Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop."I don'tknow" isnotconsentReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckinginFree!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundarySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop."I don'tknow" isnotconsentReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Offer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckinginFree!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundary

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  2. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  3. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  4. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  5. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  6. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  7. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  8. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  9. Absence of no does not mean yes
  10. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  11. "I don't know" is not consent
  12. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  13. Offer to walk them home safely
  14. Constantly checking in
  15. Free! (Ask!)
  16. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary