Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Have self- respect Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Say a strong "NO!" You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Address boundary violations early Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you crossed a boundary RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits Don't say what is not true Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your values Is your family open with their feelings? Have self- respect Ask what you need at this time Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help Clearly identify your boundary Describe your personal bubble Say a strong "NO!" You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Use a support system Don't absorb other's feelings How do you establish boundaries Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Beware oversharing to everyone Address boundary violations early Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Tell us a time you crossed a boundary RAFT Understand why you need the boundary Know your limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-Don't say what is not true
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Know your values
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
N-Have self-respect
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Say a strong "NO!"
B-You are in charge of your choices
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
O-Use a support system
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
I-How do you establish boundaries
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
B-Address boundary violations early
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-RAFT
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Know your limits