Absenceof nodoes notmean yesSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsConsistentlychecking inAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"I don'tknow" isnotconsentYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Free!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopOffer towalk themhome"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSay youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsConsistentlychecking inAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"I don'tknow" isnotconsentYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Free!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopOffer towalk themhome"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSay youneed tostop andsober up.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsent

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  4. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  5. Consistently checking in
  6. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  7. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  8. "I don't know" is not consent
  9. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  10. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  11. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  12. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  15. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  16. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  17. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  18. Offer to walk them home
  19. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  20. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  21. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  22. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent