self critical low self esteem or worth overwork or over schedule yourself take things personally Focused on others Feel not appreciated excessively worry about others needing to be needed Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries lack of self identity Put your needs last get self esteem from helping others enabler vs enabled unspoken resentments give but not receiving your "job" yo save people People pleaser controller difficulties identifying wants and needs can't detach from what others do anxious when others are hurting responsible for everyone else can't set limits self critical low self esteem or worth overwork or over schedule yourself take things personally Focused on others Feel not appreciated excessively worry about others needing to be needed Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries lack of self identity Put your needs last get self esteem from helping others enabler vs enabled unspoken resentments give but not receiving your "job" yo save people People pleaser controller difficulties identifying wants and needs can't detach from what others do anxious when others are hurting responsible for everyone else can't set limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
N-self critical
I-low self esteem or worth
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
O-take things personally
N-Focused on others
B-Feel not appreciated
G-excessively worry about others
O-needing to be needed
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
I-lack of self identity
B-Put your needs last
B-get self esteem from helping others
N-enabler vs enabled
I-unspoken resentments
O-give but not receiving
B-your "job" yo save people
I-People pleaser
N-controller
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
G-can't detach from what others do
O-anxious when others are hurting
G-responsible for everyone else
G-can't set limits