get self esteem from helping others self critical excessively worry about others give but not receiving Put your needs last can't detach from what others do lack of self identity overwork or over schedule yourself responsible for everyone else People pleaser difficulties identifying wants and needs Attract people w/ problems can't set limits take things personally controller anxious when others are hurting unspoken resentments needing to be needed enabler vs enabled Feel not appreciated hard time setting healthy boundaries your "job" yo save people Focused on others low self esteem or worth get self esteem from helping others self critical excessively worry about others give but not receiving Put your needs last can't detach from what others do lack of self identity overwork or over schedule yourself responsible for everyone else People pleaser difficulties identifying wants and needs Attract people w/ problems can't set limits take things personally controller anxious when others are hurting unspoken resentments needing to be needed enabler vs enabled Feel not appreciated hard time setting healthy boundaries your "job" yo save people Focused on others low self esteem or worth
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-get self esteem from helping others
N-self critical
G-excessively worry about others
O-give but not receiving
B-Put your needs last
G-can't detach from what others do
I-lack of self identity
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
G-responsible for everyone else
I-People pleaser
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-can't set limits
O-take things personally
N-controller
O-anxious when others are hurting
I-unspoken resentments
O-needing to be needed
N-enabler vs enabled
B-Feel not appreciated
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
B-your "job" yo save people
N-Focused on others
I-low self esteem or worth