Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesSay youneed tostop andsober up.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Constantlycheckingin"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesSay youneed tostop andsober up.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Constantlycheckingin"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Absence of no does not mean yes
  3. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  4. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  5. Free! (Ask!)
  6. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  7. Offer to walk them home safely
  8. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  9. Constantly checking in
  10. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  11. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  12. "I don't know" is not consent
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  15. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  16. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.