Absenceof nodoes notmean yesOffer towalk themhome"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopConsistentlychecking inIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Absenceof nodoes notmean yesOffer towalk themhome"I don'tknow" isnotconsentBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Your partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Ask if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopConsistentlychecking inIs kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?Speak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumors"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!Say youneed tostop andsober up.Give them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceBeing in arelationshipis notassumedconsentAsk if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goIf they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanotherConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsReiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossedFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Absence of no does not mean yes
  2. Offer to walk them home
  3. "I don't know" is not consent
  4. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  5. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  6. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  7. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?
  8. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  9. Consistently checking in
  10. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  11. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  12. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  13. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  14. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  15. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  16. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  17. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  18. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  19. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  20. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  21. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  22. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)