(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Do you find yourself blaming others for the choices your partner makes? (I.e. blame other partners, boss, family, not partner.)
Do you sometimes feel inclined to talk to your partner's other partners simply because the things your partner is telling you aren't adding up?
Did your partner escalate the relationship very quickly or set up expectations at the beginning in an unsustainable way?
Has your partner criticized you and then called you "defensive", "jealous", "insecure", "needy"?
Has your partner discouraged you from speaking to other partners OR are you being asked to talk to other partners about issues your partner should be handling?
Do you find yourself feeling bad, guilty, frustrated, overwhelmed or despairing about your partner even when nothing major is going on?
Has your partner coerced you or other partners to have abortions or children?
Do your friends outside of the group think that you can do better in a partner?
Is your partner disinterested in meeting your friends or family? Do you want more?
Does your partner have poor boundaries around their other relationships (do you know things that you shouldn't know)?
Does your partner ever process highly sensitive things about others with you that they should process with someone else?
Do you think of yourself as less competent, confident, sane or patient since getting together with your partner?
When asked for clarity on expectations or needs, does your partner respond passively/pretend they have no control?
Is something is getting in the way of you getting physical needs met, such as enough food and enough sleep?
Do you feel that you are in an environment of atmosphere of scarcity/competition, or being told you're asking for too much?
When you bring issues to your partner, do they deflect, receive feedback poorly, say they are tired...instead of work with you?
Did your partner provide you more care, affection, intention and time in the beginning than they do now? Do you want more?
Do you do disproportionate work to make the relationship function? Does the relationship mostly rely on your effort?
Do you feel like you're on a roller coaster, with highs very high and lows very low?
Does your partner avoid admitting to mistakes they have made in current or past relationships?
Has your partner told you "you're the only person who does this for me"? Would other people in their life find this hurtful?
Has your partner told you that one or more of their other partners is "jealous", "clingy", "needy" or "crazy"?
Has your partner told you negative things their other partners have said about you?
Are you exceptionally challenged by difficult feelings about one or more other partners?
Do you accept negative treatment or absence from your partner that you would not accept from close friends or family members?
Are you spending more time with a partner who can't meet your needs than you spend looking for a partner who would?
Does your partner put limited effort into attending events, meeting loved ones or showing interest in your life? Do you want more?
Does your partner expect you to do most of the work around birth control, abortion or STI testing/prevention?
Does your partner ask to use your phone, your email address, or your bank information for their own purposes?
Does your partner sometimes say things that don't seem honest? Would any of your partner's other partners call them dishonest?
Has your partner treated other partners in a way that you would find unacceptable were they to treat you that way?
