judgmental backhanded compliements possessive or overly jealous pressures you to do something you don't want to do spiteful doesn't consider your feelings always competing with you always there for you doesn't listen respects your privacy listens supportive tells you what to wear or do honest brings up your mistakes accepting wants to spend time with you easy to talk to about feelings makes things about them happy for you when good things happen frequently bails on you hold grudges you feel drained after hanging out with them talks about other friends behind their back positive peer pressure cheers you up mutual respect apologizes if they hurt you puts you down respects boundaries tells you who to be friends with blames you mutual trust ignores your boundaries Leaves you out of plans with mutual friends loyal shares your secrets encouraging shared decision making are not happy for you only talks to you when they need something remembers things you care about forgiving caring judgmental backhanded compliements possessive or overly jealous pressures you to do something you don't want to do spiteful doesn't consider your feelings always competing with you always there for you doesn't listen respects your privacy listens supportive tells you what to wear or do honest brings up your mistakes accepting wants to spend time with you easy to talk to about feelings makes things about them happy for you when good things happen frequently bails on you hold grudges you feel drained after hanging out with them talks about other friends behind their back positive peer pressure cheers you up mutual respect apologizes if they hurt you puts you down respects boundaries tells you who to be friends with blames you mutual trust ignores your boundaries Leaves you out of plans with mutual friends loyal shares your secrets encouraging shared decision making are not happy for you only talks to you when they need something remembers things you care about forgiving caring
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-judgmental
I-backhanded compliements
C-possessive or overly jealous
X-pressures you to do something you don't want to do
I-spiteful
T-doesn't consider your feelings
T-always competing with you
T-always there for you
X-doesn't listen
I-respects your privacy
X-listens
T-supportive
T-tells you what to wear or do
O-honest
I-brings up your mistakes
O-accepting
X-wants to spend time with you
O-easy to talk to about feelings
O-makes things about them
X-happy for you when good things happen
T-frequently bails on you
C-hold grudges
O-you feel drained after hanging out with them
O-talks about other friends behind their back
I-positive peer pressure
I-cheers you up
C-mutual respect
T-apologizes if they hurt you
C-puts you down
T-respects boundaries
X-tells you who to be friends with
O-blames you
C-mutual trust
I-ignores your boundaries
T-Leaves you out of plans with mutual friends
X-loyal
I-shares your secrets
I-encouraging
X-shared decision making
C-are not happy for you
C-only talks to you when they need something
C-remembers things you care about
O-forgiving
C-caring