I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.I'm notpaid todo that.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Are youserious?I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.You musthave morefree timethan I do.You needbetterboundaries.Millennialsjust needto growup.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.I don't dosensitive.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.Quit themartyract.I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.I'm notpaid todo that.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Are youserious?I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.You musthave morefree timethan I do.You needbetterboundaries.Millennialsjust needto growup.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.I don't dosensitive.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.Quit themartyract.

"How White Male Academic Colleagues Respond When Women Faculty Want Service Credit for Invisible Listening Work" BINGO! - Call List

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  1. I have enough problems in my own life.
  2. If you think this is so important, quit academe and become a therapist.
  3. I'm not paid to do that.
  4. Then I should get credit for taking the guest speaker that I invited to campus (who also happens to be my best friend) out to dinner!
  5. If you kept your door shut this wouldn't be an issue.
  6. Are you sure your students aren't just looking to improve their grades?
  7. Are you serious?
  8. I take it as a compliment when students confide in me! It's a reward in itself!
  9. Aren't you violating confidentiality rules?
  10. I know listening work is tiring, but it's the good kind of tiring!
  11. Women are just naturally better listeners.
  12. I'm untenured and have more important things to do.
  13. Students feel more comfortable talking to female professors about personal issues.
  14. You must have more free time than I do.
  15. You need better boundaries.
  16. Millennials just need to grow up.
  17. I'm sick of hearing about sexism in the academy. Go complain somewhere else.
  18. I don't do sensitive.
  19. We have counselors and centers for that.
  20. My research is my number one priority.
  21. Telling students to solve personal problems on their own prepares them for the real world.
  22. Where is the data to prove that women do the majority of listening work?
  23. I wouldn't know what to say.
  24. Quit the martyr act.