Attract people w/ problems difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated People pleaser your "job" yo save people get self esteem from helping others can't detach from what others do low self esteem or worth hard time setting healthy boundaries take things personally overwork or over schedule yourself needing to be needed unspoken resentments excessively worry about others responsible for everyone else lack of self identity enabler vs enabled Put your needs last Focused on others self critical give but not receiving anxious when others are hurting controller can't set limits Attract people w/ problems difficulties identifying wants and needs Feel not appreciated People pleaser your "job" yo save people get self esteem from helping others can't detach from what others do low self esteem or worth hard time setting healthy boundaries take things personally overwork or over schedule yourself needing to be needed unspoken resentments excessively worry about others responsible for everyone else lack of self identity enabler vs enabled Put your needs last Focused on others self critical give but not receiving anxious when others are hurting controller can't set limits
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Attract people w/ problems
I-difficulties identifying wants and needs
B-Feel not appreciated
I-People pleaser
B-your "job" yo save people
B-get self esteem from helping others
G-can't detach from what others do
I-low self esteem or worth
G-hard time setting healthy boundaries
O-take things personally
O-overwork or over schedule yourself
O-needing to be needed
I-unspoken resentments
G-excessively worry about others
G-responsible for everyone else
I-lack of self identity
N-enabler vs enabled
B-Put your needs last
N-Focused on others
N-self critical
O-give but not receiving
O-anxious when others are hurting
N-controller
G-can't set limits