AresecretiveDiscourageseparateinterestsSet self-servingexpectationsof youAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesArecontrollingAren'tproud toknow meLie toyouSpeaknegativelyUseguiltMakejokes atmyexpenseConditionalgenerosityAreenviousor jealousLie toothersDon'ttrustpeopleDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesUsesubstancesDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyOvershareCriticalDon'tstand upfor meDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyExploitvulnerabilitiesJudgmentalIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableTry tochangeyour mindDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon't takecare ofthemselvesAngermanagementissuesSelf-deprecatingRefuse tocompromiseDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationRaisetheirvoiceDon'tlistento meWant tospend alltheir timewith youAren'tkind tootherpeopleDon'trespectboundariesCall andtextfrequentlyAresecretiveDiscourageseparateinterestsSet self-servingexpectationsof youAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesArecontrollingAren'tproud toknow meLie toyouSpeaknegativelyUseguiltMakejokes atmyexpenseConditionalgenerosityAreenviousor jealousLie toothersDon'ttrustpeopleDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesUsesubstancesDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyOvershareCriticalDon'tstand upfor meDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyExploitvulnerabilitiesJudgmentalIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableTry tochangeyour mindDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon't takecare ofthemselvesAngermanagementissuesSelf-deprecatingRefuse tocompromiseDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationRaisetheirvoiceDon'tlistento meWant tospend alltheir timewith youAren'tkind tootherpeopleDon'trespectboundariesCall andtextfrequently

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Are secretive
  2. Discourage separate interests
  3. Set self-serving expectations of you
  4. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  5. Are controlling
  6. Aren't proud to know me
  7. Lie to you
  8. Speak negatively
  9. Use guilt
  10. Make jokes at my expense
  11. Conditional generosity
  12. Are envious or jealous
  13. Lie to others
  14. Don't trust people
  15. Don't apologize or take accountability
  16. Don't share my beliefs or values
  17. Use substances
  18. Declaring big feelings early
  19. Overshare
  20. Critical
  21. Don't stand up for me
  22. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  23. Exploit vulnerabilities
  24. Judgmental
  25. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  26. Try to change your mind
  27. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  28. Don't take care of themselves
  29. Anger management issues
  30. Self-deprecating
  31. Refuse to compromise
  32. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  33. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  34. Raise their voice
  35. Don't listen to me
  36. Want to spend all their time with you
  37. Aren't kind to other people
  38. Don't respect boundaries
  39. Call and text frequently