Know your values Understand why you need the boundary Clearly identify your boundary Beware oversharing to everyone How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Use a support system Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Say a strong "NO!" RAFT Address boundary violations early Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Know your values Understand why you need the boundary Clearly identify your boundary Beware oversharing to everyone How do you establish boundaries Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Ask what you need at this time Don't absorb other's feelings Have self- respect Don't say what is not true Use a support system Know your limits Don't apologize for setting a boundary Trust your intuition Say a strong "NO!" RAFT Address boundary violations early Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Is your family open with their feelings? Describe your personal bubble Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-Know your values
N-Understand why you need the boundary
I-Clearly identify your boundary
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
I-Ask what you need at this time
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
N-Have self-respect
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Use a support system
O-Know your limits
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
G-Trust your intuition
I-Say a strong "NO!"
O-RAFT
B-Address boundary violations early
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Describe your personal bubble
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-You are in charge of your choices
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary