UsesubstancesExploitvulnerabilitiesDiscourageseparateinterestsLie toothersArecontrollingSelf-deprecatingIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'tstand upfor meCall andtextfrequentlySpeaknegativelyAresecretiveDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesDon'tlistento meAren'tproud toknow meLack ofgratitude orappreciationDon't takecare ofthemselvesAreenviousor jealousSet self-servingexpectationsof youWant tospend alltheir timewith youMakejokes atmyexpenseJudgmentalRefuse tocompromiseConditionalgenerosityUseguiltAngermanagementissuesCriticalAren'tkind tootherpeopleDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyOvershareDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesLie toyouRaisetheirvoiceAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesDon'trespectboundariesTry tochangeyour mindDon'ttrustpeopleUsesubstancesExploitvulnerabilitiesDiscourageseparateinterestsLie toothersArecontrollingSelf-deprecatingIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'tstand upfor meCall andtextfrequentlySpeaknegativelyAresecretiveDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesDon'tlistento meAren'tproud toknow meLack ofgratitude orappreciationDon't takecare ofthemselvesAreenviousor jealousSet self-servingexpectationsof youWant tospend alltheir timewith youMakejokes atmyexpenseJudgmentalRefuse tocompromiseConditionalgenerosityUseguiltAngermanagementissuesCriticalAren'tkind tootherpeopleDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyOvershareDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesLie toyouRaisetheirvoiceAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesDon'trespectboundariesTry tochangeyour mindDon'ttrustpeople

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Use substances
  2. Exploit vulnerabilities
  3. Discourage separate interests
  4. Lie to others
  5. Are controlling
  6. Self-deprecating
  7. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  8. Don't stand up for me
  9. Call and text frequently
  10. Speak negatively
  11. Are secretive
  12. Don't share my beliefs or values
  13. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  14. Don't apologize or take accountability
  15. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  16. Don't listen to me
  17. Aren't proud to know me
  18. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  19. Don't take care of themselves
  20. Are envious or jealous
  21. Set self-serving expectations of you
  22. Want to spend all their time with you
  23. Make jokes at my expense
  24. Judgmental
  25. Refuse to compromise
  26. Conditional generosity
  27. Use guilt
  28. Anger management issues
  29. Critical
  30. Aren't kind to other people
  31. Declaring big feelings early
  32. Overshare
  33. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  34. Lie to you
  35. Raise their voice
  36. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  37. Don't respect boundaries
  38. Try to change your mind
  39. Don't trust people