"What do you mean by that?" No assumptions Don't miss the good stuff! "Listen to me Linda" Paraphrase Mind reading Pseudo Listening "What do you need?" Pitch it to me Dreaming Needs Turn it up! Empathy Self Awareness Blocks Why do you always have to be right? Uh-huh, ya right, ya-ya "I can't hear you!" Open ended questions Clarifying Survival Congruence Sparring Give Feedback Body Language Rehearsal time Feelings Placating Practice Practice Practice "What do you mean by that?" No assumptions Don't miss the good stuff! "Listen to me Linda" Paraphrase Mind reading Pseudo Listening "What do you need?" Pitch it to me Dreaming Needs Turn it up! Empathy Self Awareness Blocks Why do you always have to be right? Uh-huh, ya right, ya-ya "I can't hear you!" Open ended questions Clarifying Survival Congruence Sparring Give Feedback Body Language Rehearsal time Feelings Placating Practice Practice Practice
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-"What do you mean by that?"
N-No assumptions
N-Don't miss the good stuff!
I-"Listen to me Linda"
I-Paraphrase
G-Mind reading
O-Pseudo Listening
O-"What do you need?"
O-Pitch it to me
N-Dreaming
O-Needs
G-Turn it up!
B-Empathy
B-Self Awareness
B-Blocks
B-Why do you always have to be right?
G-Uh-huh, ya right, ya-ya
I-"I can't hear you!"
N-Open ended questions
B-Clarifying
I-Survival
G-Congruence
O-Sparring
B-Give Feedback
G-Body Language
I-Rehearsal time
G-Feelings
O-Placating
I-Practice
Practice
Practice