Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your values Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries Use a support system Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!" Clearly state your thoughts & feelings RAFT Prevent isolation from others who can help Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Know your values Address boundary violations early How do you establish boundaries Use a support system Understand why you need the boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Clearly identify your boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your limits Beware oversharing to everyone Say a strong "NO!"
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-RAFT
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Know your values
B-Address boundary violations early
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Use a support system
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Ask what you need at this time
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Have self-respect
G-Trust your intuition
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Know your limits
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-Say a strong "NO!"