Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedOffer towalk themhomeAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopSay youneed tostop andsober up.Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsConsistentlychecking inYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent"I don'tknow" isnotconsentYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedOffer towalk themhomeAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopSay youneed tostop andsober up.Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsConsistentlychecking inYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Free square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsent"I don'tknow" isnotconsent

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  2. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  3. Offer to walk them home
  4. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  5. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  6. Absence of no does not mean yes
  7. Free!
  8. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  9. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  10. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  11. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  12. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  13. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  14. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  15. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  16. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  17. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  18. Consistently checking in
  19. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  20. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  21. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  22. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  23. "I don't know" is not consent