"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesOffer towalk themhomesafelyRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesOffer towalk themhomesafelyRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryConstantlycheckingin Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!(Ask!)Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it go

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  2. "I don't know" is not consent
  3. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  4. Absence of no does not mean yes
  5. Offer to walk them home safely
  6. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  7. Constantly checking in
  8. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  9. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  10. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  11. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  12. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  13. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  14. Free! (Ask!)
  15. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  16. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go