Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Consistentlychecking inCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopSay youneed tostop andsober up.Free!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhomeConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Consistentlychecking inCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopSay youneed tostop andsober up.Free!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?""I don'tknow" isnotconsentOffer towalk themhome

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  2. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  3. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  4. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  5. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  6. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  7. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  8. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  9. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  10. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  11. Consistently checking in
  12. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  13. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  14. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  15. Absence of no does not mean yes
  16. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  17. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  18. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  19. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  20. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  21. "I don't know" is not consent
  22. Offer to walk them home