low self esteem or worth anxious when others are hurting Feel not appreciated overwork or over schedule yourself difficulties identifying wants and needs give but not receiving hard time setting healthy boundaries enabler vs enabled Focused on others needing to be needed can't set limits Attract people w/ problems responsible for everyone else take things personally self critical Put your needs last controller unspoken resentments your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others can't detach from what others do lack of self identity get self esteem from helping others People pleaser low self esteem or worth anxious when others are hurting Feel not appreciated overwork or over schedule yourself difficulties identifying wants and needs give but not receiving hard time setting healthy boundaries enabler vs enabled Focused on others needing to be needed can't set limits Attract people w/ problems responsible for everyone else take things personally self critical Put your needs last controller unspoken resentments your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others can't detach from what others do lack of self identity get self esteem from helping others People pleaser
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-low self esteem or worth
O-anxious when others are hurting
B-Feel not appreciated
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
O-give but not receiving
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
N-enabler vs enabled
N-Focused on others
O-needing to be needed
G-can't set limits
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-responsible for everyone else
O-take things personally
N-self critical
B-Put your needs last
N-controller
I-unspoken resentments
B-your "job" yo save people
G-excessively worry about others
G-can't detach from what others do
I-lack of self identity
B-get self esteem from helping others
I-People pleaser