Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomeCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherConsistentlychecking inFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goOffer towalk themhomeCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherConsistentlychecking inFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  2. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  3. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  4. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  5. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  6. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  7. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  8. Absence of no does not mean yes
  9. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  10. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  11. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  12. Offer to walk them home
  13. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  14. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  15. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  16. "I don't know" is not consent
  17. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  18. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  19. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  20. Consistently checking in
  21. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  22. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?