overwork or over schedule yourself Attract people w/ problems responsible for everyone else Put your needs last hard time setting healthy boundaries take things personally self critical Feel not appreciated needing to be needed low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs anxious when others are hurting can't detach from what others do can't set limits enabler vs enabled your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others lack of self identity People pleaser Focused on others controller unspoken resentments give but not receiving get self esteem from helping others overwork or over schedule yourself Attract people w/ problems responsible for everyone else Put your needs last hard time setting healthy boundaries take things personally self critical Feel not appreciated needing to be needed low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs anxious when others are hurting can't detach from what others do can't set limits enabler vs enabled your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others lack of self identity People pleaser Focused on others controller unspoken resentments give but not receiving get self esteem from helping others
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-responsible for everyone else
B-Put your needs last
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
O-take things personally
N-self critical
B-Feel not appreciated
O-needing to be needed
I-low self esteem or worth
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
O-anxious when others are hurting
G-can't detach from what others do
G-can't set limits
N-enabler vs enabled
B-your "job" yo save people
G-excessively worry about others
I-lack of self identity
I-People pleaser
N-Focused on others
N-controller
I-unspoken resentments
O-give but not receiving
B-get self esteem from helping others