Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Know your limits Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Don't absorb other's feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Understand why you need the boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Is your family open with their feelings? How do you establish boundaries Have self- respect Clearly identify your boundary Know your limits Address boundary violations early Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Use a support system Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't say what is not true Trust your intuition Beware oversharing to everyone Don't absorb other's feelings Prevent isolation from others who can help Know your values Clearly state your thoughts & feelings You are in charge of your choices Ask what you need at this time Describe your personal bubble Understand why you need the boundary Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs RAFT
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Have self-respect
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-Know your limits
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-Use a support system
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Don't say what is not true
G-Trust your intuition
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
G-Know your values
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
B-You are in charge of your choices
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Describe your personal bubble
N-Understand why you need the boundary
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
O-RAFT