audio orvideorecords youw/outconsentdemandssexualintimacycontrolshouseholdresources (bankaccounts,vehicles,income)interferes orthreatensyourimmigrationstatusthreatensharmTracks yourmovementthrough yourcell phone "foryour safety"spies onyou/stalks yougaslightsyouWants all yourpasswords andaccess to all youraccounts but youdon't have accessto theirsneedsconstantcommunicationwith youcontrolsallparentingdecisionsmakesdemands aboutyourappearance(dress a certainway)keepsyou fromworkthreatensyourhousingstabilitycreateslegaltrouble foryoudisplaysviolence bypunchingwallsscares youinsubmissionhas youquestioningyourdecisionsdestroysyourpropertycontrolsaccess tomedicalcareKeepsweaponsand makesthreatscontrols useofcontraceptivesmakesyou lateto workControls/limitsyour contactw/ othersaudio orvideorecords youw/outconsentdemandssexualintimacycontrolshouseholdresources (bankaccounts,vehicles,income)interferes orthreatensyourimmigrationstatusthreatensharmTracks yourmovementthrough yourcell phone "foryour safety"spies onyou/stalks yougaslightsyouWants all yourpasswords andaccess to all youraccounts but youdon't have accessto theirsneedsconstantcommunicationwith youcontrolsallparentingdecisionsmakesdemands aboutyourappearance(dress a certainway)keepsyou fromworkthreatensyourhousingstabilitycreateslegaltrouble foryoudisplaysviolence bypunchingwallsscares youinsubmissionhas youquestioningyourdecisionsdestroysyourpropertycontrolsaccess tomedicalcareKeepsweaponsand makesthreatscontrols useofcontraceptivesmakesyou lateto workControls/limitsyour contactw/ others

Coercive Control - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. audio or video records you w/out consent
  2. demands sexual intimacy
  3. controls household resources (bank accounts, vehicles, income)
  4. interferes or threatens your immigration status
  5. threatens harm
  6. Tracks your movement through your cell phone "for your safety"
  7. spies on you/ stalks you
  8. gaslights you
  9. Wants all your passwords and access to all your accounts but you don't have access to theirs
  10. needs constant communication with you
  11. controls all parenting decisions
  12. makes demands about your appearance (dress a certain way)
  13. keeps you from work
  14. threatens your housing stability
  15. creates legal trouble for you
  16. displays violence by punching walls
  17. scares you in submission
  18. has you questioning your decisions
  19. destroys your property
  20. controls access to medical care
  21. Keeps weapons and makes threats
  22. controls use of contraceptives
  23. makes you late to work
  24. Controls/limits your contact w/ others