controllingwho theysee andwhentreatingthem likea servanttellingthem itdidn'thappenquestioningtheiridentitylovebombingaccusingthem ofabusingyoustalkingtheirfriendsand familymaking themafraid usingwords,gestures,actionssmashingthingsthreatento leave /commitsuicidedenigratingtheircapabilitiesmakingthem askyou forpermissionknowingwhat'sbest forthempreventingthem fromworkingaccusingthem of"making" youabuse themmakingthemreliant onyousaying it'stheir fault,theydeserved it"it's justfighting,NOTabuse"displayingweaponsdrinkingrecklesslythreateningtheir lovedonesnot lettingthem goanywherealonelack ofempathy fortheiremotionalneedstelling themno onewouldbelieve themcontrollingwho theysee andwhentreatingthem likea servanttellingthem itdidn'thappenquestioningtheiridentitylovebombingaccusingthem ofabusingyoustalkingtheirfriendsand familymaking themafraid usingwords,gestures,actionssmashingthingsthreatento leave /commitsuicidedenigratingtheircapabilitiesmakingthem askyou forpermissionknowingwhat'sbest forthempreventingthem fromworkingaccusingthem of"making" youabuse themmakingthemreliant onyousaying it'stheir fault,theydeserved it"it's justfighting,NOTabuse"displayingweaponsdrinkingrecklesslythreateningtheir lovedonesnot lettingthem goanywherealonelack ofempathy fortheiremotionalneedstelling themno onewouldbelieve them

MANIPULATION - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


1
I
2
B
3
N
4
I
5
O
6
O
7
G
8
I
9
B
10
N
11
N
12
O
13
B
14
G
15
I
16
B
17
B
18
G
19
G
20
N
21
O
22
O
23
I
24
G
  1. I-controlling who they see and when
  2. B-treating them like a servant
  3. N-telling them it didn't happen
  4. I-questioning their identity
  5. O-love bombing
  6. O-accusing them of abusing you
  7. G-stalking their friends and family
  8. I-making them afraid using words, gestures, actions
  9. B-smashing things
  10. N-threaten to leave / commit suicide
  11. N-denigrating their capabilities
  12. O-making them ask you for permission
  13. B-knowing what's best for them
  14. G-preventing them from working
  15. I-accusing them of "making" you abuse them
  16. B-making them reliant on you
  17. B-saying it's their fault, they deserved it
  18. G-"it's just fighting, NOT abuse"
  19. G-displaying weapons
  20. N-drinking recklessly
  21. O-threatening their loved ones
  22. O-not letting them go anywhere alone
  23. I-lack of empathy for their emotional needs
  24. G-telling them no one would believe them