Pressures Excessive phone/computer use Comparing yourself Disrespectful Invalidating Safety Has goals Comfort Encouragement Patience Balancing relationship and self- care Passive communication Reliable Dismissive Controlling Aggressive communication Apologize when wrong Problem- solving Sincere Share decision making Similar interests Listens Jealousy Talks about feelings Breaks promises Share feelings Compromise Self- centered Honesty Ignoring Cooperation Feeling left out Fight fair Being critical Respectful Offers solutions Trust Thoughtful I- statements Focusing on strengths Assertive communication Balanced giving and receiving Demands all your time Negotiates Active listening Have fun together Accepting Similar values Defensiveness Takes self too seriously Blaming Has self- directed goals Not expressing feelings Isolating Pressures Excessive phone/computer use Comparing yourself Disrespectful Invalidating Safety Has goals Comfort Encouragement Patience Balancing relationship and self- care Passive communication Reliable Dismissive Controlling Aggressive communication Apologize when wrong Problem- solving Sincere Share decision making Similar interests Listens Jealousy Talks about feelings Breaks promises Share feelings Compromise Self- centered Honesty Ignoring Cooperation Feeling left out Fight fair Being critical Respectful Offers solutions Trust Thoughtful I- statements Focusing on strengths Assertive communication Balanced giving and receiving Demands all your time Negotiates Active listening Have fun together Accepting Similar values Defensiveness Takes self too seriously Blaming Has self- directed goals Not expressing feelings Isolating
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Pressures
I-Excessive phone/computer use
N-Comparing yourself
I-Disrespectful
N-Invalidating
B-Safety
G-Has goals
B-Comfort
G-Encouragement
B-Patience
G-Balancing relationship and self-care
N-Passive communication
G-Reliable
N-Dismissive
I-Controlling
N-Aggressive communication
O-Apologize when wrong
O-Problem-solving
G-Sincere
O-Share decision making
B-Similar interests
B-Listens
I-Jealousy
B-Talks about feelings
I-Breaks promises
O-Share feelings
O-Compromise
I-Self-centered
G-Honesty
I-Ignoring
B-Cooperation
N-Feeling left out
O-Fight fair
N-Being critical
G-Respectful
O-Offers solutions
B-Trust
G-Thoughtful
O-I-statements
O-Focusing on strengths
O-Assertive communication
B-Balanced giving and receiving
I-Demands all your time
G-Negotiates
O-Active listening
G-Have fun together
G-Accepting
B-Similar values
N-Defensiveness
N-Takes self too seriously
I-Blaming
B-Has self-directed goals
N-Not expressing feelings
I-Isolating