"I don'tknow" isnotconsent Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConstantlycheckinginSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Offer towalk themhomesafelySay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!(Ask!)"I don'tknow" isnotconsent Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConstantlycheckinginSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Offer towalk themhomesafelySay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!(Ask!)

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don't know" is not consent
  2. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  3. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  4. Constantly checking in
  5. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  6. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  7. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  8. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  9. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  10. Offer to walk them home safely
  11. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  12. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  13. Absence of no does not mean yes
  14. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  15. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  16. Free! (Ask!)