Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafely"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"ConstantlycheckinginYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up."I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent! Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafely"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"ConstantlycheckinginYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up."I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  2. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  3. Free! (Ask!)
  4. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  5. Offer to walk them home safely
  6. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  7. Constantly checking in
  8. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  9. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  10. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  11. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  12. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  13. "I don't know" is not consent
  14. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  15. Absence of no does not mean yes
  16. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!