Absenceof nodoes notmean yesBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomeCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsistentlychecking inYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!Absenceof nodoes notmean yesBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomeCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsistentlychecking inYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherFree!

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  3. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  4. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  5. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  6. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  7. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  8. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  9. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  10. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  11. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  12. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  13. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  14. "I don't know" is not consent
  15. Offer to walk them home
  16. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  17. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  18. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  19. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  20. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  21. Consistently checking in
  22. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  23. Free!