Isolating Cooperation Similar values Apologize when wrong Thoughtful Assertive communication Takes self too seriously Safety Trust Have fun together Blaming Similar interests Invalidating Share decision making Patience I- statements Comfort Passive communication Being critical Self- centered Respectful Pressures Fight fair Not expressing feelings Compromise Ignoring Has goals Listens Accepting Dismissive Excessive phone/computer use Share feelings Encouragement Offers solutions Talks about feelings Demands all your time Negotiates Aggressive communication Breaks promises Active listening Balanced giving and receiving Has self- directed goals Reliable Balancing relationship and self- care Comparing yourself Sincere Disrespectful Honesty Defensiveness Jealousy Problem- solving Focusing on strengths Controlling Feeling left out Isolating Cooperation Similar values Apologize when wrong Thoughtful Assertive communication Takes self too seriously Safety Trust Have fun together Blaming Similar interests Invalidating Share decision making Patience I- statements Comfort Passive communication Being critical Self- centered Respectful Pressures Fight fair Not expressing feelings Compromise Ignoring Has goals Listens Accepting Dismissive Excessive phone/computer use Share feelings Encouragement Offers solutions Talks about feelings Demands all your time Negotiates Aggressive communication Breaks promises Active listening Balanced giving and receiving Has self- directed goals Reliable Balancing relationship and self- care Comparing yourself Sincere Disrespectful Honesty Defensiveness Jealousy Problem- solving Focusing on strengths Controlling Feeling left out
(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
I-Isolating
B-Cooperation
B-Similar values
O-Apologize when wrong
G-Thoughtful
O-Assertive communication
N-Takes self too seriously
B-Safety
B-Trust
G-Have fun together
I-Blaming
B-Similar interests
N-Invalidating
O-Share decision making
B-Patience
O-I-statements
B-Comfort
N-Passive communication
N-Being critical
I-Self-centered
G-Respectful
I-Pressures
O-Fight fair
N-Not expressing feelings
O-Compromise
I-Ignoring
G-Has goals
B-Listens
G-Accepting
N-Dismissive
I-Excessive phone/computer use
O-Share feelings
G-Encouragement
O-Offers solutions
B-Talks about feelings
I-Demands all your time
G-Negotiates
N-Aggressive communication
I-Breaks promises
O-Active listening
B-Balanced giving and receiving
B-Has self-directed goals
G-Reliable
G-Balancing relationship and self-care
N-Comparing yourself
G-Sincere
I-Disrespectful
G-Honesty
N-Defensiveness
I-Jealousy
O-Problem-solving
O-Focusing on strengths
I-Controlling
N-Feeling left out