Free!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Say youneed tostop andsober up.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentOffer towalk themhomesafelyReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckinginFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Say youneed tostop andsober up.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentOffer towalk themhomesafelyReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckingin

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Free! (Ask!)
  2. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  4. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  5. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  6. Absence of no does not mean yes
  7. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  8. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  9. Offer to walk them home safely
  10. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  11. "I don't know" is not consent
  12. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  15. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  16. Constantly checking in