Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConstantlycheckinginAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryOffer towalk themhomesafelyAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Free!(Ask!)"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConstantlycheckinginAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryOffer towalk themhomesafelyAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Free!(Ask!)"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  3. Constantly checking in
  4. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  5. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  6. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  7. Absence of no does not mean yes
  8. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  9. Offer to walk them home safely
  10. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  11. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  12. Free! (Ask!)
  13. "I don't know" is not consent
  14. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  15. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  16. Say you need to stop and sober up.