Unresolved issues Reads your texts Good communication Supportive of your goals and interests Respect Share feelings Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Poor Boundaries Tells you what to do Safety Not expressing feelings Good chemistry Controling Calls you names or puts you down Active Listening Ability to compromise They are patient with you Jealous and possessive Being critical Equality Gives you space when wanted Apologizes when wrong Self- centered Take time to learn about eachother Defensiveness Considerate /Understanding Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Cheers you up Demands all of your time Mutual trust Past relationship baggage Trust Being understanding Similar Values Lack of communication Shared decision making Respect your boundaries Have fun together Fearing rejection Unresolved issues Reads your texts Good communication Supportive of your goals and interests Respect Share feelings Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Poor Boundaries Tells you what to do Safety Not expressing feelings Good chemistry Controling Calls you names or puts you down Active Listening Ability to compromise They are patient with you Jealous and possessive Being critical Equality Gives you space when wanted Apologizes when wrong Self- centered Take time to learn about eachother Defensiveness Considerate /Understanding Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Cheers you up Demands all of your time Mutual trust Past relationship baggage Trust Being understanding Similar Values Lack of communication Shared decision making Respect your boundaries Have fun together Fearing rejection
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Unresolved issues
G-Reads your texts
O-Good communication
I-Supportive of your goals and interests
N-Respect
O-Share feelings
I-Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated
B-Poor Boundaries
G-Tells you what to do
N-Safety
B-Not expressing feelings
N-Good chemistry
G-Controling
G-Calls you names or puts you down
O-Active Listening
O-Ability to compromise
I-They are patient with you
G-Jealous and possessive
B-Being critical
N-Equality
I-Gives you space when wanted
O-Apologizes when wrong
G-Self-centered
I-Take time to learn about eachother
B-Defensiveness
N-Considerate
/Understanding
G-Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc.
I-Cheers you up
G-Demands all of your time
O-Mutual trust
B-Past relationship baggage
N-Trust
O-Being understanding
N-Similar Values
B-Lack of communication
O-Shared decision making
I-Respect your boundaries
I-Have fun together
B-Fearing rejection