Past relationship baggage Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Cheers you up Apologizes when wrong Take time to learn about eachother Good chemistry Controling Good communication Jealous and possessive Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Unresolved issues Mutual trust Considerate /Understanding Calls you names or puts you down Being understanding Similar Values Fearing rejection Tells you what to do Ability to compromise Poor Boundaries They are patient with you Safety Supportive of your goals and interests Reads your texts Share feelings Have fun together Being critical Respect your boundaries Defensiveness Gives you space when wanted Trust Demands all of your time Respect Self- centered Lack of communication Equality Shared decision making Active Listening Not expressing feelings Past relationship baggage Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated Cheers you up Apologizes when wrong Take time to learn about eachother Good chemistry Controling Good communication Jealous and possessive Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc. Unresolved issues Mutual trust Considerate /Understanding Calls you names or puts you down Being understanding Similar Values Fearing rejection Tells you what to do Ability to compromise Poor Boundaries They are patient with you Safety Supportive of your goals and interests Reads your texts Share feelings Have fun together Being critical Respect your boundaries Defensiveness Gives you space when wanted Trust Demands all of your time Respect Self- centered Lack of communication Equality Shared decision making Active Listening Not expressing feelings
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
B-Past relationship baggage
I-Makes you feel safe, heard, appreciated
I-Cheers you up
O-Apologizes when wrong
I-Take time to learn about eachother
N-Good chemistry
G-Controling
O-Good communication
G-Jealous and possessive
G-Gets physical: hitting, pushing, etc.
B-Unresolved issues
O-Mutual trust
N-Considerate
/Understanding
G-Calls you names or puts you down
O-Being understanding
N-Similar Values
B-Fearing rejection
G-Tells you what to do
O-Ability to compromise
B-Poor Boundaries
I-They are patient with you
N-Safety
I-Supportive of your goals and interests
G-Reads your texts
O-Share feelings
I-Have fun together
B-Being critical
I-Respect your boundaries
B-Defensiveness
I-Gives you space when wanted
N-Trust
G-Demands all of your time
N-Respect
G-Self-centered
B-Lack of communication
N-Equality
O-Shared decision making
O-Active Listening
B-Not expressing feelings