Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your limits You are in charge of your choices Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? RAFT Say a strong "NO!" Know your values Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't absorb other's feelings Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings How do you establish boundaries Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your limits You are in charge of your choices Use a support system Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? RAFT Say a strong "NO!" Know your values Don't say what is not true Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Don't absorb other's feelings Trust your intuition Clearly state your thoughts & feelings How do you establish boundaries Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Know your limits
B-You are in charge of your choices
O-Use a support system
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
N-Have self-respect
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-RAFT
I-Say a strong "NO!"
G-Know your values
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Trust your intuition
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone