(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Has your partner told you "you're the only person who does this for me"? Would other people in their life find this offensive or hurtful?
Has your partner discouraged you from speaking to other partners OR are you being asked to talk to other partners about issues your partner should be handling?
Do you accept negative treatment or absence from your partner that you would not accept from close friends or family members?
Are you spending more time with a partner who can't meet your needs than you spend looking for a partner who would?
Do you do disproportionate work to make the relationship function? Does the relationship mostly rely on your effort?
Do you feel that you are in an environment of atmosphere of scarcity or competition, or being told you're asking for too much?
Does your partner ever process highly sensitive things about other partners with you that they should process with someone else?
Has your partner coerced you or their other partners to have abortions or children?
Do you sometimes feel inclined to talk to your partner's other partners simply because the things your partner is telling you aren't adding up?
Does your partner expect you to do most of the work around birth control, abortion, STI testing or STI prevention?
Did your partner provide you more care, affection, intention, and time in the beginning of the relationship than they do now? Do you want more?
Does your partner sometimes say things that don't seem honest? Would any of your partner's other partners or exes call them dishonest?
Has your partner treated other partners in a way that you would find unacceptable were they to treat you that way?
Has your partner told you that one or more of their other partners is "jealous", "unwell", "clingy", "needy" or "crazy"?
Does your partner avoid admitting to mistakes they have made in current or past relationships?
When you bring issues about your relationship to your partner, do they deflect, receive the feedback poorly, say they are tired...instead of work with you?
Has your partner told you negative things their other partners have said about you?
Did your partner escalate the relationship very quickly or set up expectations at the beginning in an unsustainable way?
Does your partner ask to use your phone, your email address, or your bank information for their own purposes?
Has your partner criticized you or been hurtful and then called you "defensive", "jealous", "insecure", "needy"?
Has your partner told you that one or more of their other partners is "jealous", "unwell", "clingy", "needy" or "crazy"?
When you ask your partner for direct clarification on expectations or social agreements, do they respond passively/pretend they have no control?
Do you find yourself feeling bad, guilty, frustrated, overwhelmed or in a state of despair about your relationship even when nothing major is going on?
Does your partner have poor boundaries around their other relationships (do you know things about their other partners that you probably shouldn't know)?
Is your partner disinterested in meeting your friends or family? Do you want more?
Do your friends outside of the group think that you can do better in a partner?
Are you exceptionally challenged by difficult feelings about one or more of your partner's other partners?
Are you exceptionally challenDoes your partner expect you to do most of the work around birth control, abortion, STI testing or STI prevention?
Is something is getting in the way of you getting physical needs met, such as enough food and enough sleep?
Has your partner told you negative things their other partners have said about you?
Has your partner coerced you or their other partners to have abortions or children?
Do you find yourself blaming other people for the choices your partner makes? (I.e. you blame their other partners, boss, family for their choices.)
Do you feel like you're on a roller coaster, with highs very high and lows very low?
Do you think of yourself as less competent, confident, sane or patient since getting together with your partner?
Does your partner put limited effort into attending events, meeting loved ones or showing deeper interest in your life? Do you want more?
