Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.ConstantlycheckinginReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Offer towalk themhomesafely"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Absenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.ConstantlycheckinginReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Offer towalk themhomesafely"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)Remind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  3. Absence of no does not mean yes
  4. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  5. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  6. Constantly checking in
  7. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  8. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  9. Offer to walk them home safely
  10. "I don't know" is not consent
  11. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  12. Free! (Ask!)
  13. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  14. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  15. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent