Ignoring Being critical Respectful Balanced giving and receiving Thoughtful Disrespectful Offers solutions Cooperation Fight fair Honesty Passive communication Assertive communication Problem- solving Have fun together Not expressing feelings Active listening Comfort Negotiates Encouragement Aggressive communication I- statements Listens Isolating Trust Pressures Share decision making Comparing yourself Breaks promises Share feelings Sincere Excessive phone/computer use Balancing relationship and self- care Safety Invalidating Has self- directed goals Talks about feelings Demands all your time Has goals Jealousy Patience Takes self too seriously Dismissive Reliable Self- centered Apologize when wrong Feeling left out Accepting Focusing on strengths Compromise Controlling Defensiveness Similar values Blaming Similar interests Ignoring Being critical Respectful Balanced giving and receiving Thoughtful Disrespectful Offers solutions Cooperation Fight fair Honesty Passive communication Assertive communication Problem- solving Have fun together Not expressing feelings Active listening Comfort Negotiates Encouragement Aggressive communication I- statements Listens Isolating Trust Pressures Share decision making Comparing yourself Breaks promises Share feelings Sincere Excessive phone/computer use Balancing relationship and self- care Safety Invalidating Has self- directed goals Talks about feelings Demands all your time Has goals Jealousy Patience Takes self too seriously Dismissive Reliable Self- centered Apologize when wrong Feeling left out Accepting Focusing on strengths Compromise Controlling Defensiveness Similar values Blaming Similar interests
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Ignoring
N-Being critical
G-Respectful
B-Balanced giving and receiving
G-Thoughtful
I-Disrespectful
O-Offers solutions
B-Cooperation
O-Fight fair
G-Honesty
N-Passive communication
O-Assertive communication
O-Problem-solving
G-Have fun together
N-Not expressing feelings
O-Active listening
B-Comfort
G-Negotiates
G-Encouragement
N-Aggressive communication
O-I-statements
B-Listens
I-Isolating
B-Trust
I-Pressures
O-Share decision making
N-Comparing yourself
I-Breaks promises
O-Share feelings
G-Sincere
I-Excessive phone/computer use
G-Balancing relationship and self-care
B-Safety
N-Invalidating
B-Has self-directed goals
B-Talks about feelings
I-Demands all your time
G-Has goals
I-Jealousy
B-Patience
N-Takes self too seriously
N-Dismissive
G-Reliable
I-Self-centered
O-Apologize when wrong
N-Feeling left out
G-Accepting
O-Focusing on strengths
O-Compromise
I-Controlling
N-Defensiveness
B-Similar values
I-Blaming
B-Similar interests