Makejokes atmyexpenseDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyRefuse tocompromiseDon'tlistento meJudgmentalAreenviousor jealousOvershareLie toyouAren'tproud toknow meDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tstand upfor meSelf-deprecatingRaisetheirvoiceDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDiscourageseparateinterestsAresecretiveConditionalgenerosityLie toothersAngermanagementissuesAren'tkind tootherpeopleCriticalDon'ttrustpeopleDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyWant tospend alltheir timewith youArecontrollingCall andtextfrequentlyDon't takecare ofthemselvesSpeaknegativelyExploitvulnerabilitiesUsesubstancesSet self-servingexpectationsof youDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationUseguiltTry tochangeyour mindDon'trespectboundariesAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityMakejokes atmyexpenseDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyRefuse tocompromiseDon'tlistento meJudgmentalAreenviousor jealousOvershareLie toyouAren'tproud toknow meDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tstand upfor meSelf-deprecatingRaisetheirvoiceDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDiscourageseparateinterestsAresecretiveConditionalgenerosityLie toothersAngermanagementissuesAren'tkind tootherpeopleCriticalDon'ttrustpeopleDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyWant tospend alltheir timewith youArecontrollingCall andtextfrequentlyDon't takecare ofthemselvesSpeaknegativelyExploitvulnerabilitiesUsesubstancesSet self-servingexpectationsof youDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationUseguiltTry tochangeyour mindDon'trespectboundariesAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountability

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Make jokes at my expense
  2. Declaring big feelings early
  3. Refuse to compromise
  4. Don't listen to me
  5. Judgmental
  6. Are envious or jealous
  7. Overshare
  8. Lie to you
  9. Aren't proud to know me
  10. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  11. Don't stand up for me
  12. Self-deprecating
  13. Raise their voice
  14. Don't share my beliefs or values
  15. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  16. Discourage separate interests
  17. Are secretive
  18. Conditional generosity
  19. Lie to others
  20. Anger management issues
  21. Aren't kind to other people
  22. Critical
  23. Don't trust people
  24. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  25. Want to spend all their time with you
  26. Are controlling
  27. Call and text frequently
  28. Don't take care of themselves
  29. Speak negatively
  30. Exploit vulnerabilities
  31. Use substances
  32. Set self-serving expectations of you
  33. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  34. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  35. Use guilt
  36. Try to change your mind
  37. Don't respect boundaries
  38. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  39. Don't apologize or take accountability