Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckinginAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Offer towalk themhomesafelyFree!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yes"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckinginAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Offer towalk themhomesafelyFree!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yes"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsent

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  2. "I don't know" is not consent
  3. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  4. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  5. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  6. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  7. Constantly checking in
  8. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  9. Offer to walk them home safely
  10. Free! (Ask!)
  11. Absence of no does not mean yes
  12. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  15. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent