"I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConstantlycheckinginYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop."I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConstantlycheckinginYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don't know" is not consent
  2. Offer to walk them home safely
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  6. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  7. Constantly checking in
  8. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  9. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  10. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  11. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  12. Absence of no does not mean yes
  13. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  14. Free! (Ask!)
  15. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  16. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.