excessively worry about others hard time setting healthy boundaries Focused on others lack of self identity your "job" yo save people needing to be needed self critical get self esteem from helping others give but not receiving can't detach from what others do low self esteem or worth take things personally responsible for everyone else overwork or over schedule yourself Put your needs last can't set limits anxious when others are hurting Attract people w/ problems unspoken resentments enabler vs enabled People pleaser Feel not appreciated difficulties identifying wants and needs controller excessively worry about others hard time setting healthy boundaries Focused on others lack of self identity your "job" yo save people needing to be needed self critical get self esteem from helping others give but not receiving can't detach from what others do low self esteem or worth take things personally responsible for everyone else overwork or over schedule yourself Put your needs last can't set limits anxious when others are hurting Attract people w/ problems unspoken resentments enabler vs enabled People pleaser Feel not appreciated difficulties identifying wants and needs controller
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
G-excessively worry about others
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
N-Focused on others
I-lack of self identity
B-your "job" yo save people
O-needing to be needed
N-self critical
B-get self esteem from helping others
O-give but not receiving
G-can't detach from what others do
I-low self esteem or worth
O-take things personally
G-responsible for everyone else
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
B-Put your needs last
G-can't set limits
O-anxious when others are hurting
B-Attract people w/ problems
I-unspoken resentments
N-enabler vs enabled
I-People pleaser
B-Feel not appreciated
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
N-controller