Know your limits Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Use a support system Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary You are in charge of your choices Know your values Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" How do you establish boundaries Have self- respect Tell us a time you crossed a boundary RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't apologize for setting a boundary Know your limits Trust your intuition Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Prevent isolation from others who can help Ask what you need at this time Beware oversharing to everyone Use a support system Describe your personal bubble Clearly identify your boundary You are in charge of your choices Know your values Don't say what is not true Understand why you need the boundary Address boundary violations early Is your family open with their feelings? Don't absorb other's feelings Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" How do you establish boundaries Have self- respect Tell us a time you crossed a boundary RAFT Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Don't apologize for setting a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Know your limits
G-Trust your intuition
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
I-Ask what you need at this time
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
O-Use a support system
B-Describe your personal bubble
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Know your values
N-Don't say what is not true
N-Understand why you need the boundary
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Say a strong "NO!"
I-How do you establish boundaries
N-Have self-respect
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
O-RAFT
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary