Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Consistentlychecking inGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goFree!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Offer towalk themhomeBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"I don'tknow" isnotconsentCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Consistentlychecking inGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goFree!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Offer towalk themhomeBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"I don'tknow" isnotconsentCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Say youneed tostop andsober up.

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  3. Absence of no does not mean yes
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  6. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  7. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  8. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  9. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  10. Consistently checking in
  11. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  12. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  13. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  14. Free!
  15. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  16. Offer to walk them home
  17. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  18. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  19. "I don't know" is not consent
  20. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  21. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  22. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  23. Say you need to stop and sober up.