Defensiveness Cheers you up Take time to learn about eachother Ability to compromise Being critical Respect your boundaries Being understanding Calls you names or puts you down Demands all of your time Have fun together Trust They are patient with you Poor Boundaries Fearing rejection Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Lack of communication Similar Values Jealous and possessive Gives you space when wanted Good chemistry Share feelings Shared decision making Past relationship baggage Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Good communication Controling Active Listening Respect Self- centered Safety Apologizes when wrong Considerate /Understanding Equality Mutual trust Supportive of your goals and interests Not expressing feelings Tells you what to do Reads your texts Unresolved issues Defensiveness Cheers you up Take time to learn about eachother Ability to compromise Being critical Respect your boundaries Being understanding Calls you names or puts you down Demands all of your time Have fun together Trust They are patient with you Poor Boundaries Fearing rejection Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Lack of communication Similar Values Jealous and possessive Gives you space when wanted Good chemistry Share feelings Shared decision making Past relationship baggage Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Good communication Controling Active Listening Respect Self- centered Safety Apologizes when wrong Considerate /Understanding Equality Mutual trust Supportive of your goals and interests Not expressing feelings Tells you what to do Reads your texts Unresolved issues
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Defensiveness
I-Cheers you up
I-Take time to learn about eachother
O-Ability to compromise
B-Being critical
I-Respect your boundaries
O-Being understanding
G-Calls you names or puts you down
G-Demands all of your time
I-Have fun together
N-Trust
I-They are patient with you
B-Poor Boundaries
B-Fearing rejection
G-Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc.
B-Lack of communication
N-Similar Values
G-Jealous and possessive
I-Gives you space when wanted
N-Good chemistry
O-Share feelings
O-Shared decision making
B-Past relationship baggage
I-Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated
O-Good communication
G-Controling
O-Active Listening
N-Respect
G-Self-centered
N-Safety
O-Apologizes when wrong
N-Considerate
/Understanding
N-Equality
O-Mutual trust
I-Supportive of your goals and interests
B-Not expressing feelings
G-Tells you what to do
G-Reads your texts
B-Unresolved issues