Don't absorb other's feelings Say a strong "NO!" Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your limits Use a support system Beware oversharing to everyone Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Prevent isolation from others who can help How do you establish boundaries Know your values Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Say a strong "NO!" Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs You are in charge of your choices Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Trust your intuition Don't apologize for setting a boundary RAFT Ask what you need at this time Is your family open with their feelings? Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Know your limits Use a support system Beware oversharing to everyone Describe your personal bubble Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Address boundary violations early Prevent isolation from others who can help How do you establish boundaries Know your values Clearly identify your boundary Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Have self-respect
N-Don't say what is not true
N-Understand why you need the boundary
G-Trust your intuition
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-RAFT
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
O-Know your limits
O-Use a support system
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
B-Describe your personal bubble
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-How do you establish boundaries
G-Know your values
I-Clearly identify your boundary
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary