Talking openly about problems Criticism Honesty Boundaries are shared and respected Isolation from others Listening without judgement Balance (able to spend time together and apart) Fighting or avoidance of issues Safety Acceptance/ Appreciation Encouragement and Support Hurtful or threatening communication Dishonesty Equality Compromise Resolving conflicts fairly Trust Active Listening Mutual decision making Enjoying each other's company Fear Manipulation Respect for privacy Respect Empathy Imbalance of power and control Only spending time together Sharing thoughts and feelings Lack of trust Pressure or force One person's wishes feel more important Minimizing abusive behaviour Independence Open Communication Talking openly about problems Criticism Honesty Boundaries are shared and respected Isolation from others Listening without judgement Balance (able to spend time together and apart) Fighting or avoidance of issues Safety Acceptance/ Appreciation Encouragement and Support Hurtful or threatening communication Dishonesty Equality Compromise Resolving conflicts fairly Trust Active Listening Mutual decision making Enjoying each other's company Fear Manipulation Respect for privacy Respect Empathy Imbalance of power and control Only spending time together Sharing thoughts and feelings Lack of trust Pressure or force One person's wishes feel more important Minimizing abusive behaviour Independence Open Communication
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-
Talking openly about problems
N-
Criticism
I-
Honesty
G-
Boundaries are shared and respected
O-
Isolation
from
others
G-
Listening without judgement
B-
Balance (able to spend time together and apart)
N-
Fighting or avoidance of issues
I-
Safety
B-Acceptance/
Appreciation
G-Encouragement and Support
O-Hurtful or threatening communication
N-
Dishonesty
I-
Equality
G-Compromise
G-
Resolving conflicts fairly
I-
Trust
G-
Active Listening
B-
Mutual
decision making
B-
Enjoying each other's company
O-
Fear
O-Manipulation
B-
Respect for privacy
I-
Respect
I-
Empathy
O-
Imbalance of power and control
N-
Only spending time together
G-
Sharing thoughts and feelings
N-
Lack of trust
O-
Pressure or force
N-One person's wishes feel more important
O-
Minimizing abusive behaviour
B-Independence
I-Open Communication