MutualrespectLackof trustAttentiveUse "I"StatementsTakesinterest inwhat youenjoyHas self-directedgoalsBeforgivingActs ofkindnessPrioritizesgrowthActionsalign withwordsCompromiseUnrealisticexpectationsAcceptingTakesself tooseriouslyGoodsense ofhumor Balancedschooland playAngerseasilyThoughtfulBoundaryviolationsBlamingBalancedgiving/receivingActivelisteningSimilarvaluesystemsIsolatingUse copingskills to helpregulateemotionsOwn uptomistakesSelf-centeredAsksfor/respectsconsentMaintainsfriendshipsCaringAppropriatedisclosureJealousNotexpressingfeelingsPositiveoutlookBreakspromisesHonoryour"no"OverlycontrollingClarifyyourintentionsNeedyCommunicationerrorsFrequentlyingAble toapologizeStayhonestExpressesfeelingsUseassertivelanguageFightfairExcessivecomputeruseDefensivenessSupportsyourgoalsLack ofsupportiverelationshipsBeingcriticalAbusessubstancesKeepspromisesWouldashouldacouldaEmotionalvalidationSincereRigidthinkingAble tocommitHoldinggrudgesMutualrespectLackof trustAttentiveUse "I"StatementsTakesinterest inwhat youenjoyHas self-directedgoalsBeforgivingActs ofkindnessPrioritizesgrowthActionsalign withwordsCompromiseUnrealisticexpectationsAcceptingTakesself tooseriouslyGoodsense ofhumor Balancedschooland playAngerseasilyThoughtfulBoundaryviolationsBlamingBalancedgiving/receivingActivelisteningSimilarvaluesystemsIsolatingUse copingskills to helpregulateemotionsOwn uptomistakesSelf-centeredAsksfor/respectsconsentMaintainsfriendshipsCaringAppropriatedisclosureJealousNotexpressingfeelingsPositiveoutlookBreakspromisesHonoryour"no"OverlycontrollingClarifyyourintentionsNeedyCommunicationerrorsFrequentlyingAble toapologizeStayhonestExpressesfeelingsUseassertivelanguageFightfairExcessivecomputeruseDefensivenessSupportsyourgoalsLack ofsupportiverelationshipsBeingcriticalAbusessubstancesKeepspromisesWouldashouldacouldaEmotionalvalidationSincereRigidthinkingAble tocommitHoldinggrudges

Healthy Boundaries - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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N
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O
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N
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  1. B-Mutual respect
  2. I-Lack of trust
  3. G-Attentive
  4. O-Use "I" Statements
  5. B-Takes interest in what you enjoy
  6. B-Has self-directed goals
  7. O-Be forgiving
  8. O-Acts of kindness
  9. G-Prioritizes growth
  10. G-Actions align with words
  11. O-Compromise
  12. N-Unrealistic expectations
  13. G-Accepting
  14. N-Takes self too seriously
  15. B-Good sense of humor
  16. B-Balanced school and play
  17. I-Angers easily
  18. G-Thoughtful
  19. N-Boundary violations
  20. I-Blaming
  21. B-Balanced giving/receiving
  22. O-Active listening
  23. B-Similar value systems
  24. I-Isolating
  25. O-Use coping skills to help regulate emotions
  26. G-Own up to mistakes
  27. I-Self-centered
  28. B-Asks for/respects consent
  29. B-Maintains friendships
  30. G-Caring
  31. O-Appropriate disclosure
  32. I-Jealous
  33. N-Not expressing feelings
  34. B-Positive outlook
  35. I-Breaks promises
  36. G-Honor your "no"
  37. I-Overly controlling
  38. O-Clarify your intentions
  39. I-Needy
  40. N-Communication errors
  41. I-Frequent lying
  42. O-Able to apologize
  43. O-Stay honest
  44. B-Expresses feelings
  45. O-Use assertive language
  46. O-Fight fair
  47. I-Excessive computer use
  48. N-Defensiveness
  49. B-Supports your goals
  50. N-Lack of supportive relationships
  51. N-Being critical
  52. I-Abuses substances
  53. G-Keeps promises
  54. N-Woulda shoulda coulda
  55. G-Emotional validation
  56. G-Sincere
  57. N-Rigid thinking
  58. G-Able to commit
  59. N-Holding grudges