spies onyou/stalks youhas youquestioningyourdecisionscontrolshouseholdresources (bankaccounts,vehicles,income)controlsallparentingdecisionsKeepsweaponsand makesthreatscreateslegaltrouble foryouneedsconstantcommunicationwith youthreatensyourhousingstabilitydemandssexualintimacyscares youinsubmissionTracks yourmovementthrough yourcell phone "foryour safety"controlsaccess tomedicalcarethreatensharmmakesyou lateto workWants all yourpasswords andaccess to all youraccounts but youdon't have accessto theirskeepsyou fromworkcontrols useofcontraceptivesaudio orvideorecords youw/outconsentdisplaysviolence bypunchingwallsdestroysyourpropertyControls/limitsyour contactw/ othersinterferes orthreatensyourimmigrationstatusmakesdemands aboutyourappearance(dress a certainway)gaslightsyouspies onyou/stalks youhas youquestioningyourdecisionscontrolshouseholdresources (bankaccounts,vehicles,income)controlsallparentingdecisionsKeepsweaponsand makesthreatscreateslegaltrouble foryouneedsconstantcommunicationwith youthreatensyourhousingstabilitydemandssexualintimacyscares youinsubmissionTracks yourmovementthrough yourcell phone "foryour safety"controlsaccess tomedicalcarethreatensharmmakesyou lateto workWants all yourpasswords andaccess to all youraccounts but youdon't have accessto theirskeepsyou fromworkcontrols useofcontraceptivesaudio orvideorecords youw/outconsentdisplaysviolence bypunchingwallsdestroysyourpropertyControls/limitsyour contactw/ othersinterferes orthreatensyourimmigrationstatusmakesdemands aboutyourappearance(dress a certainway)gaslightsyou

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. spies on you/ stalks you
  2. has you questioning your decisions
  3. controls household resources (bank accounts, vehicles, income)
  4. controls all parenting decisions
  5. Keeps weapons and makes threats
  6. creates legal trouble for you
  7. needs constant communication with you
  8. threatens your housing stability
  9. demands sexual intimacy
  10. scares you in submission
  11. Tracks your movement through your cell phone "for your safety"
  12. controls access to medical care
  13. threatens harm
  14. makes you late to work
  15. Wants all your passwords and access to all your accounts but you don't have access to theirs
  16. keeps you from work
  17. controls use of contraceptives
  18. audio or video records you w/out consent
  19. displays violence by punching walls
  20. destroys your property
  21. Controls/limits your contact w/ others
  22. interferes or threatens your immigration status
  23. makes demands about your appearance (dress a certain way)
  24. gaslights you