Address boundary violations early Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Use a support system Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Know your limits Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true How do you establish boundaries RAFT Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings? Address boundary violations early Clearly identify your boundary Say a strong "NO!" Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Use a support system Describe your personal bubble Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Have self- respect Know your limits Know your values Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Ask what you need at this time Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Understand why you need the boundary Don't say what is not true How do you establish boundaries RAFT Don't absorb other's feelings Tell us a time you crossed a boundary You are in charge of your choices Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings?
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Clearly identify your boundary
I-Say a strong "NO!"
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
O-Use a support system
B-Describe your personal bubble
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
N-Have self-respect
O-Know your limits
G-Know your values
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Understand why you need the boundary
N-Don't say what is not true
I-How do you establish boundaries
O-RAFT
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Is your family open with their feelings?