Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."I don'tknow" isnotconsentFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Say youneed tostop andsober up.Offer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."I don'tknow" isnotconsentFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Say youneed tostop andsober up.Offer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  3. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  4. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  5. "I don't know" is not consent
  6. Free! (Ask!)
  7. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  8. Absence of no does not mean yes
  9. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  10. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  11. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  12. Offer to walk them home safely
  13. Constantly checking in
  14. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  15. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  16. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!