Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Free!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Constantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Free!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Constantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  3. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Free! (Ask!)
  6. Absence of no does not mean yes
  7. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  8. Offer to walk them home safely
  9. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  10. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  11. "I don't know" is not consent
  12. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  13. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  14. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  15. Constantly checking in
  16. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.