Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Constantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundary"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Offer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Constantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundary"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Offer towalk themhomesafelySpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsent

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  2. Constantly checking in
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  4. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  5. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  6. Absence of no does not mean yes
  7. Free! (Ask!)
  8. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  9. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  10. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  11. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  12. "I don't know" is not consent
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Offer to walk them home safely
  15. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent