Equality Only spending time together Fighting or avoidance of issues Isolation from others Balance (able to spend time together and apart) Criticism Open Communication Pressure or force Compromise Honesty Safety Manipulation One person's wishes feel more important Listening without judgement Hurtful or threatening communication Respect Enjoying each other's company Trust Resolving conflicts fairly Minimizing abusive behaviour Acceptance/ Appreciation Lack of trust Dishonesty Fear Active Listening Imbalance of power and control Independence Talking openly about problems Boundaries are shared and respected Respect for privacy Encouragement and Support Sharing thoughts and feelings Mutual decision making Empathy Equality Only spending time together Fighting or avoidance of issues Isolation from others Balance (able to spend time together and apart) Criticism Open Communication Pressure or force Compromise Honesty Safety Manipulation One person's wishes feel more important Listening without judgement Hurtful or threatening communication Respect Enjoying each other's company Trust Resolving conflicts fairly Minimizing abusive behaviour Acceptance/ Appreciation Lack of trust Dishonesty Fear Active Listening Imbalance of power and control Independence Talking openly about problems Boundaries are shared and respected Respect for privacy Encouragement and Support Sharing thoughts and feelings Mutual decision making Empathy
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-
Equality
N-
Only spending time together
N-
Fighting or avoidance of issues
O-
Isolation
from
others
B-
Balance (able to spend time together and apart)
N-
Criticism
I-Open Communication
O-
Pressure or force
G-Compromise
I-
Honesty
I-
Safety
O-Manipulation
N-One person's wishes feel more important
G-
Listening without judgement
O-Hurtful or threatening communication
I-
Respect
B-
Enjoying each other's company
I-
Trust
G-
Resolving conflicts fairly
O-
Minimizing abusive behaviour
B-Acceptance/
Appreciation
N-
Lack of trust
N-
Dishonesty
O-
Fear
G-
Active Listening
O-
Imbalance of power and control
B-Independence
B-
Talking openly about problems
G-
Boundaries are shared and respected
B-
Respect for privacy
G-Encouragement and Support
G-
Sharing thoughts and feelings
B-
Mutual
decision making
I-
Empathy