"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Offer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)ConstantlycheckinginAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors."I don'tknow" isnotconsentBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundary"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Offer towalk themhomesafely Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)ConstantlycheckinginAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors."I don'tknow" isnotconsentBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundary

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  2. Offer to walk them home safely
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  6. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  7. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  8. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  9. Free! (Ask!)
  10. Constantly checking in
  11. Absence of no does not mean yes
  12. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  13. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  14. "I don't know" is not consent
  15. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  16. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary