ConditionalgenerosityAren'tproud toknow meLie toothersTry tochangeyour mindSelf-deprecatingLack ofgratitude orappreciationAreenviousor jealousAngermanagementissuesWant tospend alltheir timewith youJudgmentalDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesCall andtextfrequentlyRefuse tocompromiseIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'trespectboundariesSet self-servingexpectationsof youAren'tkind tootherpeopleMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tstand upfor meDon'tlistento meOvershareDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyDon't takecare ofthemselvesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityAresecretiveRaisetheirvoiceCriticalArecontrollingUseguiltDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesSpeaknegativelyAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesUsesubstancesExploitvulnerabilitiesDiscourageseparateinterestsDon'ttrustpeopleLie toyouConditionalgenerosityAren'tproud toknow meLie toothersTry tochangeyour mindSelf-deprecatingLack ofgratitude orappreciationAreenviousor jealousAngermanagementissuesWant tospend alltheir timewith youJudgmentalDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesCall andtextfrequentlyRefuse tocompromiseIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'trespectboundariesSet self-servingexpectationsof youAren'tkind tootherpeopleMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tstand upfor meDon'tlistento meOvershareDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyDon't takecare ofthemselvesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityAresecretiveRaisetheirvoiceCriticalArecontrollingUseguiltDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesSpeaknegativelyAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesUsesubstancesExploitvulnerabilitiesDiscourageseparateinterestsDon'ttrustpeopleLie toyou

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Conditional generosity
  2. Aren't proud to know me
  3. Lie to others
  4. Try to change your mind
  5. Self-deprecating
  6. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  7. Are envious or jealous
  8. Anger management issues
  9. Want to spend all their time with you
  10. Judgmental
  11. Don't share my beliefs or values
  12. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  13. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  14. Call and text frequently
  15. Refuse to compromise
  16. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  17. Don't respect boundaries
  18. Set self-serving expectations of you
  19. Aren't kind to other people
  20. Make jokes at my expense
  21. Don't stand up for me
  22. Don't listen to me
  23. Overshare
  24. Declaring big feelings early
  25. Don't take care of themselves
  26. Don't apologize or take accountability
  27. Are secretive
  28. Raise their voice
  29. Critical
  30. Are controlling
  31. Use guilt
  32. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  33. Speak negatively
  34. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  35. Use substances
  36. Exploit vulnerabilities
  37. Discourage separate interests
  38. Don't trust people
  39. Lie to you