Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Have self- respect Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Know your values Clearly identify your boundary RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Understand why you need the boundary Beware oversharing to everyone Is your family open with their feelings? Tell us a time you agreed to disagree Have self- respect Use a support system How do you establish boundaries Address boundary violations early Ask what you need at this time Know your values Clearly identify your boundary RAFT Don't apologize for setting a boundary Don't absorb other's feelings Describe your personal bubble Don't say what is not true Know your limits Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs Trust your intuition Prevent isolation from others who can help You are in charge of your choices Clearly state your thoughts & feelings Say a strong "NO!" Tell us a time you crossed a boundary Understand why you need the boundary
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Beware oversharing to everyone
G-Is your family open with their feelings?
B-Tell us a time you agreed to disagree
N-Have self-respect
O-Use a support system
I-How do you establish boundaries
B-Address boundary violations early
I-Ask what you need at this time
G-Know your values
I-Clearly identify your boundary
O-RAFT
I-Don't apologize for setting a boundary
O-Don't absorb other's feelings
B-Describe your personal bubble
N-Don't say what is not true
O-Know your limits
O-Tell us one of your strongly held beliefs
G-Trust your intuition
G-Prevent isolation from others who can help
B-You are in charge of your choices
G-Clearly state your thoughts & feelings
I-Say a strong "NO!"
N-Tell us a time you crossed a boundary
N-Understand why you need the boundary