AcceptingFrequentlyingMaintainsfriendshipsSupportsyourgoalsStayhonestWouldashouldacouldaKeepspromisesAngerseasilyAsksfor/respectsconsentThoughtfulExpressesfeelingsTakesself tooseriouslyNeedyUnrealisticexpectationsNotexpressingfeelingsEmotionalvalidationPositiveoutlookCompromiseActs ofkindnessGoodsense ofhumor UseassertivelanguageAppropriatedisclosureTakesinterest inwhat youenjoyHoldinggrudgesActivelisteningLackof trustHonoryour"no"Able tocommitBeingcriticalJealousSelf-centeredBeforgivingUse copingskills to helpregulateemotionsFightfairPrioritizesgrowthDefensivenessOverlycontrollingBalancedschooland playHas self-directedgoalsBalancedgiving/receivingCommunicationerrorsOwn uptomistakesExcessivecomputeruseBlamingAbusessubstancesSimilarvaluesystemsSincereIsolatingBreakspromisesAble toapologizeMutualrespectClarifyyourintentionsUse "I"StatementsAttentiveLack ofsupportiverelationshipsActionsalign withwordsCaringRigidthinkingBoundaryviolationsAcceptingFrequentlyingMaintainsfriendshipsSupportsyourgoalsStayhonestWouldashouldacouldaKeepspromisesAngerseasilyAsksfor/respectsconsentThoughtfulExpressesfeelingsTakesself tooseriouslyNeedyUnrealisticexpectationsNotexpressingfeelingsEmotionalvalidationPositiveoutlookCompromiseActs ofkindnessGoodsense ofhumor UseassertivelanguageAppropriatedisclosureTakesinterest inwhat youenjoyHoldinggrudgesActivelisteningLackof trustHonoryour"no"Able tocommitBeingcriticalJealousSelf-centeredBeforgivingUse copingskills to helpregulateemotionsFightfairPrioritizesgrowthDefensivenessOverlycontrollingBalancedschooland playHas self-directedgoalsBalancedgiving/receivingCommunicationerrorsOwn uptomistakesExcessivecomputeruseBlamingAbusessubstancesSimilarvaluesystemsSincereIsolatingBreakspromisesAble toapologizeMutualrespectClarifyyourintentionsUse "I"StatementsAttentiveLack ofsupportiverelationshipsActionsalign withwordsCaringRigidthinkingBoundaryviolations

Healthy Boundaries - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. G-Accepting
  2. I-Frequent lying
  3. B-Maintains friendships
  4. B-Supports your goals
  5. O-Stay honest
  6. N-Woulda shoulda coulda
  7. G-Keeps promises
  8. I-Angers easily
  9. B-Asks for/respects consent
  10. G-Thoughtful
  11. B-Expresses feelings
  12. N-Takes self too seriously
  13. I-Needy
  14. N-Unrealistic expectations
  15. N-Not expressing feelings
  16. G-Emotional validation
  17. B-Positive outlook
  18. O-Compromise
  19. O-Acts of kindness
  20. B-Good sense of humor
  21. O-Use assertive language
  22. O-Appropriate disclosure
  23. B-Takes interest in what you enjoy
  24. N-Holding grudges
  25. O-Active listening
  26. I-Lack of trust
  27. G-Honor your "no"
  28. G-Able to commit
  29. N-Being critical
  30. I-Jealous
  31. I-Self-centered
  32. O-Be forgiving
  33. O-Use coping skills to help regulate emotions
  34. O-Fight fair
  35. G-Prioritizes growth
  36. N-Defensiveness
  37. I-Overly controlling
  38. B-Balanced school and play
  39. B-Has self-directed goals
  40. B-Balanced giving/receiving
  41. N-Communication errors
  42. G-Own up to mistakes
  43. I-Excessive computer use
  44. I-Blaming
  45. I-Abuses substances
  46. B-Similar value systems
  47. G-Sincere
  48. I-Isolating
  49. I-Breaks promises
  50. O-Able to apologize
  51. B-Mutual respect
  52. O-Clarify your intentions
  53. O-Use "I" Statements
  54. G-Attentive
  55. N-Lack of supportive relationships
  56. G-Actions align with words
  57. G-Caring
  58. N-Rigid thinking
  59. N-Boundary violations