Don't takecare ofthemselvesAren'tkind tootherpeopleRaisetheirvoiceLie toyouAngermanagementissuesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableExploitvulnerabilitiesLie toothersDon'trespectboundariesJudgmentalAreenviousor jealousCriticalLack ofgratitude orappreciationDon'tlistento meUsesubstancesDon'tstand upfor meDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesCall andtextfrequentlyOvershareDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilitySpeaknegativelyDeclaringbigfeelingsearlySelf-deprecatingDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyArecontrollingRefuse tocompromiseDon'ttrustpeopleUseguiltAren'tproud toknow meAresecretiveAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesConditionalgenerosityWant tospend alltheir timewith youDiscourageseparateinterestsSet self-servingexpectationsof youMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesTry tochangeyour mindDon't takecare ofthemselvesAren'tkind tootherpeopleRaisetheirvoiceLie toyouAngermanagementissuesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableExploitvulnerabilitiesLie toothersDon'trespectboundariesJudgmentalAreenviousor jealousCriticalLack ofgratitude orappreciationDon'tlistento meUsesubstancesDon'tstand upfor meDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesCall andtextfrequentlyOvershareDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilitySpeaknegativelyDeclaringbigfeelingsearlySelf-deprecatingDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyArecontrollingRefuse tocompromiseDon'ttrustpeopleUseguiltAren'tproud toknow meAresecretiveAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesConditionalgenerosityWant tospend alltheir timewith youDiscourageseparateinterestsSet self-servingexpectationsof youMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesTry tochangeyour mind

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Don't take care of themselves
  2. Aren't kind to other people
  3. Raise their voice
  4. Lie to you
  5. Anger management issues
  6. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  7. Exploit vulnerabilities
  8. Lie to others
  9. Don't respect boundaries
  10. Judgmental
  11. Are envious or jealous
  12. Critical
  13. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  14. Don't listen to me
  15. Use substances
  16. Don't stand up for me
  17. Don't share my beliefs or values
  18. Call and text frequently
  19. Overshare
  20. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  21. Don't apologize or take accountability
  22. Speak negatively
  23. Declaring big feelings early
  24. Self-deprecating
  25. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  26. Are controlling
  27. Refuse to compromise
  28. Don't trust people
  29. Use guilt
  30. Aren't proud to know me
  31. Are secretive
  32. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  33. Conditional generosity
  34. Want to spend all their time with you
  35. Discourage separate interests
  36. Set self-serving expectations of you
  37. Make jokes at my expense
  38. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  39. Try to change your mind