Say a strong "NO!" Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Know your limits Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't absorb other's feelings You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Use a support system Don't say what is not true Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Address boundary violations early Know your values Say a strong "NO!" Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Clearly identify your boundary How do you establish boundaries Know your limits Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Trust your intuition Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't absorb other's feelings You are in charge of your choices Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Use a support system Don't say what is not true Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Address boundary violations early Know your values
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Have self-respect
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-RAFT
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Know your limits
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Trust your intuition
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Use a support system
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Know your values