Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsistentlychecking inAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop"I don'tknow" isnotconsentCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Offer towalk themhomeFree square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Free!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsistentlychecking inAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stop"I don'tknow" isnotconsentCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Offer towalk themhomeFree square-ask theperson nextto you forconsent!Free!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  2. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  3. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  4. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  5. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  6. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  7. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  8. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  9. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  10. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  11. Consistently checking in
  12. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  13. "I don't know" is not consent
  14. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  15. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  16. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  17. Absence of no does not mean yes
  18. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  19. Offer to walk them home
  20. Free square- ask the person next to you for consent!
  21. Free!
  22. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  23. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.