Have self- respect Use a support system Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Trust your intuition Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Use a support system Beware oversharing to everyone Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true Trust your intuition Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Prevent isolation from others who can help Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries You are in charge of your choices Know your limits RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't absorb other's feelings
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Have self-respect
O-Use a support system
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Trust your intuition
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Know your values
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Address boundary violations early
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Know your limits
O-RAFT
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Don't absorb other's feelings