unspoken resentments needing to be needed low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated take things personally your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others enabler vs enabled can't detach from what others do responsible for everyone else Put your needs last can't set limits get self esteem from helping others People pleaser lack of self identity self critical anxious when others are hurting Focused on others controller Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries give but not receiving overwork or over schedule yourself unspoken resentments needing to be needed low self esteem or worth difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated take things personally your "job" yo save people excessively worry about others enabler vs enabled can't detach from what others do responsible for everyone else Put your needs last can't set limits get self esteem from helping others People pleaser lack of self identity self critical anxious when others are hurting Focused on others controller Attract people w/ problems hard time setting healthy boundaries give but not receiving overwork or over schedule yourself
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-unspoken resentments
O-needing to be needed
I-low self esteem or worth
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
B-Feel not appreciated
O-take things personally
B-your "job" yo save people
G-excessively worry about others
N-enabler vs enabled
G-can't detach from what others do
G-responsible for everyone else
B-Put your needs last
G-can't set limits
B-get self esteem from helping others
I-People pleaser
I-lack of self identity
N-self critical
O-anxious when others are hurting
N-Focused on others
N-controller
B-Attract people w/ problems
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
O-give but not receiving
O-overwork or over schedule yourself