Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your values Have self- respect Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices RAFT Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Know your values Have self- respect Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Say a strong "NO!" Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices RAFT Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits Don't say what is not true Beware oversharing to everyone Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Use a support system
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Know your values
N-Have self-respect
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Trust your intuition
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-RAFT
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Know your limits
N-Don't say what is not true
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Address boundary violations early
I-How do you establish boundaries