"I don'tknow" isnotconsentRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherOffer towalk themhomesafelyAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free!(Ask!)Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up."I don'tknow" isnotconsentRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherOffer towalk themhomesafelyAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free!(Ask!)Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don't know" is not consent
  2. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  3. Constantly checking in
  4. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  5. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  6. Absence of no does not mean yes
  7. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  8. Offer to walk them home safely
  9. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  10. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  11. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  12. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  13. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  14. Free! (Ask!)
  15. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  16. Say you need to stop and sober up.