"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Free!(Ask!) Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.ConstantlycheckinginAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentOffer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Free!(Ask!) Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.ConstantlycheckinginAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentOffer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  2. "I don't know" is not consent
  3. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  6. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  7. Free! (Ask!)
  8. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  9. Constantly checking in
  10. Absence of no does not mean yes
  11. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  12. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  13. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  14. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  15. Offer to walk them home safely
  16. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.