Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsOffer towalk themhomeGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free!Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsFree square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Consistentlychecking inBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsOffer towalk themhomeGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Free!Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsFree square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Consistentlychecking inBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  2. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  3. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  4. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  5. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  6. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  7. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  8. Offer to walk them home
  9. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  10. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  11. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  12. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  13. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  14. Free!
  15. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  16. Absence of no does not mean yes
  17. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  18. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  19. Consistently checking in
  20. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  21. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  22. "I don't know" is not consent
  23. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?