Don't absorb other's feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Know your limits How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Use a support system Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Have self- respect Know your values Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary RAFT Don't absorb other's feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Know your limits How do you establish boundaries Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Is your family open with their feelings? Trust your intuition Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Don't apologize for setting a boundary Say a strong "NO!" Use a support system Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Prevent isolation from others who can help Address boundary violations early Have self- respect Know your values Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary RAFT
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-Know your limits
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Trust your intuition
N-Don't say what is not true
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Use a support system
I-Ask what you need at this time
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-Address boundary violations early
N-Have self-respect
G-Know your values
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-RAFT