Absenceof nodoes notmean yesConsistentlychecking in"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsOffer towalk themhomeFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?Absenceof nodoes notmean yesConsistentlychecking in"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsOffer towalk themhomeFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Say youneed tostop andsober up.Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Consent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsI’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopCongratulations!Can I give you ahug?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. Consistently checking in
  3. "I don't know" is not consent
  4. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  5. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  6. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  7. Offer to walk them home
  8. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  9. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  10. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  11. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  12. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  13. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  14. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  15. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  16. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  17. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  18. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  19. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  20. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  21. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  22. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?