Say youneed tostop andsober up.Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesConsistentlychecking inConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Offer towalk themhomeBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?Say youneed tostop andsober up.Is kissing youhere okay? Ifnot, can you tellme where youliked to bekissed?I’m sorry that’shappening, isthere anything Ican do to makeyou feel safe inthe workplace?Reiterate yourboundaries,seek supportif they’recrossed"Have you askedthe survivor if theywant this shared?Have youconnected them toresources?"Ask if they'rewilling tomeet up totalk, if not,let it goAbsenceof nodoes notmean yesConsistentlychecking inConsent existsbetweenroommates too,feel free toexpress yourneedsAsk them if they'reokay and provideconfidentialresources. Onlyreport withconsent!If they say they alsowant to moveforward, make a planabout checking inand reiterating thatyou can always stopwithout any pressure!Being in arelationshipis notassumedconsentSpeak privately toperson accusedand seek supportfrom ProjectSAFE. Don’tspread rumorsFree!Ask the personnext to you fora high five! (Nois okay!)Offer towalk themhomeBecause of thepower imbalance,that relationshipwould not allow youto give consentfreely, have youthought of going toProject SAFE?Yes to onething doesnot meanyes toanother"I don'tknow" isnotconsentGive them awarning andexplain thatpeople don'twant to danceAsk if they'restill okay withgoing forwardand reiterate it’sokay to stopYour partnershould alwaysask for consentbefore stoppingbirth control andvice versa.Congratulations!Can I give you ahug?

General Consent Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Say you need to stop and sober up.
  2. Is kissing you here okay? If not, can you tell me where you liked to be kissed?
  3. I’m sorry that’s happening, is there anything I can do to make you feel safe in the workplace?
  4. Reiterate your boundaries, seek support if they’re crossed
  5. "Have you asked the survivor if they want this shared? Have you connected them to resources?"
  6. Ask if they're willing to meet up to talk, if not, let it go
  7. Absence of no does not mean yes
  8. Consistently checking in
  9. Consent exists between roommates too, feel free to express your needs
  10. Ask them if they're okay and provide confidential resources. Only report with consent!
  11. If they say they also want to move forward, make a plan about checking in and reiterating that you can always stop without any pressure!
  12. Being in a relationship is not assumed consent
  13. Speak privately to person accused and seek support from Project SAFE. Don’t spread rumors
  14. Free! Ask the person next to you for a high five! (No is okay!)
  15. Offer to walk them home
  16. Because of the power imbalance, that relationship would not allow you to give consent freely, have you thought of going to Project SAFE?
  17. Yes to one thing does not mean yes to another
  18. "I don't know" is not consent
  19. Give them a warning and explain that people don't want to dance
  20. Ask if they're still okay with going forward and reiterate it’s okay to stop
  21. Your partner should always ask for consent before stopping birth control and vice versa.
  22. Congratulations! Can I give you a hug?