needing to be needed excessively worry about others Focused on others enabler vs enabled responsible for everyone else Feel not appreciated can't detach from what others do give but not receiving overwork or over schedule yourself anxious when others are hurting get self esteem from helping others People pleaser controller can't set limits self critical take things personally unspoken resentments Put your needs last difficulties identifying wants and needs your "job" yo save people low self esteem or worth lack of self identity hard time setting healthy boundaries Attract people w/ problems needing to be needed excessively worry about others Focused on others enabler vs enabled responsible for everyone else Feel not appreciated can't detach from what others do give but not receiving overwork or over schedule yourself anxious when others are hurting get self esteem from helping others People pleaser controller can't set limits self critical take things personally unspoken resentments Put your needs last difficulties identifying wants and needs your "job" yo save people low self esteem or worth lack of self identity hard time setting healthy boundaries Attract people w/ problems
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-needing to be needed
G-excessively worry about others
N-Focused on others
N-enabler vs enabled
G-responsible for everyone else
B-Feel not appreciated
G-can't detach from what others do
O-give but not receiving
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
O-anxious when others are hurting
B-get self esteem from helping others
I-People pleaser
N-controller
G-can't set limits
N-self critical
O-take things personally
I-unspoken resentments
B-Put your needs last
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
B-your "job" yo save people
I-low self esteem or worth
I-lack of self identity
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
B-Attract people w/ problems