get self esteem from helping others lack of self identity can't set limits Focused on others take things personally controller Put your needs last your "job" yo save people self critical low self esteem or worth unspoken resentments responsible for everyone else anxious when others are hurting give but not receiving can't detach from what others do excessively worry about others People pleaser Feel not appreciated enabler vs enabled needing to be needed difficulties identifying wants and needs hard time setting healthy boundaries overwork or over schedule yourself Attract people w/ problems get self esteem from helping others lack of self identity can't set limits Focused on others take things personally controller Put your needs last your "job" yo save people self critical low self esteem or worth unspoken resentments responsible for everyone else anxious when others are hurting give but not receiving can't detach from what others do excessively worry about others People pleaser Feel not appreciated enabler vs enabled needing to be needed difficulties identifying wants and needs hard time setting healthy boundaries overwork or over schedule yourself Attract people w/ problems
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-get self esteem from helping others
I-lack of self identity
G-can't set limits
N-Focused on others
O-take things personally
N-controller
B-Put your needs last
B-your "job" yo save people
N-self critical
I-low self esteem or worth
I-unspoken resentments
G-responsible for everyone else
O-anxious when others are hurting
O-give but not receiving
G-can't detach from what others do
G-excessively worry about others
I-People pleaser
B-Feel not appreciated
N-enabler vs enabled
O-needing to be needed
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
B-Attract people w/ problems