ConditionalgenerosityLack ofgratitude orappreciationLie toothersArecontrollingCriticalAresecretiveTry tochangeyour mindJudgmentalOvershareSpeaknegativelySet self-servingexpectationsof youSelf-deprecatingDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyAngermanagementissuesAren'tproud toknow meDon'ttrustpeopleLie toyouAren'tkind tootherpeopleAreenviousor jealousMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tstand upfor meExploitvulnerabilitiesDon'trespectboundariesDon'tlistento meDon't takecare ofthemselvesAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesWant tospend alltheir timewith youUseguiltRaisetheirvoiceRefuse tocompromiseDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyUsesubstancesCall andtextfrequentlyDiscourageseparateinterestsConditionalgenerosityLack ofgratitude orappreciationLie toothersArecontrollingCriticalAresecretiveTry tochangeyour mindJudgmentalOvershareSpeaknegativelySet self-servingexpectationsof youSelf-deprecatingDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyAngermanagementissuesAren'tproud toknow meDon'ttrustpeopleLie toyouAren'tkind tootherpeopleAreenviousor jealousMakejokes atmyexpenseDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesDon'tstand upfor meExploitvulnerabilitiesDon'trespectboundariesDon'tlistento meDon't takecare ofthemselvesAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesWant tospend alltheir timewith youUseguiltRaisetheirvoiceRefuse tocompromiseDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyUsesubstancesCall andtextfrequentlyDiscourageseparateinterests

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Conditional generosity
  2. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  3. Lie to others
  4. Are controlling
  5. Critical
  6. Are secretive
  7. Try to change your mind
  8. Judgmental
  9. Overshare
  10. Speak negatively
  11. Set self-serving expectations of you
  12. Self-deprecating
  13. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  14. Anger management issues
  15. Aren't proud to know me
  16. Don't trust people
  17. Lie to you
  18. Aren't kind to other people
  19. Are envious or jealous
  20. Make jokes at my expense
  21. Don't apologize or take accountability
  22. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  23. Don't stand up for me
  24. Exploit vulnerabilities
  25. Don't respect boundaries
  26. Don't listen to me
  27. Don't take care of themselves
  28. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  29. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  30. Don't share my beliefs or values
  31. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  32. Want to spend all their time with you
  33. Use guilt
  34. Raise their voice
  35. Refuse to compromise
  36. Declaring big feelings early
  37. Use substances
  38. Call and text frequently
  39. Discourage separate interests