Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Offer towalk themhomeIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Consistentlychecking inGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa."Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Offer towalk themhomeIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Because of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Consistentlychecking inGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to dance

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  2. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  3. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  4. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  5. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  6. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  7. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  8. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  9. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  10. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  11. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  12. "I don't know" is not consent
  13. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  14. Absence of no does not mean yes
  15. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  16. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  17. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  18. Offer to walk them home
  19. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  20. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  21. Consistently checking in
  22. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance