"I don'tknow" isnotconsentConsistentlychecking inFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsOffer towalk themhomeSay youneed tostop andsober up.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?"I don'tknow" isnotconsentConsistentlychecking inFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsOffer towalk themhomeSay youneed tostop andsober up.Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. "I don't know" is not consent
  2. Consistently checking in
  3. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  4. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  5. Absence of no does not mean yes
  6. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  7. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  8. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  9. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  10. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  11. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  12. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  13. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  14. Offer to walk them home
  15. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  16. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  17. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  18. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  19. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  20. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  21. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  22. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?