalproblems on theirown serves thembetter in the realworld.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.You musthave morefree timethan I do.I'm notpaid todo that.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I don't dosensitive.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!

"How White Male Academic Colleagues Respond When Women Faculty Want Service Credit for Invisible Listening Work" BINGO! - Call List

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  1. Women are just naturally better listeners.
  2. We have counselors and centers for that.
  3. I have enough problems in my own life.
  4. Are you serious?
  5. I take it as a compliment when students confide in me! It's a reward in itself!
  6. You need better boundaries.
  7. Where is the data to prove that women do the majority of listening work?
  8. If you think this is so important, quit and become a therapist.
  9. Students feel more comfortable talking to female professors about personal issues.
  10. I wouldn't know what to say.
  11. Quit the martyr act.
  12. Millennials just need to grow up.
  13. We should teach sudents that solving personal problems on their own serves them better in the real world.
  14. Then I should get credit for taking the guest speaker that I invited to campus (who also happens to be my best friend) out to dinner!
  15. Are you sure your students aren't just looking to improve their grades?
  16. If you kept your door shut this wouldn't be an issue.
  17. I'm untenured and have more important things to do.
  18. You must have more free time than I do.
  19. I'm not paid to do that.
  20. My research is my number one priority.
  21. Aren't you violating confidentiality rules?
  22. I don't do sensitive.
  23. I'm sick of hearing about sexism in the academy. Go complain somewhere else.
  24. I know listening work is tiring, but it's the good kind of tiring!