Absenceof nodoes notmean yes"I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomeBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedFree!Consistentlychecking inAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Absenceof nodoes notmean yes"I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomeBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedFree!Consistentlychecking inAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. "I don't know" is not consent
  3. Offer to walk them home
  4. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  5. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  6. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  7. Free!
  8. Consistently checking in
  9. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  10. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  11. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  12. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  15. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  17. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  18. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  19. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  20. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  21. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  22. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  23. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?