Quit themartyract.I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.You musthave morefree timethan I do.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?Millennialsjust needto growup.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.I'm notpaid todo that.I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.I don't dosensitive.If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.You needbetterboundaries.Are youserious?Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?Quit themartyract.I take it as acomplimentwhen studentsconfide in me!It's a reward initself!I haveenoughproblems inmy own life.Are you sureyour studentsaren't justlooking toimprove theirgrades?Telling students tosolve personalproblems on theirown preparesthem for the realworld.I'm untenuredand havemoreimportantthings to do.You musthave morefree timethan I do.Then I should getcredit for taking theguest speaker that Iinvited to campus(who also happensto be my best friend)out to dinner!Where is thedata to provethat women dothe majority oflistening work?Millennialsjust needto growup.Myresearch ismy numberone priority.Students feelmore comfortabletalking to femaleprofessors aboutpersonal issues.I'm notpaid todo that.I wouldn'tknowwhat tosay.I don't dosensitive.If you keptyour doorshut thiswouldn't bean issue.We havecounselorsand centersfor that.I'm sick of hearingabout sexism inthe academy. Gocomplainsomewhere else.You needbetterboundaries.Are youserious?Women arejust naturallybetterlisteners.If you think thisis so important,quit academeand become atherapist.I knowlistening workis tiring, butit's the goodkind of tiring!Aren't youviolatingconfidentialityrules?

"How White Male Academic Colleagues Respond When Women Faculty Want Service Credit for Invisible Listening Work" BINGO! - Call List

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  1. Quit the martyr act.
  2. I take it as a compliment when students confide in me! It's a reward in itself!
  3. I have enough problems in my own life.
  4. Are you sure your students aren't just looking to improve their grades?
  5. Telling students to solve personal problems on their own prepares them for the real world.
  6. I'm untenured and have more important things to do.
  7. You must have more free time than I do.
  8. Then I should get credit for taking the guest speaker that I invited to campus (who also happens to be my best friend) out to dinner!
  9. Where is the data to prove that women do the majority of listening work?
  10. Millennials just need to grow up.
  11. My research is my number one priority.
  12. Students feel more comfortable talking to female professors about personal issues.
  13. I'm not paid to do that.
  14. I wouldn't know what to say.
  15. I don't do sensitive.
  16. If you kept your door shut this wouldn't be an issue.
  17. We have counselors and centers for that.
  18. I'm sick of hearing about sexism in the academy. Go complain somewhere else.
  19. You need better boundaries.
  20. Are you serious?
  21. Women are just naturally better listeners.
  22. If you think this is so important, quit academe and become a therapist.
  23. I know listening work is tiring, but it's the good kind of tiring!
  24. Aren't you violating confidentiality rules?