making them afraid using words, gestures, actions "it's just fighting, NOT abuse" stalking their friends and family denigrating their capabilities telling them no one would believe them accusing them of abusing you telling them it didn't happen threaten to leave / commit suicide lack of empathy for their emotional needs treating them like a servant smashing things making them ask you for permission drinking recklessly displaying weapons knowing what's best for them controlling who they see and when love bombing not letting them go anywhere alone threatening their loved ones questioning their identity preventing them from working making them reliant on you accusing them of "making" you abuse them saying it's their fault, they deserved it making them afraid using words, gestures, actions "it's just fighting, NOT abuse" stalking their friends and family denigrating their capabilities telling them no one would believe them accusing them of abusing you telling them it didn't happen threaten to leave / commit suicide lack of empathy for their emotional needs treating them like a servant smashing things making them ask you for permission drinking recklessly displaying weapons knowing what's best for them controlling who they see and when love bombing not letting them go anywhere alone threatening their loved ones questioning their identity preventing them from working making them reliant on you accusing them of "making" you abuse them saying it's their fault, they deserved it
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-making them afraid using words, gestures, actions
G-"it's just fighting, NOT abuse"
G-stalking their friends and family
N-denigrating their capabilities
G-telling them no one would believe them
O-accusing them of abusing you
N-telling them it didn't happen
N-threaten to leave / commit suicide
I-lack of empathy for their emotional needs
B-treating them like a servant
B-smashing things
O-making them ask you for permission
N-drinking recklessly
G-displaying weapons
B-knowing what's best for them
I-controlling who they see and when
O-love bombing
O-not letting them go anywhere alone
O-threatening their loved ones
I-questioning their identity
G-preventing them from working
B-making them reliant on you
I-accusing them of "making" you abuse them
B-saying it's their fault, they deserved it