Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckingin"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors. Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed.Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free!(Ask!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesRemind them of"The TrueGentleman"and stand withyour boundaryAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop.Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomesafelyConstantlycheckingin"I don'tknow" isnotconsent

Project SAFE Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors.
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance.
  4. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed.
  5. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  6. Free! (Ask!)
  7. Absence of no does not mean yes
  8. Remind them of "The True Gentleman" and stand with your boundary
  9. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop.
  10. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  11. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  12. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  13. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  14. Offer to walk them home safely
  15. Constantly checking in
  16. "I don't know" is not consent