(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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Has your partner told you that one of their other partners is "controlling", "needy", "jealous", or "threatened"?
Has your partner coerced you or other partners to have abortions or children?
Do you accept poor treatment or absence from your partner that you wouldn't accept from friends or family?
Do you feel like you have to apologize all the time?
Has your partner told you "you're the only person who does this for me"? Would other people in their life find this hurtful?
Did your partner provide you more care, affection and time in the beginning than they do now? Would you like more?
Is your partner disinterested in meeting your friends or family? Would you like more?
Do you sometimes want to talk to your partner's other partners simply because what your partner is telling you isn't adding up?
Has your partner told you negative things their other partners have said about you?
Are you exceptionally challenged by rough feelings about one of your partner's other partners?
Do you feel like you're on a roller coaster with highs very high and lows very low?
Do you feel that you are in an environment of scarcity or competition? Are you told you're asking for too much?
Do you do disproportionate work to make the relationship function? Does it mostly rely on your effort?
Has your partner treated other partners in a way that you would find unacceptable if they treated you that way?
Does your partner put limited effort into attending important events or participating in your life? Would you like more?
Has your partner discouraged you from speaking to other partners OR are you asked to talk to others about issues your partner should handle?
When you bring issues to your partner do they deflect or receive feedback poorly instead of work with you?
Has your partner been hurtful and then called you "defensive", "jealous", "insecure", "needy"?
Does your partner have poor boundaries (do you know things about other partners that you shouldn't)?
Do you think of yourself as less competent, confident, sane or patient since getting together with your partner?
Does your partner expect you to do most of the work around birth control, abortion or STI prevention?
Does your partner say things that don't seem honest? Would other partners call them dishonest?
Did your partner escalate the relationship very quickly or set up expectations in an unsustainable way?
Does your partner process sensitive things with you that they should process with someone else?
Has your partner ever said something like "you know what you signed up for" when you bring up your needs?
Does your partner ask you to work on problems but unresponsive when you ask them to do the same?
Does your partner avoid admitting to mistakes they have made in current or past relationships?
Do you spend more time with a partner who can't meet your needs than you spend looking for a partner who would?
Does your partner ask to use your phone, email address or bank information for their own purposes?
Do you feel bad, guilty, frustrated or depressed about your relationship even when nothing "bad" is happening?
Do you find yourself blaming other people for the choices your partner makes? (I.e. other partners, boss, family.)
When you ask to clarify expectations or agreements, does your partner respond passively or pretend they have no control?
Is something is getting in the way of you getting physical needs met (food, meds, sleep)?
Do your friends *outside of your partner's friend group* think you can do better?
