excessively worry about others give but not receiving self critical Feel not appreciated anxious when others are hurting low self esteem or worth lack of self identity can't detach from what others do get self esteem from helping others enabler vs enabled difficulties identifying wants and needs take things personally responsible for everyone else Focused on others Attract people w/ problems controller People pleaser needing to be needed hard time setting healthy boundaries your "job" yo save people unspoken resentments Put your needs last overwork or over schedule yourself can't set limits excessively worry about others give but not receiving self critical Feel not appreciated anxious when others are hurting low self esteem or worth lack of self identity can't detach from what others do get self esteem from helping others enabler vs enabled difficulties identifying wants and needs take things personally responsible for everyone else Focused on others Attract people w/ problems controller People pleaser needing to be needed hard time setting healthy boundaries your "job" yo save people unspoken resentments Put your needs last overwork or over schedule yourself can't set limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-excessively worry about others
O-give but not receiving
N-self critical
B-Feel not appreciated
O-anxious when others are hurting
I-low self esteem or worth
I-lack of self identity
G-can't detach from what others do
B-get self esteem from helping others
N-enabler vs enabled
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
O-take things personally
G-responsible for everyone else
N-Focused on others
B-Attract people w/ problems
N-controller
I-People pleaser
O-needing to be needed
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
B-your "job" yo save people
I-unspoken resentments
B-Put your needs last
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
G-can't set limits