Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Use a support system Address boundary violations early Beware oversharing to everyone How do you establish boundaries Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? Don't absorb other's feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Have self- respect Trust your intuition Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Clearly identify your boundary Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Use a support system Address boundary violations early Beware oversharing to everyone How do you establish boundaries Don't say what is not true You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? Don't absorb other's feelings Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Have self- respect Trust your intuition
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Know your limits
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-Use a support system
B-Address boundary violations early
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Don't say what is not true
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Know your values
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-RAFT
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Have self-respect
G-Trust your intuition