Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Understand why you need the boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Don't absorb other's feelings Say a strong "NO!" RAFT Trust your intuition Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Understand why you need the boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Is your family open with their feelings? Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Ask what you need at this time How do you establish boundaries Don't absorb other's feelings Say a strong "NO!" RAFT Trust your intuition Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Have self- respect Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Beware oversharing to everyone Know your values Know your limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Understand why you need the boundary
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-RAFT
G-Trust your intuition
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Use a support system
N-Have self-respect
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Address boundary violations early
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Know your values
O-Know your limits