Defensiveness Gives you space when wanted Demands all of your time Good communication Equality Jealous and possessive Take time to learn about eachother Not expressing feelings Active Listening Respect Share feelings Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Safety Past relationship baggage Respect your boundaries Similar Values Ability to compromise Unresolved issues Self- centered Have fun together Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Trust Being critical Cheers you up They are patient with you Mutual trust Supportive of your goals and interests Lack of communication Good chemistry Fearing rejection Shared decision making Being understanding Calls you names or puts you down Tells you what to do Considerate /Understanding Poor Boundaries Reads your texts Apologizes when wrong Controling Defensiveness Gives you space when wanted Demands all of your time Good communication Equality Jealous and possessive Take time to learn about eachother Not expressing feelings Active Listening Respect Share feelings Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Safety Past relationship baggage Respect your boundaries Similar Values Ability to compromise Unresolved issues Self- centered Have fun together Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Trust Being critical Cheers you up They are patient with you Mutual trust Supportive of your goals and interests Lack of communication Good chemistry Fearing rejection Shared decision making Being understanding Calls you names or puts you down Tells you what to do Considerate /Understanding Poor Boundaries Reads your texts Apologizes when wrong Controling
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Defensiveness
I-Gives you space when wanted
G-Demands all of your time
O-Good communication
N-Equality
G-Jealous and possessive
I-Take time to learn about eachother
B-Not expressing feelings
O-Active Listening
N-Respect
O-Share feelings
I-Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated
N-Safety
B-Past relationship baggage
I-Respect your boundaries
N-Similar Values
O-Ability to compromise
B-Unresolved issues
G-Self-centered
I-Have fun together
G-Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc.
N-Trust
B-Being critical
I-Cheers you up
I-They are patient with you
O-Mutual trust
I-Supportive of your goals and interests
B-Lack of communication
N-Good chemistry
B-Fearing rejection
O-Shared decision making
O-Being understanding
G-Calls you names or puts you down
G-Tells you what to do
N-Considerate
/Understanding
B-Poor Boundaries
G-Reads your texts
O-Apologizes when wrong
G-Controling