makingthemreliant onyoudenigratingtheircapabilitiesmakingthem askyou forpermissioncontrollingwho theysee andwhenquestioningtheiridentitythreateningtheir lovedonesknowingwhat'sbest forthemstalkingtheirfriendsand familypreventingthem fromworkingnot lettingthem goanywherealonedrinkingrecklesslythreatento leave /commitsuicidelovebombingtreatingthem likea servant"it's justfighting,NOTabuse"accusingthem of"making" youabuse themsaying it'stheir fault,theydeserved itaccusingthem ofabusingyoutellingthem itdidn'thappenlack ofempathy fortheiremotionalneedssmashingthingstelling themno onewouldbelieve themdisplayingweaponsmaking themafraid usingwords,gestures,actionsmakingthemreliant onyoudenigratingtheircapabilitiesmakingthem askyou forpermissioncontrollingwho theysee andwhenquestioningtheiridentitythreateningtheir lovedonesknowingwhat'sbest forthemstalkingtheirfriendsand familypreventingthem fromworkingnot lettingthem goanywherealonedrinkingrecklesslythreatento leave /commitsuicidelovebombingtreatingthem likea servant"it's justfighting,NOTabuse"accusingthem of"making" youabuse themsaying it'stheir fault,theydeserved itaccusingthem ofabusingyoutellingthem itdidn'thappenlack ofempathy fortheiremotionalneedssmashingthingstelling themno onewouldbelieve themdisplayingweaponsmaking themafraid usingwords,gestures,actions

MANIPULATION - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


1
B
2
N
3
O
4
I
5
I
6
O
7
B
8
G
9
G
10
O
11
N
12
N
13
O
14
B
15
G
16
I
17
B
18
O
19
N
20
I
21
B
22
G
23
G
24
I
  1. B-making them reliant on you
  2. N-denigrating their capabilities
  3. O-making them ask you for permission
  4. I-controlling who they see and when
  5. I-questioning their identity
  6. O-threatening their loved ones
  7. B-knowing what's best for them
  8. G-stalking their friends and family
  9. G-preventing them from working
  10. O-not letting them go anywhere alone
  11. N-drinking recklessly
  12. N-threaten to leave / commit suicide
  13. O-love bombing
  14. B-treating them like a servant
  15. G-"it's just fighting, NOT abuse"
  16. I-accusing them of "making" you abuse them
  17. B-saying it's their fault, they deserved it
  18. O-accusing them of abusing you
  19. N-telling them it didn't happen
  20. I-lack of empathy for their emotional needs
  21. B-smashing things
  22. G-telling them no one would believe them
  23. G-displaying weapons
  24. I-making them afraid using words, gestures, actions