I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.You needbetterboundaries.I'm notpaid todo that.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Millennialsjust needto growup.Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I don't dosensitive.You musthave morefree timethan I do.If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.Are youserious?If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!We havecounselorsand centersfor that.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.Quit themartyract.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.You needbetterboundaries.I'm notpaid todo that.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Millennialsjust needto growup.Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?I don't dosensitive.You musthave morefree timethan I do.If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.Are youserious?If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!We havecounselorsand centersfor that.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.Quit themartyract.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.

"How White Male Academic Colleagues Respond When Women Faculty Want Service Credit for Invisible Listening Work" BINGO! - Call List

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  1. I wouldn't know what to say.
  2. I know listening work is tiring, but it's the good kind of tiring!
  3. Where is the data to prove that women do the majority of listening work?
  4. I have enough problems in my own life.
  5. I'm untenured and have more important things to do.
  6. Women are just naturally better listeners.
  7. You need better boundaries.
  8. I'm not paid to do that.
  9. Are you sure your students aren't just looking to improve their grades?
  10. Millennials just need to grow up.
  11. Aren't you violating confidentiality rules?
  12. I don't do sensitive.
  13. You must have more free time than I do.
  14. If you kept your door shut this wouldn't be an issue.
  15. Are you serious?
  16. If you think this is so important, quit academe and become a therapist.
  17. Telling students to solve personal problems on their own prepares them for the real world.
  18. I take it as a compliment when students confide in me! It's a reward in itself!
  19. We have counselors and centers for that.
  20. Then I should get credit for taking the guest speaker that I invited to campus (who also happens to be my best friend) out to dinner!
  21. Students feel more comfortable talking to female professors about personal issues.
  22. Quit the martyr act.
  23. I'm sick of hearing about sexism in the academy. Go complain somewhere else.
  24. My research is my number one priority.