ArecontrollingLie toyouRaisetheirvoiceAreenviousor jealousDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesConditionalgenerosityRefuse tocompromiseDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationSpeaknegativelyDiscourageseparateinterestsCriticalDon'tlistento meAngermanagementissuesWant tospend alltheir timewith youExploitvulnerabilitiesDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyUsesubstancesDon'ttrustpeopleSelf-deprecatingAren'tkind tootherpeopleMakejokes atmyexpenseAren'tproud toknow meDon'tstand upfor meIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon't takecare ofthemselvesTry tochangeyour mindOvershareAresecretiveDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesCall andtextfrequentlyUseguiltSet self-servingexpectationsof youDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyJudgmentalAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesLie toothersDon'trespectboundariesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountabilityArecontrollingLie toyouRaisetheirvoiceAreenviousor jealousDon'tcommunicatetheir needsand wishesConditionalgenerosityRefuse tocompromiseDon'tconsider myneeds andwishesLack ofgratitude orappreciationSpeaknegativelyDiscourageseparateinterestsCriticalDon'tlistento meAngermanagementissuesWant tospend alltheir timewith youExploitvulnerabilitiesDeclaringbigfeelingsearlyUsesubstancesDon'ttrustpeopleSelf-deprecatingAren'tkind tootherpeopleMakejokes atmyexpenseAren'tproud toknow meDon'tstand upfor meIrresponsible,impulsive orunpredictableDon't takecare ofthemselvesTry tochangeyour mindOvershareAresecretiveDon'tshare mybeliefs orvaluesCall andtextfrequentlyUseguiltSet self-servingexpectationsof youDiscouragetime spentwith otherfriends andfamilyJudgmentalAren'ttrying toimprovethemselvesLie toothersDon'trespectboundariesDon'tapologize ortakeaccountability

Red Flag Behaviors - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Are controlling
  2. Lie to you
  3. Raise their voice
  4. Are envious or jealous
  5. Don't communicate their needs and wishes
  6. Conditional generosity
  7. Refuse to compromise
  8. Don't consider my needs and wishes
  9. Lack of gratitude or appreciation
  10. Speak negatively
  11. Discourage separate interests
  12. Critical
  13. Don't listen to me
  14. Anger management issues
  15. Want to spend all their time with you
  16. Exploit vulnerabilities
  17. Declaring big feelings early
  18. Use substances
  19. Don't trust people
  20. Self-deprecating
  21. Aren't kind to other people
  22. Make jokes at my expense
  23. Aren't proud to know me
  24. Don't stand up for me
  25. Irresponsible, impulsive or unpredictable
  26. Don't take care of themselves
  27. Try to change your mind
  28. Overshare
  29. Are secretive
  30. Don't share my beliefs or values
  31. Call and text frequently
  32. Use guilt
  33. Set self-serving expectations of you
  34. Discourage time spent with other friends and family
  35. Judgmental
  36. Aren't trying to improve themselves
  37. Lie to others
  38. Don't respect boundaries
  39. Don't apologize or take accountability