Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your limits RAFT Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Use a support system Have self- respect Understand why you need the boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Beware oversharing to everyone Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your limits RAFT Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? Know your values Address boundary violations early Don't say what is not true Use a support system
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Have self-respect
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-You are in charge of your choices
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Know your limits
O-RAFT
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Know your values
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Use a support system