Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries needing to be needed enabler vs enabled self critical lack of self identity your "job" yo save people Focused on others excessively worry about others anxious when others are hurting can't detach from what others do People pleaser can't set limits low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated responsible for everyone else take things personally controller unspoken resentments give but not receiving Put your needs last get self esteem from helping others overwork or over schedule yourself Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries needing to be needed enabler vs enabled self critical lack of self identity your "job" yo save people Focused on others excessively worry about others anxious when others are hurting can't detach from what others do People pleaser can't set limits low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated responsible for everyone else take things personally controller unspoken resentments give but not receiving Put your needs last get self esteem from helping others overwork or over schedule yourself
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
O-needing to be needed
N-enabler vs enabled
N-self critical
I-lack of self identity
B-your "job" yo save people
N-Focused on others
G-excessively worry about others
O-anxious when others are hurting
G-can't detach from what others do
I-People pleaser
G-can't set limits
I-low self esteem or worth
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
B-Feel not appreciated
G-responsible for everyone else
O-take things personally
N-controller
I-unspoken resentments
O-give but not receiving
B-Put your needs last
B-get self esteem from helping others
O-overwork or over schedule yourself