Set self-servingexpectationsof youDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesAngermanagementissuesCriticalAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesExploitvulnerabilitiesDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesArecontrollingDon'tlistento meDon'tstand upfor meWant tospend alltheir timewith youAresecretiveIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon't takecare ofthemselvesOvershareAreenviousor jealousAren'tproud toknow meDon'ttrustpeopleDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesAren'tkind tootherpeopleDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityConditionalgenerosityLie toyouUsesubstancesLack ofgratitude orappreciationCall andtextfrequentlySelf-deprecatingDon'trespectboundariesMakejokes atmyexpenseDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyRefuse tocompromiseJudgmentalDiscourageseparateinterestsRaisetheirvoiceUseguiltLie toothersTry tochangeyour mindSpeaknegativelyDeclaringbigfeelingsearlySet self-servingexpectationsof youDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesAngermanagementissuesCriticalAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesExploitvulnerabilitiesDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesArecontrollingDon'tlistento meDon'tstand upfor meWant tospend alltheir timewith youAresecretiveIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon't takecare ofthemselvesOvershareAreenviousor jealousAren'tproud toknow meDon'ttrustpeopleDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesAren'tkind tootherpeopleDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityConditionalgenerosityLie toyouUsesubstancesLack ofgratitude orappreciationCall andtextfrequentlySelf-deprecatingDon'trespectboundariesMakejokes atmyexpenseDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyRefuse tocompromiseJudgmentalDiscourageseparateinterestsRaisetheirvoiceUseguiltLie toothersTry tochangeyour mindSpeaknegativelyDeclaringbigfeelingsearly

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Set self-serving expectations of you
  2. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  3. Anger management issues
  4. Critical
  5. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  6. Exploit vulnerabilities
  7. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  8. Are controlling
  9. Don't listen to me
  10. Don't stand up for me
  11. Want to spend all their time with you
  12. Are secretive
  13. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  14. Don't take care of themselves
  15. Overshare
  16. Are envious or jealous
  17. Aren't proud to know me
  18. Don't trust people
  19. Don't share my beliefs or values
  20. Aren't kind to other people
  21. Don't apologize or take accountability
  22. Conditional generosity
  23. Lie to you
  24. Use substances
  25. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  26. Call and text frequently
  27. Self-deprecating
  28. Don't respect boundaries
  29. Make jokes at my expense
  30. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  31. Refuse to compromise
  32. Judgmental
  33. Discourage separate interests
  34. Raise their voice
  35. Use guilt
  36. Lie to others
  37. Try to change your mind
  38. Speak negatively
  39. Declaring big feelings early