Share feelings Respect your boundaries Poor Boundaries Defensiveness Self- centered Reads your texts Tells you what to do Cheers you up Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Supportive of your goals and interests Equality Mutual trust Demands all of your time They are patient with you Good chemistry Being understanding Past relationship baggage Take time to learn about eachother Fearing rejection Respect Active Listening Gives you space when wanted Trust Not expressing feelings Being critical Unresolved issues Safety Jealous and possessive Lack of communication Ability to compromise Calls you names or puts you down Have fun together Shared decision making Considerate /Understanding Controling Good communication Apologizes when wrong Similar Values Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Share feelings Respect your boundaries Poor Boundaries Defensiveness Self- centered Reads your texts Tells you what to do Cheers you up Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Supportive of your goals and interests Equality Mutual trust Demands all of your time They are patient with you Good chemistry Being understanding Past relationship baggage Take time to learn about eachother Fearing rejection Respect Active Listening Gives you space when wanted Trust Not expressing feelings Being critical Unresolved issues Safety Jealous and possessive Lack of communication Ability to compromise Calls you names or puts you down Have fun together Shared decision making Considerate /Understanding Controling Good communication Apologizes when wrong Similar Values Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
O-Share feelings
I-Respect your boundaries
B-Poor Boundaries
B-Defensiveness
G-Self-centered
G-Reads your texts
G-Tells you what to do
I-Cheers you up
G-Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc.
I-Supportive of your goals and interests
N-Equality
O-Mutual trust
G-Demands all of your time
I-They are patient with you
N-Good chemistry
O-Being understanding
B-Past relationship baggage
I-Take time to learn about eachother
B-Fearing rejection
N-Respect
O-Active Listening
I-Gives you space when wanted
N-Trust
B-Not expressing feelings
B-Being critical
B-Unresolved issues
N-Safety
G-Jealous and possessive
B-Lack of communication
O-Ability to compromise
G-Calls you names or puts you down
I-Have fun together
O-Shared decision making
N-Considerate
/Understanding
G-Controling
O-Good communication
O-Apologizes when wrong
N-Similar Values
I-Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated