Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConsistentlychecking inIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Offer towalk themhomeIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goConsistentlychecking inIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Offer towalk themhomeIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!"I don'tknow" isnotconsentSay youneed tostop andsober up.Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneeds"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  3. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  4. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  5. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  6. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  7. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  8. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  9. Consistently checking in
  10. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  11. Offer to walk them home
  12. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  13. "I don't know" is not consent
  14. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  15. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  17. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  18. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  19. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  20. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  21. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  22. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?